Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75 (Post 2709509)

?????? wat u trying to say?

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 2709532)

My wife got so pissed off with her parents and family until she don't even want to go back to province when we were in HCMC for the past 4 days

Originally Posted by Honey Boon (Post 2709533)

"1. If you married her and she become your wife, ...................... "

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75 (Post 2709583)

:confused:

then should I write "if you married her and she become your husband?" :confused::confused:

Originally Posted by Thom07 (Post 2709628)

Not sure if I had the right interpretation of his words. I think what Bro HB means that since you had married her then she is definitely your wife already so "she become your wife" is rather redundant in this case.

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75 (Post 2708873)

Yes u can....but I never do that....I just apply PR for my wife straight after ROM...why leh? u getting married? to that "pal" after your VN trip :D

and one more thing...knn...ask me my SG hp have on or not...but in the end urs u never on when u in vn...try contact u but cannot

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok (Post 2710255)

Bro, don't be like this la. anyway u r returning to singapore on 13 April, so I don't disturb u so much.

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 2709532)

Bro, u can sponsor yr mother-in-law to come for up to 3 months after delivery. But if your wife has gotten PR, she can arranged for her parents to come to singapore for up to 5 years. Most vietnamese spouse will request for either they go back Vietnam to deliver or let their mother come singapore. Just tell her that 3 months the max allowed by government, nothing more than that. After delivery, she will not be so free to go ICA to ask for details. When u marry viet spouse, u are marrying half their village or province ;) Unless you have good reasons to convince your wife that her family doesn't love her, just her money. Most vietnamese parents from province use their daughters as money making machine and if your wife happen to be in the same situation, making her sense that will do you a lot of good. My wife got so pissed off with her parents and family until she don't even want to go back to province when we were in HCMC for the past 4 days :cool:

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75 (Post 2708893)

I dont know who are u Mr Koh :D

Originally Posted by papillon30 (Post 2710570)

Wifey must be really pissed to do that. Normally Viet wifey will drag foreign hubby to stay in village for weeks (even months) whenever she returned home for holiday.:D

Originally Posted by Thom07 (Post 2709628)

Not sure if I had the right interpretation of his words. I think what Bro HB means that since you had married her then she is definitely your wife already so "she become your wife" is rather redundant in this case.

Originally Posted by Honey Boon (Post 2709440)

Bro, from my own experience, I have this Chinese statement for you:

请神容易，送神难！

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 2709532)

Bro, u can sponsor yr mother-in-law to come for up to 3 months after delivery. But if your wife has gotten PR, she can arranged for her parents to come to singapore for up to 5 years. Most vietnamese spouse will request for either they go back Vietnam to deliver or let their mother come singapore. Just tell her that 3 months the max allowed by government, nothing more than that. After delivery, she will not be so free to go ICA to ask for details. When u marry viet spouse, u are marrying half their village or province. Unless you have good reasons to convince your wife that her family doesn't love her, just her money. Most vietnamese parents from province use their daughters as money making machine and if your wife happen to be in the same situation, making her sense that will do you a lot of good. My wife got so pissed off with her parents and family until she don't even want to go back to province when we were in HCMC for the past 4 days

Originally Posted by papillon30 (Post 2710570)

Wifey must be really pissed to do that. Normally Viet wifey will drag foreign hubby to stay in village for weeks (even months) whenever she returned
home for holiday.

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 2710768)

Her mother has recently bought two cows and 4 pigs, and the best of all, still have a few thousand USD to invest in another business. Only heard these news from her elder sister who is also quite pissed off with her mother too. And for bros who don't know, 2 cows and 4 pigs cost another few thousand USD.

Originally Posted by technofreak (Post 2711152)

Going back to village = Spending more $$ (I'm not Santa Claus)

Originally Posted by technofreak (Post 2711152)

Max is 1 month for me!! Cant stand the sight of her mum man...

Originally Posted by Honey Boon (Post 2711014)

haha, brother. You sound like my secondary school english teacher. Yes, I was trying to joke with bro Sha_Gua....

I thought my joke was rather "cold", that's why he didn't get it :D