Originally Posted by junior_cannibal (Post 20200382)

One other way is, if bro Warbird, allows me to add on, is to simultaneously develop several relationships, be it just makan, drinking kaki or FBs. So that when you have more alternatives for different moods and purposes each day.
The last thing you want, is to have the purpose written all over your face that you just want a quickie with the gal, unless you are a super handsome, 6 pack dude. There again, most gals wouldn't really want to be bedded by a Casanova, neither do they want a nerd. One thing for sure, they must not find you disgusting or cheap.

Originally Posted by warbird (Post 20196981)

Many men seem to be afraid of competition, whether it's biz, jobs, professions or women.

Very negative mental frame.

Instead, we should love competition. The more the better. Why? It gives meaning to 'success.' Otherwise, life is meaningless.

I also like to be the 'apparent' underdog. It compels me to work smarter and harder. And it gives even more meaning to 'success.'

We should also embrace change. There is no status quo in our known universe. Everything is constantly changing. Many people on top are afraid of change. They are insecure, needy and fearful. Very sad.

Supposing your very beautiful wife/LP/mistress/GF tells u that she is going to meet her high school sweetheart for lunch or she is going out w/ a young, handsome and rich man, you should smile n wish her a wonderful time.

She will be very impressed w/ your absolute confidence and self mastery. She knows she will NEVER meet another real MAN like you.

It's your golden chance to show her who is a real MAN n who is the little boy.

She knows instinctively that most men would get very jealous and insecure. And if you do, game over. That is the beginning of the end of your relationship w/ her. It doesn't matter if you have been w/ her 10 days or 10 years.

Never forget, not even for a split second, that you're the grand PRIZE.

You must behave as if 1,000 very chio and high quality girls of your type are calling you and wanting to fuck you everyday...

Your biggest problem is choosing which one of the girls to fuck today.

Cheers!

Bro WB

Originally Posted by sohbuckkong (Post 20201249)

I have to add that the way you fuck her is also an important factor to decide whether she will continue to cling to you.

This is because when fucking, the way you fuck her express accordingly how much you desire her.

By nature, a woman want her man to want her 100%. So if your fucking is not intense enough, you risk losing her. The more intense you fuck her, the more rough you fuck her, the message she received is that you want her, you are very hungry for her and I guarantee she will continue to cling to you as though she can't live without you.

My lady friends always told me "oh that girl continue to like that man because he must have been very good in sex".

Good luck.

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal (Post 20201685)

yes and no, the mental setup of a woman is quite different from man's. It's not about how much you desire her, it's more like how well you satisfy her. If she's a rather average gal, a good sex once a week is good enough. However, if she's a big sexual appetite, even once a day is not good enough. This is rare but don't say its impossible. 树林那么大，什么鸟都有。

Originally Posted by repairman (Post 20199843)

I would say my actions did not match what I posted. I still initiated contact with her. And with such a weak mental frame, I would say that gives her another chance to find fault and ask for a breakup. Indeed it just happened. This time round I will probably just leave it and work on my mental frames. It is really much harder than I thought it will be. Cheers for those guys who have such strong mental frames and mindset.

Originally Posted by sohbuckkong (Post 20200138)

You are a great inspiration bro.
Yes , hypothetically if one start to scold the girl that you hope to fuck, you will be surprise eventually she will gladly open her cheebye and let you fuck and she will want you to fuck her deeply into her cheebye too.

Never be her yes man, you will lose her.
Never be careful with yr words when communicating.
Don't be too gentlemen, be buaya sometimes too.
Of course to hook her, one must be generous too. Women are all bitchy by nature.

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal (Post 20200382)

One other way is, if bro Warbird, allows me to add on, is to simultaneously develop several relationships, be it just makan, drinking kaki or FBs. So that when you have more alternatives for different moods and purposes each day.
The last thing you want, is to have the purpose written all over your face that you just want a quickie with the gal, unless you are a super handsome, 6 pack dude. There again, most gals wouldn't really want to be bedded by a Casanova, neither do they want a nerd. One thing for sure, they must not find you disgusting or cheap.

Originally Posted by PuChoi (Post 20200470)

Fully agreed bro, never give in to them too much, maybe one out of ten times :)

Originally Posted by sohbuckkong (Post 20201249)

I have to add that the way you fuck her is also an important factor to decide whether she will continue to cling to you.

This is because when fucking, the way you fuck her express accordingly how much you desire her.

By nature, a woman want her man to want her 100%. So if your fucking is not intense enough, you risk losing her. The more intense you fuck her, the more rough you fuck her, the message she received is that you want her, you are very hungry for her and I guarantee she will continue to cling to you as though she can't live without you.

My lady friends always told me "oh that girl continue to like that man because he must have been very good in sex".

Good luck.

Originally Posted by unobtanium (Post 20201657)

Yes, bro I am the prize.

IMO, still need to have social skills and gentleman lol.

Thanks for sharing.

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal (Post 20201685)

yes and no, the mental setup of a woman is quite different from man's. It's not about how much you desire her, it's more like how well you satisfy her. If she's a rather average gal, a good sex once a week is good enough. However, if she's a big sexual appetite, even once a day is not good enough. This is rare but don't say its impossible. 树林那么大，什么鸟都有。

Originally Posted by SBMEDSUP (Post 20202888)

Also must be sincere and not play play.

Women can sense fake and vice versa.

Originally Posted by unobtanium (Post 20201657)

Yes, bro I am the prize.

IMO, still need to have social skills and gentleman lol.

Thanks for sharing.

Originally Posted by Takumi1983 (Post 20206947)

after reading abit of WB’s bro thread, a few bros here gave some good advice to others

a very good metamorphosis is the flame and the moth

for guys we want to be the flame to attract the moth, not the moth that will eventually be burn by the flame

Originally Posted by Takumi1983 (Post 20206947)

after reading abit of WB’s bro thread, a few bros here gave some good advice to others

a very good metamorphosis is the flame and the moth

for guys we want to be the flame to attract the moth, not the moth that will eventually be burn by the flame

Originally Posted by Andrea90 (Post 20206961)

Start by investing in yourself like for example dressing well and keeping yourself fit. That way your self confidence will increase and your physical stamina is a must. And remember to ask guys for advice as they will be more useful. A great man once told me do you think asking the fishermen how to fish is better or asking the fish what they like as bait:D

Originally Posted by Griezmann (Post 20208821)

Good advice bro, thanks!

Originally Posted by Takumi1983 (Post 20214332)

wonder how do some bros here talk to a girl after getting their contact, alot of guys want to know to get girl better but have no idea how to start a conversation and in the meantime not interrogating them like a criminal, alot of girls feel very uncomfortable if you do that

do share some light bros

Originally Posted by Andrea90 (Post 20214379)

I think a good approach is sharing about yourself first to the lady that way she will be feeling more relax and willing start the conversation. Remember to spice up a notch once in a while as you are looking for something more and not looking for friend zoned. Stay playful but not like a jerk, there is a fine line. :)

Originally Posted by Takumi1983 (Post 20214332)

wonder how do some bros here talk to a girl after getting their contact, alot of guys want to know to get girl better but have no idea how to start a conversation and in the meantime not interrogating them like a criminal, alot of girls feel very uncomfortable if you do that

do share some light bros