advice needed, not sure if my gf is cheating?
 

found out gf's phone device netflix log-in dates and timing were on the days she suddenly said she had something on... like work late or got gathering to attend, etc

gave her the benefit of the doubt but things seems to be abit not looking right ?

need some advice from the bros here, if the below geo-IP can tell where is the location?

https://iili.io/gJvsNj.jpg

South West [SG]
111.65.37.96

South East [SG]
111.65.38.216

Re: advice needed, not sure if my gf is cheating?
 

111.65.37.96 IP Address Location
Reverse IP (PTR) none
ASN 45143 (SINGTEL MOBILE INTERNET SERVICE PROVIDER Singapore)
ISP / Organization SingTel Mobile
IP Connection Type Cellular [internet speed test]
IP Location Singapore, Singapore
IP Continent Asia
IP Country 🇸🇬 Singapore (SG)
IP State n/a
IP City Singapore
IP Postcode 54
IP Latitude 1.3691 / 1°22′8″ N
IP Longitude 103.8863 / 103°53′10″ E
IP Timezone Asia/Singapore

Re: advice needed, not sure if my gf is cheating?
 

Watching on phone. Could be anywhere.

But the question is: Is the gf watching alone or with another guy?

Camping here for more updates from TS.

Re: advice needed, not sure if my gf is cheating?
 

The suspicious part is why she would claim to be busy just so she can watch a movie on netflix.

Further investigation is most certainly needed.

My view is if you're not cheating then yeah, you've a right to confront her.

But if you're also cheating, then maybe don't confront but sit with her and talk to her about an open relationship. Worth considering cuz anyhow you'll be at breaking up point.

So, a softer approach may be better.

Re: advice needed, not sure if my gf is cheating?
 

Well, this is a one of the possibility too. Maybe they had been together for a long time, and the GF need some "me" times.

Speaking from experience. When I was with my ex years ago, sometimes I would say I have OT or heading to bed early. Just to have "me" time to play mobile games.

I know bro will say why not just be honest? Yea, its a toxic relationship, regret didn't end it sooner.

Second this too actually. Were there any stressful events or arguments recently?

Re: advice needed, not sure if my gf is cheating?
 

i believe there are some tell sign to why u were asking this, just go with the flow man, you cant stop her if she wants to. I would say continue to trust her unless u saw something that is concrete enough for you to confront her. Count it as a blessing that it is still in a bf/gf relationship.

it is going to be very depressing to continue thinking this way. all in all, talk is easy for me, i still hope you can overcome it. :)

Re: advice needed, not sure if my gf is cheating?
 

Sorry to hijack but I’m just curious. Qn open to the bros.

If your gf is super chio and nice to you, will you close one eye if she is cheating on you secretly?

Assuming you are normal guy with no cuckold fetish. Will you just pretend everything is normal?

Re: advice needed, not sure if my gf is cheating?
 

a lot of families are sharing Netflix accounts, could be her siblings, parents using the same account, don't fret too much over it, if she is indeed cheating on you, there would be more tell-tale signs.

Re: advice needed, not sure if my gf is cheating?
 

TS steady abit leh... u go and spy ur gf phone then come and anyhow think...

working OT cannot take break and watch? waiting for grab cannot watch? cannot share account? cannot accident log in? u got ji u go and ask her straight.. she confirm ask u why u spy her phone... you machiam like girl sia... yi shen yi gui... ur gf deserve someone that know how to respect her privacy more lor...

like me... can intro? :D

Re: advice needed, not sure if my gf is cheating?
 

Doesn't Netflix have a few subscription plans one that only 1 person to watch at a time and another 1 that allows watching multiple users to watch at the same time. To check maybe downgrade your plan to the 1 person at a time plan. Maybe she share with her entire family that netflix account? Hard to say

Re: advice needed, not sure if my gf is cheating?
 

A Public toilet is public toilet, doesn't matter if it's St Regis hotel toilet,
where even a butcher or durian seller also can use and abuse it. if you can
accept your toilet being share then it's fine

Re: advice needed, not sure if my gf is cheating?
 

Long term relationship is about trust. If she cheats on you, what else is she doing behind your back