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How many gals here don't like to give sex to their husband/bf?
Is sex really a chore?
What's the thinking?

This is what my wife told me..which I really cannot accept.

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Did u do anything wrong??:confused:

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Its your duty to educate her bro.......But i do know there are gals who dislike too much sex........:)

wat to do.......ren......ren.....ren......

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Reported in Sin Min 2 days ago
this young wife cannot tahan her
husband of wanting 4 times sex a week
so she let him go and cheong but
he cannot bring girls home, after cheonging
cannot touch her and if he get himself
with STD he will be chased out of the house.

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More like...

TS...what have you been doing?
or what have NOT been doing?

There must be reasons why your wife reject sex from you or thinks sex with you is a chore. are there things that she has to do that she's not willing to?

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In the first place try to find out from them why they dun give sex to their husbands/bf. You will then know the answer.

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There are some girls who dislike sex, treating sex as a obligation to give to their other half on a weekly, monthly n even yearly basis only so as to serve their duty of the girl.

Unless you can prove them wrong by providing them some sort of pleasure (pattern, excitment or enjoyment), you won't be getting more...

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seems like ALL guys r giving comments oh??
keke.. i dono abt other gals..

but i personally think tat i DUN DISLIKE sex la..
but i will ONLY GIF to someone tat will appreciate my first..
tat someone wont jus have the "eat & go" attitude..
tat someone whom will cherish me for taking my first time away..

keke.. if not.. i RATHER NOT sex.. hee...
so.. mayb its becuz TS's wife cant feel the "extra love" from TS??
so she rather not give sex to TS??

shower her wif more love ba TS..
this is wad i suggest.. dun let her feel tat u only wanted sex..
but something more sensual.. lovely.. keke.. romantic??

jia you oh TS~~ >.<

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i luv my wife very much...
i'm gentle, considerate, understanding and romantic...
take her out for romantic dinner not only on special occasion...

gave her freedom... as to ensure her happiness...
help her with household & other chores...
make sure that she is fully satisfied when making kuv to her...

and yet...
i don't get to make luv to her as often as i'd like to...
i dunno wat else to do...
so i stop asking... directly or indirectly...
still maintaining all of the above & more...

juz wait for her to want to make luv to me...
as it hurts more wen rejected...
compare to wen u not getting it...

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Well.........
U don't have to only make LUV wif her rite???

Rather than making both upset, look for alternatives.........

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hmmm in tat case..
mayb u need to tok with ur wife lo..
wad is the reason she is not wanting to make love with you..

somethings are… either during bed she experience bad things tat feel inferior?
Or realized she cant perform as u expected?
Have some communication ba.. guess it will help..
Before it gets too late.. when this marriage turns sour/cold..
TS.. u need to save this marriage kk?? =)

I understand.. being rejected feels more bad..
But u as a guy.. should hav more “brave front”.. not easily defeated when rejected once right?
First time failed.. try 2nd time,, using another approach.. keke
If u preserve.. there will be 1 time she will gif in to u..
Jus put in more effort.. time will tell.. ur wife will understand u..
JIA YOU!!~~

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maybe ur wife very shy and don't like you to see her body

OR

she don't want you to find out she got secretly eat outside?

Either way, you will need a marriage counselor who can advice you on such stuff lo...

If really must last resort, tell her the government complain low birth rate and she is not doing her 'national' duty for the country. So how can like that? =X

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hmm i have watched this Tyra Banks show and one of the episodes was featuring a few married women who no longer have sex with their husbands or have not had sex in the last 6 months that kinda duration... Imagine, it's the U.S.! and there are ppl who dun have sex anymore.. hmmm...

Most of these women claim that they dun find themselves attractive anymore and afraid of letting their husbands see them naked. And there was also one of them who said she will not let the husband touch her unless it's totally dark in the room..

Then they show the husbands at backstage seeing what their wives confessed on national tv pgm. They interviewed the husbands earlier on and all of them responded like v understanding.. So it really does seem like sex is not everything in the marriage, though it is important. And i actually felt that this is real love.

Of cos, i duno if these husbands go out and get their needs satisfied.. But one thing i do know, is that most men (in fact all) cannot live without sex!! True??

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side track abit.

Just curious. would like to hear from the ladies pov.
So does majority of the gals able to endure 1 year long or more without sex or diy themselves ? lets put aside preggie & old aunties. Talking abt normal ladies.

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If the husband uses the same pattern all the time, surely his wife will become sian one day.