Lonely
 

I'm alone 95% of the time. I'm single lady in my early 30s. How do yall deal with loneliness? Commercial fucks, FB? I'm not interested. I crave for hugs. I crave for someone to lay on and rest. Anyone feels the same? What do you do?

Re: Lonely
 

Nope. I also not searching anymore

I do not know much about you, your character your life etc.

And i look at someone's facebook, she post some interesting day-to-day videos. So i interested to know more about her. Btw i dun post on facebook and rarely write on facebook forums.

And pls share ur life if u meet someone in real life. Otherwise, it's goodbye.

Re: Lonely
 

having the same feel as TS.. just someone to hug, or even lying side by side watching shows to pass time.
Even doing nothing just knowing somebody is by your side is contented.

Just pick up phone to msg in group chat talking anything (e.g. talk about CB relaxing on 14 jun). If any friend that reply, then pm to chat if they are free.

If not just lay on floor watching the clouds drift :o:o

Re: Lonely
 

How many hours per day that you spent in making the efforts to meet new people? Answer this honestly to yourself.

Companionship doesn't simply happen by itself. We need to make it happen.

Re: Lonely
 

Most people are lonely now

Re: Lonely
 

where is the queue ?

Re: Lonely
 

Nobody asking for pictures? :D

Re: Lonely
 

Ya, got. Why?

Re: Lonely
 

Of course. How much do you know about me to know i am not making effort? Effort dont always yield results.

Oh yeah you got me there. I'm even actually conetent with just lying down watching stars or clouds drift. But that loneliness... i only have one group chat that people rarely reply to its annoying.

I actually do, it scared people sometimes.

The whole idea of a relationship should probably be best viewed as an exchange of values.

The more time we spend out there meeting new people, the more we could 'promote' ourselves to the possibilities. Just think about it like marketing a product.

Say the product is not that good, then what can the marketer do? Enhance the packaging, provide better service, etc. And if all else fails, lower the barrier entry.

If after that, the results are not coming, then change the brand. Analyze how the brand perception was on the market and revise it.

Repeating the same things and expecting different outcome is the definition of insanity.

Re: Lonely
 

How is that me anymore? Just to get companionship, I'll have to change so much of myself, i am no product. I am me. Accepting me has to come 1st. If i have to market myself so much to get a companion. I'm destined to be alone.

This is how the world works i suppose.

Re: Lonely
 

You don't have to change yourself. Just market yourself as you are, get out and try to meet as many people as you can. IMHO there is no perfect partner but someone willing enough to take a chance with who we are and make things work. That lonely feeling can be depressing. Just know that there is someone out there who feels the same way that you do. Chin up and stay positive. If it happens, it happens. If not enjoy life.

Re: Lonely
 

Are you a loner by choice? Do you enjoy to be alone?
I can be alone and yet dont feel lonely.
I guess its one of those days when we go into this mode.

To answer your question, do I feel lonely?

Yes, I do feel lonely at times but if there is no good company, I rather be alone than in a meaningless group.

Do I feel the same?
If it is hugging. Definitely. One of the thing I do with the lady is ask her to give me a hug. The feeling of arms around me and our chest pressing against each other gives security, warmth and release stress.

So to have a companion, lay beside & chill sometimes even without saying a word and know that she is there gives me comfort and security. A hug just tops it up.

What do I do about loneliness?
I read and understand more. I listen to music. I talk to different people and understand them. I do sports. Other than talking to people, the rest of the activities are usually done alone.

Re: Lonely
 

when one has a lot of free time. he/she may tend to 胡思乱想. One way is to keep ourselves occupied with work and activities. Of course the best is still able to have one or a few close friends that we can share things with and truly care about each other.

Sometimes we just want to know there is someone there for us. It could be physically side by side talking/hugging, with them virtually, or in our mind.

One of the worst feelings is to feel lonely even though you are not alone.