Famous Samster and his HFJ PRC Story.
 

Seen a lot of stories on samsters and stories of their love with PRC girls in Hang Flower joints.
These girls, mostly are heartless. They might talk love to you at first, but in the end.
It always end up with the same problem.
MONEY.
This is a story of a very famous samster here in sammyboy. I think i would NAME him as AD.:D
So, MR AD....or D.
I been chionging with him for, many many many years.KTV, geylang, health-centre, china, malaysia. I would say he is 1 of the most steady buddies i have. Almost everyone of us, when in need of advice would ask him.
He is like a Big Brother to a lot of us.

So, this buddy of mine like to also drink and he really is CAN drink. So there was this period of time, when we start to go hang flower joints. So , there was a period of time, we very frequent this joint at riverview hotel and it was there when he met this girl . The girl is quite pretty, with quite a few guys chasing after her, but i guess our big brother got his ways and manage to count her first. At first everything was ok. It was like really love.
She got customers who hang her $500 daily, but she will ignore them and sit with my buddy. When she do her SHOW, she ask him not to come.
Customer hang her $20k flowers that day, but after a quick supper she goes to join our buddy for mcdonalds.
so it goes bla bla , big chiongster met his love .
So he thought of cutting all his vices and be true to her.
So after a few months, it was time for her to go home. Things start to change when she went back.
Not sure the details . but after 6 months, she was back in singapore. This time singing at Las Vegas.
We as his buddies can see that she was no longer the same girl as before.
But can't seem to get it into his thick skull.
He goes there every wednesday , send food on friday and flowers on mondays for a total of 6 months. No change. But this girl already lost her feeling , i can see that she just want to earn money. But our friend don't seem to want to give up. So as a friend, we got no choice but to follow him and accompany him every week and hope that he will wake up.

After 6 months, this girl has to go back but she didn't even bother to tell him , but he manage to get some details and went to the airport to wait.
Think he went at mid-night because he wasn't sure which early flight it was.
But he manage to see her only AFTER she check in but they manage to at least get some eye contact and she knew that he was there to send her off.

So this buddy birthday, 12 MAY.
as he was in KL that time, he wanted to have dinner with this girl.So, he rush back from KL to singapore, He drive . Then 1st flight to GuangZhou , then to Changsa , then train to Hunan then a few hours drive to Henyang.
i think it was a 40 over hours journey.
But this guy manage to get himself in Hunan,Henyang on the 12th. He didn't have any contact number or address. But he still go.
Don't know how to describe him, but i guess it was LOVE!
ALL he had was a QQ NUMBER. so he Left a msg on her QQ and waited. I think he said waited for a day and she reply.
i quote his EXACT WORDS.
你无聊，神经病，我没有空。
He just, check out of the hotel immediatey , took a taxi to the train station , slept at the station for 1 day , took the 1st train to Guangzhou, slept at the airport and 1st plane back to singapore.
That was i think the worst time i had seen him. He was like totally lost and no direction. He was either getting himself drunk or simply you can see him sit in one position staring into space.
All of us wanted to cheer him up, we bring him go ktv and hope to bring back his old-self. But his situation was quite serious till the extend, he lost his Mood for women. We get girls to strip and play, even bring him go hotel. but he just doesn't have to mood even till now.
That was when we knew it was serious issue. But as buddies we don't know what we can do for him. But only to accompany him everyday and try to talk some sense into him.
But then, the devil came back.
She calls him one fine day and say that she is back in singapore as a singer at Yang Gui Fei .
He immediately went to visit her. He know she needs space, so he didn't pressure her much. He goes that quite frequent. Make sure she is safe ,. even got the security guards of the shopping centre to call him if she is drunk or need help.
All the while, we can see that she doesn't love him that much. But he don't seem to understand.
So i happen to ask her one day, why she didn't meet him when he went to hunan and her answer was simply, she thinks he was joking !!
So this girl's birthday is in November. So as he had promise her before he went to learn how to bake a cake and cook her fav shanghai crab.
But i remember that, he again, downstairs her condo. waited for her to come back after work, telling her he made something for her.
on her bday itself, he waited from 3am to 7am ++ . then next day, again. I forgot he waited for 3 or 4 days.
But i remember that everyday is a NEW CAKE and new crabs. So everyday he throw away.
SO when the last day he didn't make anything, she calls him and tell him to cook her the , oh ya i remember now. XIANG LA CRAB.
Bro, i can really understand the feeling and want to pity you also.
But he still went about cooking for her and deliver to her.
Then it was now , when she met a new customer .
Before she left, she purposly bring him to let our bro see. I think our brother understand her motive.
So he wrote her a letter , before she left after 6 mths again.
But this girl, don't even bother to even pick up the letter and left.

so now this girl is back in singapore on 2 year wp, with the same guy whom she bring to let our brother see working at Club 28 and our good brother has yet to even step in to see her.
I also don't know is it ok with him .

Bro, hope you can come out of your shell. You tell us that you are ok and you forgotten about her, almost 4 years already.
But, last week was her b-day. You still ask people to send her present and say is not from you.
We hope to see the OLD senior samster back!

we miss your 1000 over FRs, your guts , your aura , the MR D all of us in sammyboy knows.

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Bro, want to add something.


IF I AM A GIRL, I SURE MARRY YOU.:D

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The only thing I could say - he met his match, so leave it to fate to settling for him.

When love is in the air, you are blinded. Only he alone can help himself.

I understand you are trying your best as a bro to pull him up - you already did, so do not stress up yourself.

One fine day he will wake up. Because since he walked the baptism of fire, he will come up very strongly and trust on one anymore in the WL....just got to be patience.........:D

该来的会来的，躲也躲不过的。
不是你的就别勉强，得到了未必是幸福的。
命里有时终需有，命里无时莫强求。
天涯何处无芳草，何必单恋一朵花。

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Sad to hear this but if any of us can help, we would be glad to,

hopes he can be enlighted and wakes up soon.

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One sentence 戏子无情，婊子无义!

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i have seen not just one but few sucesssful marriage of singers to sg man. but non of them married to their big hanger customer. one married to a normal customer, one married to the part time waiter.
i have also seen 1 bro claiming to be kc with a gal but suck thum in the end. the al ask him not to show up dring show as well. in fact this is already a typical sign.

well all i can say to the bro in this picture is, the issue now is no longer abt the gal. its abt yourself. you are down because you wanted to be down. worst case you may neeed to see a phsyco doctor to get yourself out of it. sometimes there are these blind spots in life. just have to look at it another angle and u will know whats best for yrself.

i hv seen something similar b4, not singer but ktv gal. 1 bro sees the gal almost every otherday. if she got table he will wait for her to finish work. if no table he will pay her damage and bring her out. in a good 3yrs, they even went malaysia for short trips, all he did was holding hands. not even a kiss. you think possible? i seen it.......

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I seconded this thought. From what he is willing to do goes to show how sincere and a good hubby he will make. Wish you all the best bro, whoever you are. :)

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yandao, still ard ah?
now cheong where? :D

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Live by the sword, die by the sword..
Hope this bro recover soon......

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Retribution...you play with so many women..now kenna playback....karma*:cool:

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retired from cheonging scene. free just come in look look see see nia. :o

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So mean.....

But then again, if he really goes beyond redemption he will definitely wake up.
Just that by that time, he might have damaged his liver, squandered all his money and left with no friends.
One word - His "Choice"

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IMHO, it's very clear that your friend has fallen deep into the abyss of an emotion-trap which distorted his thinking, he has fallen out from reality.Like I mentioned to a new cheongster in HFJ thread, cheonging HFJ/KTV is to seek fun, transact and forget, not seeking connection or companionship cos ghosts and human do not coexist in same dimensions. Cheong buddies are equally important cos they comes in many forms, some are free loaders, some are cheerleaders, some will backstabs you, some will contribute and help you in damage control and some will just leads you deeper into the abyss. ;)

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Even the best will err once in life.

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the singer must be very chio ah, to let a lao jiao lose his pride :D

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Soft advice, cold turkey or introducing new meimeis (this is the worst cos he will compare them against his "cai", and will result in him yearning for her further which explained why he has no interest in other girls) will not work for such hard core case, one need to help him to rid him of his "Inner Demon (心魔)".

To begin with, it is useful as buddies to assemble a ghost list of the negative things and incidents as mentioned in the thread, go through with him, break it down to him bit by bit cos it wil not be a speedy recovery. Patience is required for success.

消除占有欲, 即可消除心魔
一消心清静, 莲花处处开清 ;)

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Famous Samster and his... 02-12-2011 11:23 AM You alway post something then change your mind and typed deleted post because you wanted to say something nice to please people like Xiao Bao. You are such a hypocrite

Ha-Ha, yes, I have deleted my earlier hard post to TS mindful of giving appreciation for his long post contribution, and also I could be wrong based on my reading comprehension afterall it's TS buddy. :D

Changing and editing my post goes to show that I am sincere in my posting contribution, proof reading all my posts cos every Matters of the Heart threads are heart matters which deserve care & attention. ;) At least, I have the balls to post in this thread whilst you hide behind your tiny monitor zapping me -1 :p

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Such joints had destroyed many sg man already ... but we buddies ourselves also got some parts to be blamed as well ...

We shout and cheer when supporting buddy of ours to hang more & more to "fight" with other customers in this hfj .... ended seeing them having hard time paying all these flowers 10k x ??? times of flower money :eek:

Even help them gather news or better known as gossip ... etc etc etc etc .................... :o and most of the times, such news or gossip could be very unreal and damaging .....

I guess we as the real buddies should have advise them in the first place rather than after he kana KC :rolleyes: Sorry did not mean to offence any supporters here :D

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Very well said.
Before we look and say our bro wat wat wat for a WL, have we ever asked if any WL ever wat wat wat for our bro before?????
Karma...how very true......
How I know?????
Me kenna before liao!

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Snowman, your friend has only 2 ways to wake up.
Many years ago, when I kenna my karma which I penned down before & I'm sure senior samsters like Gor Gor Otur shud remember, it was almost the same.
Of cos, I never go and send food and do all that, maybe i damn EGO lor, so that part i feel very lao kui.
One way, he will just have to battle his own demons and own lies then he'll wake up.
When??
Took me 1 fucking year to get the courage to walk back into the nite scene again, but this time, no more heart!
Yes, I have changed till some friends call me heartless or inhuman.
2) He will just keep hugging that HOPE and live and die in his own dreamland. Means, your friend will just fade away as a casualty and no hope of coming back! A defeated player to the extreme! 4yrs is a long time.
I know someone who still harps on his SO CALLED true love and carries his laptop around and shows everyone all her pics.
Nope I stopped all contact with that person liao cos he is also someone who is like your friend!
Let nature take its course on your bro, if it was meant to be a lesson learnt, let him learn it.
If it was meant to be karma, let him suffer for it like I did.
And if it was meant to destroy him beyond salvation, then let it play its own couse.
As a bro, i think you and your kakis have dun your best liao.
Now just pray.
Remember, bring a horse to a river, fucker dun wanna drink, push his head down he die die also wont drink.
If your friend wanted to move on, he wud have.
But the actions like buying Bday present and say not from him, this also tell everyone that he made a conscious decision that he wishes to stay in his dreamland and there's nothing anyone cud do!

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One man's meat another man's poison still apply.
Have seen such cases where i feel some hawker girls at bedok hawker center more chio but fella tinks his chick more tok kong than gong li wor wahahahahaha

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Nowsadays lots of snipers la bro, dun bother.
Anyway, who's Xiao Bao?

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Tats y must know how to differentiate wats cheong buddies and whats real buddies.

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bro, i belong to which of ur categories mentioned har? :D:p

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Think he was referring to Wei Xiaobao 韋小寶 from the novel: The Deer and the Cauldron (鹿鼎記). :D

You and few other bros:

On horseback, if my horse went mad charging towards a cliff, you guys will shoot (with real rifles) my horse multiple times without hesitation in order to save me from falling over the cliff! :D

Bad cheong buddies will lite a fire to the horse's tail and use a hot arrow dipped in samba chillies to poke the horse's ass fearing it is not charging fast enough to kill you, real buddies as I mentioned above :p

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Dayview2004 aka James Tan is one of those in the above mentioned except he will not contribute and help you.

He will asked you for help like signing a credit card receipts for him first and he never return the money. Worst till he did not answer your phone calls :rolleyes:

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It is very sad to hear this sort of things day in and out in sgp, I just pray we as sgp man know what we are doing and play the game right if needed so..

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Good sharing! These are the kind of stories we should encourage in this forum sextion.
Damage is worst than those ah pek who lost CPF money.

Who is this AD famous samster?

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I'm no fans of these joints but visit their KTV rooms for butterflies occasionally.

Was evaluating their business model at one point; very ingenious... as they feed on men's EGO in an open-bidding tipping setup. You are right that these "fights" to impress the girl AND others in an open-concept hall, adding to the pre-fixed tipping amount (from $50 to Tens of K banners), drives the business.

Compare this to private tipping to the girls in the room; not much ego involved. Just ask mamasan to invite the girl into the ktv room after the show better. At least guranteed will cum sit with you before parting with $, plus the tip can be lower since she don't have to split with company compare to "flowers".

So if you ask me, I'm sorry but to say that those who fall for this type of entertainment involving bidding wars should/could get better value elsewhere :)
(Okie this comment may invite zaps like "limpeh can afford leh... etc."... just make sure you make the anonymous zap comment as insulting as possible)