Originally Posted by warbird
Good morning!
To all bros,
I want to be brutally honest n controversial again. Here is a litmus test of how much you value yourself as a MAN and your true level of self mastery.
Will you be insecure and jealous when you know other men (including your friends) are hitting on your wives/GFs/mistresses/lovers/er nai constantly? What if you find out that the girl/woman you like or love very much is being fxxked by other man (men)?
Be honest w/ yourself.
If your answer is YES, you will need to improve your confidence, self assurance, self esteem, self mastery, and mindset/meta frame.
If the gal is merely a potential GF w/ whom you have not had a sexual relationship, you need even more help!! Getting jealous over someone who is NOT even your gal is ridiculous.
If your answer is NO, never, congrats! Your awesome MANLY behaviour n mindset hv earned my highest respect!! I would like u to be my mentor.
If your girl/woman is very attractive, many men will salivate over her good looks and sexy figure. And they will try very hard to get into her pants.
If you're the prize n have higher value than she, why would u be jealous or insecure? Actually it would be depressing if very few men are salivating over her everyday. It means she is unattractive.
If your woman has been fxxking another man. Just walk away. It's her big loss n she is NOT good enough for u. It's a great blessing because you hv many younger n prettier girls of your type eagerly waiting for u...
I just received the following on the subject of jealousy, one of the biggest relationship killers.
How to Lose a Woman - Fast!
Are you the jealous type?
I hope not!
Jealousy is one of the quickest and surest ways to get DUMPED.
Jealousy is a sign of insecurity. It indicates a lack of confidence on your part. By acting in a jealous fashion you're essentially "telling her" that you don't feel worthy of her love, and that you're worried she's going to find one of the many, many guys out there who are "better than" you.
Not to mention the fact that it's an incredibly annoying personality trait!
Never forget that women are attracted to CONFIDENCE in men. If a woman realizes that you're lacking in self-confidence then she'll lose respect for you. And if she doesn't respect you, she can't love you. And every time you act like a jealous idiot, you lose more of that respect.
Now don't try to tell me that you're the "jealous type" not because of a lack of confidence, but because you really love and care about her. Or because you can't trust her. I'm not buying it... and she won't either.
Jealousy is about YOU and your feelings of insecurity - your lack of confidence - your feelings of inferiority. And it's your problem. It has nothing to do with her. (And if you really can't trust her, then why are you wasting your time. Find someone that you can trust!)
So what do you do if you ARE the jealous type?
Well, since you know that acting in a jealous fashion will push her away from you, and acting in a confident fashion will draw her toward you (by increasing her respect for you), then...
... ACT CONFIDENT.
Let her do whatever she wants. Give her all the freedom she wants. Don't complain when she goes out with her friends. Smile when she says she's going to have lunch with her old boyfriend. Encourage her to go to that male strip club. Proudly display your confidence to her.
And know that ACTING CONFIDENT in the face of these circumstances (which make most men jealous) will actually draw her to you. By doing this, you're essentially turning a negative personality trait (jealousy) into a positive personality trait (self-confidence).
You should welcome these types of situations and view them as OPPORTUNITIES to display your confidence to her... and to draw her closer to you.
So the next time you start feeling those pangs of jealousy, and you start to worry, and you start getting anxious, and nervous -- remember this article and think...
"Awesome! This is an excellent opportunity for me to display my confidence, to set myself apart from all those other guys, and to blow her mind."
Powerful Stuff!
Allen Thompson
Your comments?
Cheers!
Bro WB
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