[aberdeen]

Just my 2 cents on this issue, which I think is a very different view from the others. Since you state so clearly it's about obtaining sexual service, the cheating part comes in because there's a risk of contracting some diseases which no frequent patron will deny as condoms are never 100% in preventing anything. So if your spouse trusts you to be safe and disease free and your actions may inadvertently bring in risk to the relationship, I can say that's where the cheating might occur. But I'm pretty sure a woman's pride is significantly less hurt when there's no emotional attachment to other women involved.