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Originally Posted by BackstageBambi
I don’t think we need to have a heart to heart talk. It’s just a bang and go fb relationship. I think the moment I start to want to “talk”, he will bail. And no point really. He is banging other chicks too. And that’s the biggest reason why he is treating me as just one of many options. I’m fully self aware. I’m just here to rant and be upset. Lol. Thanks for reading.
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I guess this circles back to you both being FBs instead of FWBs. Personally, I prefer the latter as it humanises your partners. For FBs, I’ve found it’s very easy to see your partners as walking onaholes/vibrators, which I feel is too transactional to really be sustainable.
As with any arrangement, setting expectations and drawing lines are key to making things work long term. But I’ve learned that not everybody has that sort of macro outlook; many just wanna fuck and fuck off 😂