I think i may have a similiar problem to you. I find that i have a high sex drive (HSD) and often have to take matters into "my own hands" as my wife has a very low sex drive (LSD). I've also considered going to see a doctor.
I feel very fustrated at times whenever she doesn't give in. Sometime i i only get action 1once a week or even less. IMHO, thats definitely not enough... but what to do? I feel that couples should at least get some action every alternate day. its a good form of exercise to right?