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If yr wife / gf is SG gal, then good luck. If she's from 1 of the neighboring / regional countries, then not so bad.

Many PRC gals are not so angry if no emotions are involved. They understand that satisfying sexual needs is the gf's / wife's duty, and especially due partly to her not fulfilling her duty, she may regard it as "outsourcing" this duty. Though she may be unhappy, but many won't go to the extremes like SG gals.

1 of my ex-neighbors in a regional country who married a guai-guai SG man, initially, she even paid money to treat her husband go bonk WL! She said, humans, especially men, are rebellious creatures. The more u try to restrict them, the more they'll wanna taste the forbidden fruit. Let him go WL, she oso treat him nice in bed, let him taste the difference between bonking WL vs making love, he'll less likely stray. WLs are mostly after the business only, she's likely to still get to keep her husband's heart. But if extra-marital affair where emotions are involved, she even lose her husband's heart!

They're now married for more than 5 years with a very adorable kid, her husband takes good care of the family & goes home for dinner almost every evening.