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Originally Posted by happy000
In another word - You will be responsible for whatever decision you make, whether good or bad. What people tell you is just advice which they are not reponsible for. Advices are cheap and abundance in supply.  |
We tend to condemn the whole lot when we have bad experience with just one of them or vice versa. Take my bro for instance, who was already in his late 40 when he fall in love with a PRC girl. All my aunties, uncles, including my own mother were strongly against his relationship stating: monies sucker etc........ as reasons. I simply told my mother: my bro is no more young and despite his qualification as a division manager with a major MNC company, he still cannot find a local girl to settle down. We should let him decide what he wants. Are they going to be responsible if he can't settle down?
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Originally Posted by Mr MCBB
Its takes one with life's deeper insights to be able to quote what you have just said my dear friend  Nice one there  |
Thank you. Please do not get me wrong, like all bros here, I do meet all type of girls when I cheong. I am lucky in the sense that majority of the Vbs I know and close to me tend to be very understanding type. Despite the facts that many of them are in deep shit trouble back home with all kind of financial problems, they never once asked me for help. A lot of times I even offered to help them but was turned down flatly.
Senior bros here will know that in all my ten years with Vbs I only really fall for 2 girls. The first one who is now holding a 'ex' status is a monies sucker. Every thing she own or want must be branded: eg. top of the range mobile phone, must eat at high class restaurants. Even must bring her to golf course equiped with the best equipments. Every time during CNY she will asked me for monies to help her mum to paid her ah long debt. The last amount she asked from me was USD12,000.00! (Yes, the figures are correct and your eyes is not playing trick on you) My other girl is completely reversed, once I remembered bringing her to a high end Vietnamese restaurant to eat. When she saw the prices in the menu she was really unhappy cos the prices are 3 times higher than those in JC. That was the one and only time I ate with her in these restaurant.
In life, one must sometimes make critical decision. It all depends on what we wants, some wants Vbs for companionship (that me) some stricitly for bonking purpose. For TS whatever decision he make, just go ahead and have the time of his life