[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by analog

Bro:

i don't know what to tell you because I simply can't relate. My wife holds my hand I get a hard on. My wife is a bit rounder after kids as well and I think its damn sexy. I think women that have had kids are radiant, they simply don't know how sexy they are. SYTs don't do much for me, nice to look at and all but a complete woman has had kids and I'm into women, not girls.

i would take the initiative and go see a counsellor on your own and say what you wrote here. Be blunt and direct, this is real life, not a movie. Don't beat around the bush.

You need to fix this. A well fucked wife is a happy wife. It is your matrimonial responsibility to sort this out. Do it bro, take charge and fix it.

Cheers,
jim

Good post.