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Originally Posted by callmebad
men wants to be physical
for women, they are more about the feelings and emotions
women want emotional intimacy or closeness before they want sex
when women say,let's talk first, they really mean in, not just playing hard to get
women want you to talk to them, share their feelings and share yours with her
if you don't have the patience for this, will be quite tough
when she is not receptive to sex, must look to see where her problems lies, any unhappiness, is she stress, etc
if you want her to solve your problem (sex), you must solve hers first, if not,things will just get stuck there
most of us when after marriage, tend to take for granted for each other, we no longer behave as if like in dating days, try to go all out of our ways to please and impress each other
women crave romance and romance should not end after marriage
be romantic and give her pleasant surprises, treat her nice and lovingly at all times, not just for the sake of sex, and she will give in to you without you asking for it
this is the way , most women's mind work, we can't change them
if men want sex, you have to 'play their mind' game, if not, will be quite tough, end up with you begging, is quite bad
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Do NOT agree...
Why must the guy look to where her problem is? He has told her where his problem is...and sex is the quickest fix...
She wants a more attentive husband? Fuck him properly and he will be more attentive...
For a man to give a woman emotional support...romance and foreplay...that can take all day and even all week...which is too difficult...because we are not even talking about screwing up along the way...horse fart slap on horse leg type of backfire even...
For a woman...giving sex is less than one hour...even if her husband is superman...two hours...
Once done, she will notice that he will dote on her more than usual...yes, of course, immediately after, he will fall asleep...but the effect of sex, like most medicine are not immediate..wait till the next day...
So..why must one side give a full day to a week to make the other one more receptive to give an hour worth of action? Wouldn't the other way around be easier?
Therefore, why can't a woman play our game? Invest in one hour of sex a day...and get a more attentive husband for the whole week...or month, or the rest of her life??
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---For most women, it's what you do before sex that shows her your love...
-------For most men, it's what she does during sex that displays her love....
But for me...it's what she does after sex that tells me if and how much she loves me...