You are right. I think from the general advice I’ve received here, I know what to do already. I told myself, if I don’t consider her sex and external looks, would I still stay in this arrangement. And the answer is a clear no. No matter how good the sex is, it will eventually fade away if we keep hurting each other. So I will wish her all the best, stop everything with her, and do the right thing, that is to focus on my wife and family.
Sorry to hear about your situation. All the best to you too.
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Originally Posted by atom_nova
Bro, similar experience as you. Currently trying to forget about her and spend time with family. Deep down you know you won't give up your family for her, and all the emotions, able to click, being each other soul mate thingy is just too late, timing just isn't right.
The only thing, only correct thing, is just to focus on your family and try to forget/ bury your feelings away. Its not easy but still have to do it. I'm in the same phase right now. All the best brother!
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