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Originally Posted by SingViet
Let me start another question for fellow bros here.
(1) If you marry a vietnamese lady and she request that you give her parents US$150 a month, will you give? (the sum may vary, maybe can be US$200 or even more)
(2) Besides the normal monthly allowance to her parents, she asks you for extra for her family every few months, how will you feel?
(3) Do you think that by giving money to her family is a show of your love for her?
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Hence, before settling down to proper marriage, would it be better to talk first before committing?
The other formula is "I allocate $x dollars for your monthly use. Up to you how much to give back there" - would this not work?