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Originally Posted by Wahlaoposh
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Bro, you are not alone. There are many many people that is battling with depression. I am not qualified to tell you what to do. I can only share what my experience.
Qualifier. I do not have depression but I know a kid that is.
First off, do not worry about falling behind your peers. Now at 19 years old, 2-3 years behind seems a lot. By the time you are 30 years old, 2-3 years gap is nothing. I started off my career 6 years behind my peers due to various reasons. I think I still do ok compared to my peers. I am better off than some and not as good as some. I am at peace with that.
Relationship wise, my take is if you get into a relationship because you don't want to be lonely, or you need sex, then I think you have set yourself up for failure. Just relax and let it happen. You will meet someone that is right for you. In the meantime, occupy yourself with other things. Find an activity or some activities that you are passionate about and enjoy them. Pick up a musical instrument, get a new skill, start a new hobby, start a new sport. Find something that you enjoy doing and devote your time there.
Future: see point
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Aways remember, there are people who love you and is rooting for you. Find strength in that. And 1 day at a time. Look for small wins and happy moment. Best of luck!!