[Willamshakspear]

Dear Mr Xcution,

If what your post by your own personal perceptions & viewpoints are true, she may be suffering from mental personality disorder, and such could be triggered by emotional trauma she experienced at some point in life, that lead to these sad episodes of trust, mistrust & insecurity instincts.

Each Human has their own issues to deal with in life- job, career, family, love & companionship, future, etc, daily, & seldom would have time to deal with additional stresses in life.

The gift of life comes with the gift of free will, to choose & live with the consequences bravely with no regrets that will regress one's long journey in life. Most Humans would assess their own needs for survival & choose accordingly, to live life meaningfully as it is short, as no mortal lives forever.

Thus your confusion & dilemma lays in the desires & choice you will have to make, with her- to help her if you truly love & want her as your companion, or to ...walk..away....

Relationship is important, as it will be the basis which you will find a companion in the journey of life that often is no bed of roses, but challenges that only those whom have true & courageous heart can overcome.

She obviously need help - psychological & even mainstream religious guidances. Asses yourself - are you in a position to help her, spare time, efforts & finances, or can only afford to help yourself, physically & mentally, to survive?

In the end, there may be not even gratitude if she recovered her mental self, are you prepared for such?

The greatest gifts in life is not in receiving, but in giving, with no expectations of reward in any form, proven by many who had gave with such requirements with open hearts & all, within limits, & lived meaningful sleepful peaceful nites, to help evolve Humankind...