Last Dec when I read that yufor felt my messages were cold, I did not care to explain such behavior. I have a bit of time now, so I don't mind explaining. In Sep 2021, I hit it off well with a guy through messages. I think that was one of the reasons he assumed he could make me a friend with benefits. Thus, he did not pass money to me after I asked for it. It was partly my fault because I asked for money at the end. After that incident, I think I should not chat before meeting guys.
Chatting is better when some actions are involved, right? But don't try to make me into your friend with benefits hor!