[Willamshakspear]

It is often difficult to differentiate between love & lust, at any age. But both are only distractions to one's life if one refuses to acknowledge the differences.

If you are at Uni, it would be best to FOCUS on your studies, give 101% effort, get the grades you want. After that, life would be easier for you, when you tamper expectations to wiser levels. The grass always seem greener on the other side, when you see your Uni friends hook up, but you will never see the heartaches, sacrifices & distractions which they will never reveal to you, with some even either going nuts or dropping out of even life. Thus FOCUS on your studies for now, do not be distracted, even as normal hormones rages daily. Develop mental strength instead, as you still will have a long life ahead.

Our females cannot be blamed for being materialistic. Finances are a means to security in life, not just mere words, unlike men in our male dominated societies worldwide. Her looks will be gone when she reaches 40-50yrs old, & if she is not financially strong, she will have to pick card-boxes for a living, unlike men whom are in the 70s with just a few dollars will be able to get a syt.

At the Uni, most relationships are only mere friends. She is intelligent enough to choose the right qualitied man for herself, & it will be someone older & earning a living far more than a mere grad whom is dependent on parents finances. She will also know most grads come from Elite schools, those whom are poor will be leaders of Industry & Politics, or are scions from rich families, & will make her choice accordingly.

Most grads earn a starting pay of between $3,000 to $4,000/mth. That's more than what most young citizens will earn & will take years to reach that level unless they come from rich parents or Uni of Spore Streets. With such salary, you will be able to find any female companion, even kinky ones so long as you don't lose your mind to build up your career & earnings for a comfortable future.

Again, once you start work, the grass will always seem greener on the other side, with many youngsters owning cars, bragging about their lifestyles but the reality that you dont see is that every sucker is born by the minute. Just go to any pub or ktv lounge, & you will see it is different guys & not the same guy that you envied. He would had indebted himself, had his car towed away & eating maggi mee every day after foolishly throwing his money away.

The formula to be rich is to SAVE money and NOT throwing money away. For every dollar you need to spend, you have to ensure you get $3 in return. Anything that does not give you such returns, you best stop & assess the situation before spending hundreds or thousands to later regret.

Thus, i reiterate - FOCUS on your studies for now & get the grades you seek for & do not be DISTRACTED by love & lust which you are not ready to understand yet. It will come naturally when you start to mix around in work life & hobbies & see its realities, & then you can make an informed decision in life for a true companion that will last till you leave Earth, and to eternity, held in memory by those you beget & whom loved you.