[randyrockhard]

When I was young, my friend landed himself this super smooth looking girlfriend that I lusted.

I asked him how he did it. He said, show her your true "you".

It took me a while to understand it, and I finally realized that, rejection is really no big deal. It's just a matter of compatibility with the girl we ended up with. What we could 'offer' to a person, may not necessarily be the 'offer' that they are looking for, and vice versa. So take it easy son.

The bigger question that I think you need to resolve is whether or not you have discovered yourself enough. So much that you genuinely showcase it.

If you think you are charming, show it.
If you think you are funny, show it.
If you think you are fugly, improve it.
If you think you are loving, show it.

Be very clear to show the effort that you want more than just a friend. A girl is usually not stupid, they know.

"Love" is not a feeling. Love is an action.