Before I carry on about Coco, I like to share about my personal experience in delaying ejaculation.
I am sure most, if not all bros will agree with me on the issue of premature ejaculation;
It is a MEGA DISASTER
Cumming just after a few thrusts feels more like a battle lost with added dents to ego and manliness.
I am not going to lie; I did have my fair share of premature ejaculation events and it definitely didn't feel good at all, even if the foreplay was superbly perfomed.
Maybe the consolation is, the girl might feel good; obviously not because of sex like The Flash, but rather, getting to earn her keep in a much shorter time.
One shot is one shot, she gets paid whether you screw her for 15 seconds or 15 minutes, that's the brutal fact.
But in a long term relationship, premature ejaculation will be a problem.
Women are similar to men; we want to cum, they want to cum as well. The difference is, women can have multiple orgasms in a single session, while men will need sometime to recover before going for another penetration.
Women can get playful as well, they will want to dominate at times and make their partner cum. The man cumming is a job done for both parties; the man gets to release and relief, while the woman gets satisfaction is a job well done.
The point is, don't ignore premature ejaculation.
Yes, it is possible for them to hit orgasm via fingering or cunninglus. But surely most women would prefer for that to be achieved through penetration.
So what can be done to delay ejaculation?
Prof X (aka mind control method)
If you google for it, there's something about distracting yourself mentally, like thinking of something else other than sex, probably something boring like a problem at work or what to eat later.
The extent of the effectiveness is subjective to individuals, we don't share the same level of will power right?
Does it work for me personally? Yes it does to a certain extent, though the delaying effect may not be as long as I want it to be.
The trade off is, you will lose a bit of erection, but that's how the delay is achieved. And if your girl is sensitive enough down there, she will be able to feel it.
More often than not, girls know when you are distracted and no entirely focused on sex, it may dampen the overall mood instead.
I would rate the effectiveness of Prof X (aka mind control method) 2/10. It should ideally be a reinforcement to other methods but definitely not your primary one.
Helmet on (aka condom)
I don't study into condoms too much, my default choice is always Durex Performa. Simply because it has a drop of substance in it that helps to numb the 2IC somewhat to prolong penetration.
Yes, it costs more than regular condoms. But is saving that few dollars worth it, versus being a dud in bed?
Just take note - that little drop of substance is all the difference, drop it, and get ready for the sex to be over sooner than you realise. Don't be lazy, put it on yourself.
Oh yes, another important point to take note. It is fairly effective, but it doesn't work immediately. If you penetrate at once you are capped, there's good chance that you feel the numb effect creeping in AFTER you cummed.
That will SUCK even more than premature ejaculation.
So the tip is, cap yourself, and after that, don't rush into pentration. Take a moment to perform some foreplay on her, feel the substance on your 2IC taking effecting, then insert.
There's another version; Mutal Climax. Basically it is a Performa + ribbed version. Costlier, and it doesn't come in packs of 3, only 12. Perhaps it is good for a regular and long term partner, the additional cost for better quality of sex is well worthed, but there's no need for that extra for paid ones, just go with regular Performa.
I will rate the Helmet 7/10, provided you wear the condom the right way and exercise patience before penetration.
Pull Back
If you haven't been circumcised, then put your foreskin to good use.
Pulling the foreskin back creates a pressure on the 2IC, effect is like tying a rubber band around it. Less blood flow, hence delaying the ejaculation.
This method is requires no extra costing and it is natural. But on the other hand, high chances you will feel pain, especially during handjob since the hand doesn't have much lubrication to ease the friction.
Blowjobs can be painful if the girl uses more teeth than lips and tongue. Your 2IC is already exposed, so it is more sensitive naturally. With less teeth, more lips, tongue and saliva, blowjob is still great.
When to execute pull back? Personally I recommended doing so even the foreplay starts.
Don't worry about pain during sex. It might hurt a bit during the initial penetration. But once the pussy is wet enough, the sensation will still be wonderful.
For goodness sake, pull back and clean it up, at least before the session starts. The smell will be a turn off for the girl when she goes down south. A little effort on personal hygiene goes a long way.
As to why pull back before even starting on foreplay, reason is the same as Helmet, allow time for the effect to kick in.
It worked liked magic the first few months I executed it. I was a beast in bed, dominating the women from start to end. Problem is, the effect dimishes over time when the foreskin gets lose due to constantly stretching it.
I will rate Pull Back 5/10. No pain, no gain.
Switch
There's a few basic positions; missionary, cowgirl (front/back), doggie etc. The point is not about how many positions can be achieved in a session, but rather, switch in time.
Meaning, before the feeling of cumming arrives, change position.
The break will somewhat disrupt the momentum for both parties, but it does give you a bit of time to let your 2IC cool off and recover a bit before you penetrate in the next position.
Most women don't mind changing positions; as long as it is not done right after a few thrusts, then it becomes irritating. They too want to enjoy the excitement being in the particular position, so switch strategically, not tactlessly.
And it doesn't hurt to make your hands and mouth work during the interval. French her, lick her nipples, fondle her boobs, fingering, cunninglus, dirty etc during the switch to make it as seamless as possible. When it's done right, they won't know you are doing so to buy time for your 2IC to cool off.
I will rate this 2/10. Definitely another support scheme, not the main.
How about engaging all the above methods?
YES - that is exactly why to understand which is your main and which is your support.
In sequence, this should be how it pans out;
1. Pull back - before starting anything, clean throughly
2. Helmet - give it a good 3 to 5 minutes after capping before actual penetration
3. Prof X + Switch - this is probably the most difficult part as you need to coordinate both mind and body
For some reasons that condom cannot be used (i.e. trying to conceive) then just combine 1 & 3. The effect will diminish, but being a stud in bed is secondary when trying to conceive. That will be a chapter for another day, but for now, hope the combined methods works good enough for you, and do share if you have any other tips to delay!