A Long Term Sex Partner?

[entering]

Originally Posted by doctrine

Hi everyone. Asking something which may sound dumb, hopefully no one will judge or criticise.

I am actually thinking, is it possible to have a long term sex partner? I prefer to meet just one lady for regular sex, whether it is paid or not. I do not need to be her exclusive partner, she's free to be with other men as well. The reason is because I don't want to meet too many people and expose my identity. I find that FLs are hard for such arrangements, as many are only doing it till they are out of financial trouble, and eventually leave the trade. Girlfriends are tough as well, because I don't think I can open up my own heart due to bad experiences in the past.

So is there such a thing as a sex partner for the long term? Please don't criticise my ignorance �� thanks everyone.

Get a maid, so many options to choose plus they won't bao tuo you.

If you're able to pay, then you can get one super hot one and some are willing to be exclusive.

Currently, I've settled on 3 long term
1) indo nurse, body 6/10, can meet weekdays, once a week
2) pinay accounts supervisor, body 8.5/10, can weekdays, 3xs per week
3) pinay maid, body 3.5/10, my Sunday part time cleaner at my home, once a week

[jdksg]

Originally Posted by entering

Get a maid, so many options to choose plus they won't bao tuo you.

If you're able to pay, then you can get one super hot one and some are willing to be exclusive.

Currently, I've settled on 3 long term
1) indo nurse, body 6/10, can meet weekdays, once a week
2) pinay accounts supervisor, body 8.5/10, can weekdays, 3xs per week
3) pinay maid, body 3.5/10, my Sunday part time cleaner at my home, once a week

Power bro! Sounds like a very tiring but exciting week for you usually 😂

[ejectjoy]

Originally Posted by doctrine

Hi everyone. Asking something which may sound dumb, hopefully no one will judge or criticise.

I am actually thinking, is it possible to have a long term sex partner? I prefer to meet just one lady for regular sex, whether it is paid or not. I do not need to be her exclusive partner, she's free to be with other men as well. The reason is because I don't want to meet too many people and expose my identity. I find that FLs are hard for such arrangements, as many are only doing it till they are out of financial trouble, and eventually leave the trade. Girlfriends are tough as well, because I don't think I can open up my own heart due to bad experiences in the past.

So is there such a thing as a sex partner for the long term? Please don't criticise my ignorance �� thanks everyone.

I am a long time cheongster. Perhaps over 10 years ago, I had the same thinking - have a dedicated sex partner for long term (I am married, and do have regular sex with my wife then). Found one suitable pretty masseuse (who is a PR in Sg). We had regular weekly sex without condom for about 2 years. Then discovered she tried to establish a closer relationship like wanting me to meet up/take care of her siblings when they visit etc Decided to break it off.

Then I ventured into Geylang. The PRC pros were not bad then. Discovered that variety added spices into my life. Having sex with different pretty gals give different excitement (and some disappointments). But my life is less interfered. I also visit FLs and MLs nowadays (probably more often) as quality of Geylang pros has degenerated much more post Covid.

I had been having regular sex (without condom) with an ML for a couple of months until she became a kept woman to a rich guy who could splurge more than $10k a mth on her. We decided to break it off for her own good.

[Samtotato]

Originally Posted by ejectjoy

I am a long time cheongster. Perhaps over 10 years ago, I had the same thinking - have a dedicated sex partner for long term (I am married, and do have regular sex with my wife then). Found one suitable pretty masseuse (who is a PR in Sg). We had regular weekly sex without condom for about 2 years. Then discovered she tried to establish a closer relationship like wanting me to meet up/take care of her siblings when they visit etc Decided to break it off.

Then I ventured into Geylang. The PRC pros were not bad then. Discovered that variety added spices into my life. Having sex with different pretty gals give different excitement (and some disappointments). But my life is less interfered. I also visit FLs and MLs nowadays (probably more often) as quality of Geylang pros has degenerated much more post Covid.

I had been having regular sex (without condom) with an ML for a couple of months until she became a kept woman to a rich guy who could splurge more than $10k a mth on her. We decided to break it off for her own good.

Great that u established nice long-term partners.
But sad to say, Mls, esp condo mls easier tio bao by rich dudes. Their aim is to earn more, after all :/

[TenSanYi]

Originally Posted by entering

Get a maid, so many options to choose plus they won't bao tuo you.

If you're able to pay, then you can get one super hot one and some are willing to be exclusive.

Currently, I've settled on 3 long term
1) indo nurse, body 6/10, can meet weekdays, once a week
2) pinay accounts supervisor, body 8.5/10, can weekdays, 3xs per week
3) pinay maid, body 3.5/10, my Sunday part time cleaner at my home, once a week

Bro, how did you managed to do so? through which app?

[Birkin]

Originally Posted by ejectjoy

I am a long time cheongster. Perhaps over 10 years ago, I had the same thinking - have a dedicated sex partner for long term (I am married, and do have regular sex with my wife then). Found one suitable pretty masseuse (who is a PR in Sg). We had regular weekly sex without condom for about 2 years. Then discovered she tried to establish a closer relationship like wanting me to meet up/take care of her siblings when they visit etc Decided to break it off.

Then I ventured into Geylang. The PRC pros were not bad then. Discovered that variety added spices into my life. Having sex with different pretty gals give different excitement (and some disappointments). But my life is less interfered. I also visit FLs and MLs nowadays (probably more often) as quality of Geylang pros has degenerated much more post Covid.

I had been having regular sex (without condom) with an ML for a couple of months until she became a kept woman to a rich guy who could splurge more than $10k a mth on her. We decided to break it off for her own good.

Thanks for sharing.

[aimuon]

Originally Posted by Samtotato

Great that u established nice long-term partners.
But sad to say, Mls, esp condo mls easier tio bao by rich dudes. Their aim is to earn more, after all :/

Agree with you.

[Xgenre]

actually it is possible and many such arrangements are found in the elderly age group. Their kids have grown up. They are either divorced or widowed. As long as there are no wedding plans, such arrangements are not frowned upon. Take care of one another. Sex cannot be the only agenda though. It's more like friends with benefit

There are many single ladies or widows/divorcees looking around too. They don't have the equivalent of Geylang. As long as you tell them your requirement (like no marriage in the end), some can accept. Especially the divorcees/widows with kids. They can have a personal life which doesn't require them to introduce a new man into the kids' lives.

Even the foreigner ladies with kids in international schools will be interested. You are not in their social circles and they are free on weekday mornings.

[Neoguri]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

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Even the foreigner ladies with kids in international schools will be interested. You are not in their social circles and they are free on weekday mornings.

These are my favorite!

[donut88]

Originally Posted by doctrine

Hi everyone. Asking something which may sound dumb, hopefully no one will judge or criticise.

I am actually thinking, is it possible to have a long term sex partner? I prefer to meet just one lady for regular sex, whether it is paid or not. I do not need to be her exclusive partner, she's free to be with other men as well. The reason is because I don't want to meet too many people and expose my identity. I find that FLs are hard for such arrangements, as many are only doing it till they are out of financial trouble, and eventually leave the trade. Girlfriends are tough as well, because I don't think I can open up my own heart due to bad experiences in the past.

So is there such a thing as a sex partner for the long term? Please don't criticise my ignorance �� thanks everyone.

Yes possible

U don't need money. U just need some good EQ and can interact well enough. No need to be Manhunt champion. I know many guys who are short and balding with Fwb or FB.

If u know u r socially introvert, then u got a problem. So u got to work on it.

And it takes time and some luck to find a long term partner.

[mojo241]

Originally Posted by doctrine

Hi everyone. Asking something which may sound dumb, hopefully no one will judge or criticise.

I am actually thinking, is it possible to have a long term sex partner? I prefer to meet just one lady for regular sex, whether it is paid or not. I do not need to be her exclusive partner, she's free to be with other men as well. The reason is because I don't want to meet too many people and expose my identity. I find that FLs are hard for such arrangements, as many are only doing it till they are out of financial trouble, and eventually leave the trade. Girlfriends are tough as well, because I don't think I can open up my own heart due to bad experiences in the past.

So is there such a thing as a sex partner for the long term? Please don't criticise my ignorance �� thanks everyone.

Just to share, prior to the pandemic,I had a regular KTV girl for long term partner. Initially I had to lay the groundwork and entice her to go out with me. Then negotiate the price. Once the deal is on, I used her as and when both of us are free. Normally, a half day afternoon delight, lunch at nearby hotel with desert in the hotel room. It was a very exciting experience since I wanted this. No regrets. But after a while I got a bit tired of her but thankfully,she went home due to pandemic and we lost touch.

I'm now in my mid sixties and no time for this excitement. The urge gets lesser and I normally need 3 weeks to recover to try to get that feeling again.

Hope this helps.

[Zetyalpha]

Originally Posted by entering

Get a maid, so many options to choose plus they won't bao tuo you.

If you're able to pay, then you can get one super hot one and some are willing to be exclusive.

Currently, I've settled on 3 long term
1) indo nurse, body 6/10, can meet weekdays, once a week
2) pinay accounts supervisor, body 8.5/10, can weekdays, 3xs per week
3) pinay maid, body 3.5/10, my Sunday part time cleaner at my home, once a week

Not trying to be mean, lol. But 3.5 is wayyyyyyyyyy unacceptable for me.

[entering]

Originally Posted by Zetyalpha

Not trying to be mean, lol. But 3.5 is wayyyyyyyyyy unacceptable for me.

3.5 yes but she's been with me since 2018. That time I still new so not picky, got place to park my cock I happy already.

But turned out she comes to my place every weekend to clean my place. While my family is out, she takes off her shorts, takes off my shorts, sits on me, fucks herself till she comes twice, then she will stand up and say, "cum in me please".

It's a routine I always look forward to on Sundays. Some Sundays my family is out for breakfast we fuck once, then my family is out for lunch we fuck again.. sometimes she just walk to the bathroom, soap up her ass and ask me to anal her until I cum inside her.

Trust me, she looks like 3.5, but anything else is a 11/10 especially when I wake up at 730am to wait for her to arrive at my place and while everyone is still asleep, she will pull me into the toilet and suck me till I cum.

This maid is 44

[entering]

Originally Posted by jdksg

Power bro! Sounds like a very tiring but exciting week for you usually 😂

I fucked that Pinay accounts girl almost everyday until the Hotel front desk people can chit chat with me. So now I go there, I feel a bit weird that they talk to me like friend.

Some more long queue, I walk in with her, they know I don't mind level 1, they give me the room immediately. The other guy complain but he doesn't want level 1, so he lan lan.

Not being ungrateful but really burnt a fucking big hole in my pocket when I fucked her daily for almost 2 months when I was working from home. Daily I'm spending close to $60-80 depending on how long is the room, plus also give her a bit.

That's not including paying her dinner (after fucks) and also not being able to drive Grab cuz I was busy fucking.

But due to some reason, the accounts Pinay for sent back and to be honest, I really miss her cuz I'm already 50 and she's the only one that can make my cock stand for 2-3 rounds. then reach home at 3am, wake up and go to work at 7am (when my work from home ended) and fall asleep at work.

But she was damn aggressive and I like aggressive girls. Take a lot of work out for me cuz they've their own initiatives.

This accounts girl is 33

[entering]

Originally Posted by TenSanYi

Bro, how did you managed to do so? through which app?

Aiya the usual apps la. There's a lot of info in the maids thread. I started in 2009 learnt from all the seniors there and trial and error.

I like maids, or nurse or these foreign admin girls cuz they don't cuz trouble cuz they need the job. Plus, can try once each to decide if want to keep. If don't, like, just prospect continually, until you settle on your top 6-7.

I'm not picky but I'm on roster basis. Plus I choose not based on looks, but based on how sexually aggressive and how much they satisfy me after I paid for a $50 room.