A bit sian of GL

[p u r e]

Been at GL for years. Admittedly it's only limited to Cat50. But yes, now I wonder if it's still worth it for me to go GL altogether.

Hear me out a bit more.

Once I've chosen a WL, I only get the kick out of anything that happens before actual sex (BJ included of course). In fact, I'm really not much of a BBJJ person - I've tried a lot of the WL that have great reviews for BBJJ and I just found the entire BBJJ experience very mechanical for almost every encounter. Sometimes, if I were to be completely honest, it can be a bit physically uncomfortable. The only saving grace is if I actually find the WL physically attractive.

But yes, I like those WL that know how to turn the heat up before going onto bed.

As for FJ, I have actually been skipping it for a while. Why? My dick just gets soft very soon after putting on the condom. I've tried even the 002, and that's with a WL I've chemistry and one that I find reasonably physically attractive. I strongly strongly suspect it's due to the chemicals in the condom. To that end, I've tried 5mg of Cialis once, and voila, dick was good to go. But I'm not really keen to continue that Cialis habit at this point of time. By the way, I've no problems getting an erection and maintaining it when it comes to BBJJ - so far in all my years of GL, only one WL has made me cum via BBJJ. Everyone else just gets tired of blowing me after over 10 minutes and switches to HJ to finish me off.

Of course, it's entirely possible that if I were to pay more to go for Cat 150, I might actually get much better BBJJ experience. And even what happens before going onto bed. But I'm not sure how likely that will be.

Yeah.. Just my thoughts.

[riotspace]

Hi bro, maybe the expectation for you seems more than the actual doing? Maybe taking a break might prove better when you come back? Similar to if you pcc too much small brother cannot work properly when sex time. Just my thoughts...

[p u r e]

Originally Posted by riotspace

Hi bro, maybe the expectation for you seems more than the actual doing? Maybe taking a break might prove better when you come back? Similar to if you pcc too much small brother cannot work properly when sex time. Just my thoughts...

Good idea. Really.

Though I should say that I've been taking breaks from GL for up to 5 months twice in the past year.. And end up same shit haha. I also don't think I PCC often - at most twice a week. Usually once a week or sometimes only once a fortnight.

Anyway, to be honest, I'm not really complaining about this. Can save money. I'll see how... When the feel is there, I might go.

I have things to keep me occupied anyway.

Thanks for your input in any case. I do appreciate it.

[Geylang1969]

Originally Posted by p u r e

Good idea. Really.

Though I should say that I've been taking breaks from GL for up to 5 months twice in the past year.. And end up same shit haha. I also don't think I PCC often - at most twice a week. Usually once a week or sometimes only once a fortnight.

Anyway, to be honest, I'm not really complaining about this. Can save money. I'll see how... When the feel is there, I might go.

I have things to keep me occupied anyway.

Thanks for your input in any case. I do appreciate it.

Thanks for the insightful post Bro.
May I ask your age? I think age is a factor in this situation. As we get older we need more to stimulate us, the same old routine wont stimulate same after many repeats..

[IAmAwesome]

Originally Posted by Geylang1969

the same old routine wont stimulate same after many repeats

Very true this seems to happen to most of us as we age, its just like watching porn after a while it does not seem to excite you any more

[p u r e]

Originally Posted by Geylang1969

Thanks for the insightful post Bro.
May I ask your age? I think age is a factor in this situation. As we get older we need more to stimulate us, the same old routine wont stimulate same after many repeats..

I'm in my late 20s. But yes, I can see where you're coming from and I can imagine that's the case based on what I've heard and read.