How can I make my wife/gf hornier?

[Mango]

I love to make love, but my wife is a bit off. She will not let me fukc her more than 3 a week, else she will complain here pain there pain. I am a bit piss off..And due to financial constraint, i am not able to cheong like you guys...

Any idea how can i make her more active in sex?

[sammyBleu]

Originally Posted by Mango

I love to make love, but my wife is a bit off. She will not let me fukc her more than 3 a week, else she will complain here pain there pain. I am a bit piss off..And due to financial constraint, i am not able to cheong like you guys...

Any idea how can i make her more active in sex?

bro just my 2 cents worth hor, dun zap me if i say things u tink not make sense or logic..


btw i am not married but attached with a Shanghai gf..

u may lighten the ambience at home by maybe trying different setting like having candlelight dinner with red or white roses just to surprise her and show her tt u are genuine to brighten her day. Then u can give her a light body massage before proceeding to dine in.

After dining, u guys can proceed to have some red wine (alchol la) so she wont be preoccupied complaining much and she will be floating in a sense since she will be high. Once she feels happier, make her horny by cuddling up next to her and fondling her. Once both of u r horny, you guys can try out different methods like BBDSM or SM or watever pleases you.

btw i am a chef so i occasionally cook for my gf and she appreciates alot. she returns the favour by bbbj and sex after. Else I will massage her then she just bbbj.

I am not talking crap but all i said r real bro. I tried them, maybe if u want u can try out too..

[Mango]

bro sammyBleu.
I understand what you are trying to say. creating a romantic atmosphere. Yes, it help a bit, but cannot everyday do the same thing mah. What i am looking for the change her nature, make her want it, looking for it, beg me to fuck her.. etc... anywhere anytime..

[sammyBleu]

Originally Posted by Mango

bro sammyBleu.
I understand what you are trying to say. creating a romantic atmosphere. Yes, it help a bit, but cannot everyday do the same thing mah. What i am looking for the change her nature, make her want it, looking for it, beg me to fuck her.. etc... anywhere anytime..

hmm..abit challenging.. let me crack my head and come back to u k bro..

[trooper]

Bro,
i think u should find out why she's so off for sex first before u can think of a possible solution..
She complained pain here and there, is she really physically in pain or is she trying to make excuses?
First you must understand what is the problem behind it before bros here can give suggestions to ur current situations.

Jus my 2cents worth opinion.
Hope things will work out for you soon and have sex with ur gal soon. Bless you.

[muutseeker]

Bro,

Maybe you tried this already but have you used a lubricant? Sore down there means she no lubricating enough..can be especially bad if you use condom all the time which are lubricated but can dry out easily and chafe her skin.

Lots of girls have this problem bro so don't take it personally if that the case.

Best of luck

[sammyBleu]

Originally Posted by muutseeker

Bro,

Maybe you tried this already but have you used a lubricant? Sore down there means she no lubricating enough..can be especially bad if you use condom all the time which are lubricated but can dry out easily and chafe her skin.

Lots of girls have this problem bro so don't take it personally if that the case.

Best of luck

make sense bro.. no wonder so sore..

[cataract]

Originally Posted by Mango

I love to make love, but my wife is a bit off. She will not let me fukc her more than 3 a week, else she will complain here pain there pain. I am a bit piss off..And due to financial constraint, i am not able to cheong like you guys...

Any idea how can i make her more active in sex?

foreplay dude

[Keong19]

Hmm ....... can i suggest that u try all means and ways to get into her good book? Make her happy by obeying her instruction and surprise her by buying whatever she wants. Go the extra mile just to make her happy .... trust me, it works.

[Lubber]

Try exploring different ways, doesn't mean always in bed must poke poke. Can always give her a sensual full body massage and end it with a full body orgasm using your fingers. If everytime poke poke will sian one also. So best for now is exploring different ways to enhance the love love mood in bed. Please dun zap me,just a harmless comment.

[hotdick69]

firstly do you and your wife get intimate often??? women get turn off by men alot of times because when men get physical (Hugging,Kissing....) only when they want sex..... so change their view.... try to establish a physical relationship.... like wake up in the moring kiss her tell her u love her...... hug and cuddle and dont push for more....... let her feel comfortable to all the lovey dovey things..... show her tender loving care..... women are humans so when u give her all the romance she will slowly change her idea of sex.... so sex is not like a duty she has to do... but more of sex she likes to do..... hope this helps.... understand ur wife.... know what she likes..... and work from there..... dont make sex like its a routine.... make it fun with long foreplay.... slowly she will open up.... good luck

[ex350]

lots of great advice here.
i couldn't even get 3x a month


so come here to release stress

ex350
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[Lubber]

Or you can make both of you a cup of tea when at hm. Sit beside her and talk to her. Slowly move in closer till you're both about 10cm away from kissing. Talk to her softly this time while gazing at her and her lips. Then stop talking and use ur hand to brush through her hair and the back of your hand on her face. Move in a little closer more and this time make so that she's thinking that you wanna kiss her. Stay there for a few secs then get up and walk away. Go to the kitchen or toilet and do what you want for few mins before proceeding back to her.At this point she might be unable to tell what you're thinking. Sometimes playing little games like this might get the girl aroused.
Back to her, sit beside her and stare at her a little seductively. Whatever she say or ask at this point, simply hold her hand with one of yours and brush through her hair and face with the other. Then pull her closer slowly. From here on how you wanna proceed is up to you bro.

woman love to get horny is on thier health. but if u wan them enjoy as much as u ! u have to make them feel comfortable lor
Not only sleep on bed
Romance is a must
best is make them feel special lor the best is get them some thing they anted very long ago
they can go for 3 to 6 time 1 night

[Marlborolgt]

Bros, dun zap me hor.....
i'm just trying to be as honest as i can be... i had the same problem as the threadstarter.. maybe he is still better than me..i sometime abt 3 x a month.. worst.. hence have to spend $$$ on FL and HC.. but also can't carry on like that cost alot of $$$..
i have try all methods..yap i know candles stuffs, romatic and so for..but it only work for that night. when after my whole day tire work at night just wan a good bonk.. where got mood to set up candles....!!!
i even try not touching her for awhile until she automatic come regularly...but its only for a period of time...(TILL TODAY I HAVE NOT FOUND A SOLUTION)..

I guess its all in that women thing.." i have a colleauge who is married and she was complaining that her hubby was not giving her.. and she felt lonely and crave for sex from me.. i bonk her afew times but..slowly i also tire..cus no click leh...hence still rather spend $$$ on commercial.."

My advise is read more bed tactics to help you arouse her and make her like it... it will atleast help abit..