Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Honey Boon]

I am here, Nha Trang

Originally Posted by jackbl

Very quiet here. Where are you guys?

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by SureScore

All had graduated from this college of Vietnam Babe. No more experiences to share. Plenty of cases which are written here.

I noticed one common scenario.

In this uncertain times in Singapore, many men will not want to get married even with foreigner wife. The income is down and many unsure what will happens. So marriage is down.

The above is just my opinion.

Bro SS marriage is for life not just dollar n cents.. But good for those who led by small head..bad times will wake them up

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

I am here, Nha Trang

you learnt the skill of XNN

[Honey Boon]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

you learnt the skill of XNN

no la... actually I was calling to the one who was at Nha Trang

[batty]

Do Vietnamese wives scream and shout in arguments? Are they drama queens?

A number of posts back some brother mentioned that Singaporean men can be the guarantors or sponsors of their Vietnamese wives' relatives coming to Singapore. What happened in these cases?

[esssinine]

interesting thread. quite new to viets but can refer this thread for info

[Blast88]

Originally Posted by batty

Do Vietnamese wives scream and shout in arguments? Are they drama queens?

A number of posts back some brother mentioned that Singaporean men can be the guarantors or sponsors of their Vietnamese wives' relatives coming to Singapore. What happened in these cases?

Ask yourself do you 'speak softly' during an arguments, viet wives are also only women like u, however me & my bx have an agreement we will not quarrell in front of our kids.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by batty

Do Vietnamese wives scream and shout in arguments? Are they drama queens?

A number of posts back some brother mentioned that Singaporean men can be the guarantors or sponsors of their Vietnamese wives' relatives coming to Singapore. What happened in these cases?

haha...Viet women are not softies...they screamed, shouted and talk loudly...they also screamed loudly during lam tinh...

i had witnessed quarrel on the streets between two Viet women and it was ugly sights...

never sponsor any relatives...asking for trouble...just let them come on tourist visa..

[Kim91]

SINGAPORE: Deputy Prime Minister and Minister in Charge of Population Issues, Teo Chee Hean has assured Singaporeans that the Long Term Visit Pass Plus in no way disadvantages a foreign spouse's application for Permanent Residence (PR) or Singapore citizenship (SC).

Replying to various issues raised in Parliament during the Committee of Supply debate on the Prime Minister's Office, Mr Teo stressed that the Long Term Visit Pass Plus is meant to provide more certainty and a higher level of social and work benefits for spouses who might otherwise remain on a Long Term Visit Pass as they have not yet met the requirements for PR.

As at 31 December 2012, there were 11,736 foreign spouses of Singapore Citizens on the Long Term Visit Pass including the Long Term Visit Pass Plus scheme.

And, 4,200 have been granted the Long Term Visit Pass Plus since it was introduced in April 2012.

Mr Teo said: "As their marriages and family situations stabilise, and they become increasingly integrated, more of them will qualify to become Permanent Residents, and eventually naturalise as citizens. Over the past five years, 4,100 foreign spouses were granted PR every year, and a further 4,100 took up citizenship each year."

On the criteria for granting PRs and Singapore citizenship, Mr Teo explained that Singapore's immigration framework has been tightened significantly since late 2009.

All PR and SC applications are carefully evaluated on a comprehensive and stringent set of criteria to assess the applicants' ability to contribute and integrate well into Singapore society, as well as their commitment to sinking roots here.

This includes factors such as the individual's length of stay in Singapore, family profile, economic contributions, qualifications and age.

The government also considers the applicants' family ties to Singapore.

Mr Teo also addressed suggestions by some Members of Parliament (MPs) to include having Singaporeans vouch for or support a person who applies for PR or SC.

He believes these are possible ways to encourage integration and indicate how well an applicant has adapted to Singaporean norms, values and lifestyle.

And the government will study these suggestions and is also open to other ideas, as it continues to fine-tune the framework.

"We should continue to adopt a holistic framework for assessing applications, and remain open to diversity even as we do more to encourage and help immigrants integrate better into Singapore, and adapt to our norms and practices," he said.

- CNA

[Kim91]

Seperately i read on yest Straits Times that 30% of babies from 2012 are borned by our wifes... Hahaha this year got at least 3bb from this threads.. Good job bros!!

[Spectrre]

Originally Posted by Spectrre

What if a wl is willing to fork out her money for your expenses and hotel stay while in singapore?

This is a 100% true story, May my whole family be cursed if this is untrue cause to bros out there, this may seem like a fairy tale.

Boy A met this WL when chionging KTV. First time saw this WL being book by his friend, neh neh also being squeeze by his fren. NVM. Cause only another vietnam lady.

2nd day, Boy A go same KTV and saw this WL again. Boy A remember her cause previous night got some small talk, so ask her sit down and talk to her as his fren not here yet. Boy A learnt that last night this WL want for ST with his fren. Well, Boy A's Fren never come so whole night, Boy A try to KC the WL and managed to jio WL to ON. Nothing special ON, shoot 3 times, then pay the WL SGD100 only...

3rd night and so forth, every night WL will call Boy A and almost every night, will go hotel ON for free, Boy A only pay hotel charges.

And so come this fateful day, Boy A on Leave, this WL call and ask Boy A to go out. Boy A say no money, and this WL say she paid for everything, is SGD300 enough? So they went to book hotel, buy Bak Gua, eat frog leg porridge, everything the WL pay. I swear this is the truth.

So from that night onwards, everytime they go hotel or eat, the WL will pay. WL will work and then after work, use money earn to go out with Boy A.

So one day WL say no money sent home so Boy A give SGD500 to WL, but take note that previous outing and hotel stay already exceeded SGD500.

Last day, WL no money go home, so ask customer wan ON or not? Boy A not happy but dare not say cause he know he no money give WL. WL notice Boy A sadness and never go out with the customer for ON, despite she no money go home. Whole night, the 2 of them spent the night at Macdonald Bugis sleeping at the table.

WL go back, Boy A go Vietnam find her, then decided to get married. So arranged ROM singapore and come back get married. Boy A allow WL to work after marriage and allow ON and ST.

Boy A's family like WL, and there is no unhappiness between them, but due to transport problem, Boy A and WL move out to a rented house. It was at that time that Boy A got retrenched. WL never leave Boy A, instead go out working and use her own hard earned money to pay room rental and everyday expenses. Boy A in the meantime look for job.

Things that happen during their stay in the rented room. Boy A got into some serious argument with family. Boy A Mama come find WL, and talk nicely to the WL. WL go home scold Boy A to apologize to Mama.
No matter what happen, Boy A is always the first priority, even before her family in vietnam. Boy A go borrow money from licensed money lender because really need money to sent to her home, cause 2 month she come here, never even sent a single cent back, and WL's mama and children stay in HCM, house rental SGD200. That time, for 2 months only sent back SGD350.

WL tell Boy A everything, including sms, who sit with her, and let Boy A see all her customer, secretly of cuz. Sometimes, Boy A even sms customer on her behalf.

So now they have move back to Boy A's house, and after a few months of financial insecurities, they are still together and still very loving. And WL is still working, at the same time do housework, cook for Boy A's family before going to work. (Most of the time.) And everytime goes out with Mama, WL pay for food most of the time. So right now situation is like this. Will update even more in the future as this is a true story and is still ongoing.

So bros of this forum, did Boy A strike TOTO by getting to know such a WL and having her as his BX?

Update time for the ongoing life story.
sorry for long update but as this is a real story and a ongoing one. The update time also correspond to real life timing.

So to cut the update short, they have been living with Boy A's house for quite a long time, getting close to 11 months since they last known each other.

So during that time. WL got to know a customer name M. M is a typical gong gong chiongster who really believe in love from a WL. Some of the silly things he do is, "Call WL everytime on her phone and check on her whereabouts, must go fetch her every night and a lot of things all written in the matters of the heart section." From what i know and gleam across, WL has totally no feeling for him.

So, argument start between Boy A and WL because of this M. Until one day, M found out that WL is married to Boy A. WL sprout a lie that she is married to Boy A because she wants to work here. And M believes it. Wow....

So due to Boy A's family pressure and his new work life which includes going out to drink with customer. Boy A got worried everytime his WL goes out to work.

1) Get caught by police, everything gone case.
2) Get caught by Boy A's colleagues or clients, Boy A's face gone case.

So Boy A persuade WL to stop working and she really stop working. Never work anymore. In return, Boy A send SGD 600 every month home to vietnam. Sometimes SGD 800.

So this life goes on, WL becomes a dutiful housewife while Boy A work. And Boy A's work gets better and better till he can afford a Volvo. And WL cares for the house, and of course Boy A's belly. He's getting fatter day by day.

Anyway it was only later that i found out that the Volvo is company provide. Chey. But who can drive a volvo at 27 yrs of age unless u got a very rich family. Anyway thats out of topic.

But another twist of the story comes.

Boy A's past caught up with him. His past dealings with Ah longs caught him, and he got targeted by those loan shark syndicate. They wanted him to cough up SGD 10k for all the past dealings he did. I will not go into details on this matter as it could complicate me also.

Of course, i help him as much as i can. But still not enough. He managed to borrow another SGD 5k from his friends "So call" Friends on the promise that he will return 1k every month for 7 months!!!

So technically he needs to suffer for another 7 months.....talk about bad luck...But WL never leaves him, instead she told him that she will go work again to help him with this SGD 1K and no need send SGD500-800 every month back to vietnam. She promies that once every month she earns around SGD 2k, she will not work for the remaining of the month.

I was shell shocked....where got WL do until like this....even my friends with local well groom, well cultivated girlfrenz wont do this kind of things...

I was and am really confused. Is this really true love? Can really a vietnamese woman love her husband to this kind of depth?

Besides, i wont go into details of the WL and M case...as it is already over and i also dont have much info on it.

[Genomes]

wow so wot

[stillgottheblue]

Wow, boy A really found someone that love him, even willingly to sacrifice herself for him. Hopefully boy A can solved his financial problems by working hard so that the girl can stopped working as WL again.

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

Wow, boy A really found someone that love him, even willingly to sacrifice herself for him. Hopefully boy A can solved his financial problems by working hard so that the girl can stopped working as WL again.

The jury is still out there. We can only tell after a few years. Let us wait and see.

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...Viet women are not softies...they screamed, shouted and talk loudly...they also screamed loudly during lam tinh...

i had witnessed quarrel on the streets between two Viet women and it was ugly sights...

never sponsor any relatives...asking for trouble...just let them come on tourist visa..

Why mine previous gfs dint scream loud during Lam Tinh

When I quarrel with my present gf, she always the one keep quiet and only when i shout too loud at her, she will then talk back a little. My past gf will shout and sometimes even wanna to fight with me.