Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[batty]

Can and do Vietnamese wives drink alcohol a lot? Drink regularly? If so what do they like to drink? Get drunk easily and often?



On another subject Vietnamese food sold in Singapore quite expensive I notice.

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by batty

Can and do Vietnamese wives drink alcohol a lot? Drink regularly? If so what do they like to drink? Get drunk easily and often?

I don't think Vietnamese wives drink at all. If you are referring to ex-WL in ktv or bars then yes, they drink heavily which is their job. In fact this applies to all nationalities.

[mutantchicken]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

My thoughts -
6k and below is low
10k min. comfortable

Base on single earning household

based on that then most singy guys who i have met, some who even have singy wife, and are lokingt o add a vn gf would be considered poor, 72k sing after tax is close to 100k before tax...compare to the average household monthly income of singapore is 7k hahah

all u guys better reconsider abt getting vn wives if KT assessment is accurate

[decent02]

Originally Posted by mutantchicken

based on that then most singy guys who i have met, some who even have singy wife, and are lokingt o add a vn gf would be considered poor, 72k sing after tax is close to 100k before tax...compare to the average household monthly income of singapore is 7k hahah

all u guys better reconsider abt getting vn wives if KT assessment is accurate

KT talking about household income and not individual income...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by mutantchicken

based on that then most singy guys who i have met, some who even have singy wife, and are lokingt o add a vn gf would be considered poor, 72k sing after tax is close to 100k before tax...compare to the average household monthly income of singapore is 7k hahah

all u guys better reconsider abt getting vn wives if KT assessment is accurate

To get a vn wife is ok as long as the wife not that demanding... But to ADD a vn gf or mistress will be difficult to maintain if income not high

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by decent02

KT talking about household income and not individual income...

Same mah... If married vn wife and wife not working, household income also individual income.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by batty

On another subject Vietnamese food sold in Singapore quite expensiv. e I notice.

I would say it is reasonably priced when we are talking about non-sillypore food.
Korean, jap, thai, western cuisine also priced around the same if eat in foodcourt

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by batty

Can and do Vietnamese wives drink alcohol a lot? Drink regularly? If so what do they like to drink? Get drunk easily and often?

Actually, drinking alot or like to drink is based on the very individual, be it guy or gal or any nationality. But i do noticed that those whose drink often n got frunk often, guys stands a higher numbers than gals. Also some gals r better drinkers than guys!

Originally Posted by batty

On another subject Vietnamese food sold in Singapore quite expensive I notice.

Singapore food in vn also very expensive too. 物以稀为贵？

[kasain]

The reason i post here is because its english, anonymous, and the bigger forums ive seen with bros that have vn wife & exp except the vn forums.

I read some of you bros are skeptical, and i understand, cause im also skeptical myself and have thought about the worst scenarios myself.
What i feel i know is that she is sincere, at least when it comes to loving me(bear with me).
Im a VK, living in nr1 HDI country, young, not ugly(since a bro dont believe ill change my wording), have a prominent stable future, good probable pay when out of college(even low job here earn 4k+ usd/per person/month easily/normally), genuinely sincere about the rela, and well not so much like the player douches in vn mostly..
I dont want to disclose to much as its the internet and could haunt you forever..

You can say we hit each other up, and not only 1way. She work all day in the citys biggest massage, where hanky panky is forbidden except the usual happys. She told me she sometimes/occasionally(havent asked limit) do escort if someone offer her alot(havent asked limit). Clearly that dont really classify as fulltime WL where you can just spread legs and get some easy $ as shes mostly occupied throughout the day. And her financial problems should still be prevalent as she just came here to work 3months ago..

I have also offered her money like 300/500usd a month to help her out with her family debts but she flat out rejects(!). She also KNOW i WONT marry before im finished in college, which is 1.5-2years from now. So im pretty sure she is not out to scam me CASH, and i would not, could not give her alot of cash either out of caution..
I know she dreams of a future with me, a good future, but who doesnt? women.. vn.. debts.. family.. possibility of dream..
Its a long way there, and who knows how the future will be??.. love.. is fragile, for both, and thats the reason im trying to take steps to secure it..
im a chicken when it comes to love and complexity of vn culture, but do find myself rational and not stupid enough to fall for KCgame(ejecting at the first notion of restlessness like with the first girl.)..

I do thank the bros who advise me to seek better, normal VB, but when you have feelings.. I do know some girls, hot girls, party girls in vn but mostly i just hang out and party with them and didnt hit on them.. except 1 which hit&score(irrelevant story).. Honestly speaking i just wanted to bang some of them, but theres no more feeling than that, and after i met This one i didnt try anymore because i respect her feelings and our rela..

What i would like bros here to advise me on is, how can i be a part of her life and melt the icewall she shield herself with? what can i say so i can make her open up to me?

i know you bros have alot of inside, personal knowledge and game, and its the very reason i went and posted here to ask for help..

Thank you for taking the time to read and please give some feedback

[hoian]

Bro, I kinda understand how u feel. Here is my assessment. When a gal decides to go on that dark road... be it ML, WL, etc, their hearts are shut off.

All men are just meat they put in their holes for money. It doesn't matter whether yours is long, short, tiny, stinky etc. It's capped anyway with Durex. They are also the greatest actress of all time, able to make u think they actually enjoy sex or need your protection, love, comfort etc.

The ones I know easily make US$10,000 a month and all they wanna do is maintain that target... then rest for a few months, party like hell... and it's back to work again.

These gals I know have no shortage of money. They carry iPhones, iPads etc. Their stories are all similar, used to come from well-to-do family, father got conned by family friend, cheated of business/house, loanshark banging on family doors, need to help dad repay debts etc. Most of these gals come from in and around Can Tho.

Originally Posted by kasain

I know she loves me....

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by vietboy

dun quite understand why u posted here.

SINGLISH spread to northern Europe

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by kasain

What i would like bros here to advise me on is, how can i be a part of her life and melt the icewall she shield herself with? what can i say so i can make her open up to me?

you are already part of her life
do nothing say nothing...she will auto melt and open if you just LISTEN

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

you are already part of her life
do nothing say nothing...she will auto melt and open if you just LISTEN

master has spoken...

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Same mah... If married vn wife and wife not working, household income also individual income.

can bro KT give a bit of breakdown how to arrive at $6k?
if only got 1 parent to look after with no kids... a bit lesser is ok ba
plus hdb 5rm already fully paid?

but most impt is vn wife not demanding .. and contribution to her family is minimal

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by milfmilf

can bro KT give a bit of breakdown how to arrive at $6k?
if only got 1 parent to look after with no kids... a bit lesser is ok ba
plus hdb 5rm already fully paid?

but most impt is vn wife not demanding .. and contribution to her family is minimal

Huh? I am just saying $6k is low salary...

Just checked that the median household income is $7,570 in 2012.