Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[mutantchicken]

Originally Posted by intelcore3

I think it is the lady who thinks she hits a gold mine and making an investment to mine it out. This is not unheard of... A KTV girl makes a lot of money can make the investment. Similarly a Geisha, wants to buy herself into real love and respectability ....

They don't have time, they have money. If a guy can buy a woman , why can't they (their way of reason ...) , their show of "love" because they are disadvantaged being in their trades. So they want to start with an upper hand to level the playing ground in their game of love. These life stories may be few but enough around ...they are "tragedies" and sadness because they have such low probabilities of ending well. They do inspire tragic novels don't they ... the Geisha world will probably be well told.

yes that is POSSIBLE...but from your post i would suggest you would have very little REAL world experience with women..as you post is based on a few assumptions, that teh KTV girls is one with money and little time, that the said guy is a gold mine and she is working the long line fishing...well if the first premise is true, she probably wouldnt be working in a ktv in the first place, so this money is "small" money if this is the case, secondly if his guy was a gold mine, then he would have too much pride and alpha male qualities to TAKE a womans money esp when he has more financial resources, and especially is he was a hgold mone he wouldnt be dating whores, he would be mrely having fun with them tehre definately wouldnt be any discussion of marriage and this concerns of being conned, and thats where the original poster was expressing his concerns about.

[V|ernar]

she has a motive one la .

my friend married a hanoi con gai working in singapore as dancer ... same old story , fly my friend over just to bonk her , he didnt spend much as most of the expense the girl pay it .

so my friend think he stuck gold and married .

happy marriage for 2 years , 1 daughter .

and he applied PR for his wife , PR approved .

then the true story come liao , his wife start to have affair outside .

bring daughter back to hanoi whenever fail to ask for money .

now breakup liao , wife working as chambermaid in 5* hotel , applying for singapore IC using daughter as sponsor .

man left with half of his asset and paying monthly alimony .

[UbErZoNe]

Originally Posted by mutantchicken

yes that is POSSIBLE...but from your post i would suggest you would have very little REAL world experience with women..as you post is based on a few assumptions, that teh KTV girls is one with money and little time, that the said guy is a gold mine and she is working the long line fishing...well if the first premise is true, she probably wouldnt be working in a ktv in the first place, so this money is "small" money if this is the case, secondly if his guy was a gold mine, then he would have too much pride and alpha male qualities to TAKE a womans money esp when he has more financial resources, and especially is he was a hgold mone he wouldnt be dating whores, he would be mrely having fun with them tehre definately wouldnt be any discussion of marriage and this concerns of being conned, and thats where the original poster was expressing his concerns about.

Yes quite true

[BabyTeddy]

HI Bro.
Im back to Singapore.
Really bad luck. My phone spoilt the day i reach HCMC.

Sorry FireShark bro. maybe we can meet next time i go..BTW i as at D1.
Lucky i ex classmate got one friend in the neighbourhood.

Well I moving on from the vb.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by BabyTeddy

HI Bro.
Im back to Singapore.
Really bad luck. My phone spoilt the day i reach HCMC.

Curious, what was your intention of the post?

[Cum_Luver]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Curious, what was your intention of the post?

bro,

u back in town or still over there with bros

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Curious, what was your intention of the post?

IMHO, just to advance notice that he did not 'put aeroplane'

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Cum_Luver

bro,

u back in town or still over there with bros

"Town" as in Singapore and "over there" as in HCMC?

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by BabyTeddy

HI Bro.
Im back to Singapore.
Really bad luck. My phone spoilt the day i reach HCMC.

Sorry FireShark bro. maybe we can meet next time i go..BTW i as at D1.
Lucky i ex classmate got one friend in the neighbourhood.

Well I moving on from the vb.

Catch no ball " Well I moving on from the vb ". Does he mean, he don't want to have anything with the vb or withdraw from vb scene ?

[MIFAcafe]

Sad story.....

I am glad to read all this posts then to go thru the suffering personally.

Xin loi, I am very new to Viet Nam. I got nothing much to contribute.

I just want to say Thank you to everyone whom contribute to this great thread.

Originally Posted by V|ernar

she has a motive one la .

my friend married a hanoi con gai working in singapore as dancer ... same old story , fly my friend over just to bonk her , he didnt spend much as most of the expense the girl pay it .

so my friend think he stuck gold and married .

happy marriage for 2 years , 1 daughter .

and he applied PR for his wife , PR approved .

then the true story come liao , his wife start to have affair outside .

bring daughter back to hanoi whenever fail to ask for money .

now breakup liao , wife working as chambermaid in 5* hotel , applying for singapore IC using daughter as sponsor .

man left with half of his asset and paying monthly alimony .

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by johnthan00

If posts and joined date is the key to a story or life experiences here then i would suggest those with few points and no power and those without powerful bros here to skip this forum. As what they post here will not be greeted with the same respect and credibility. Or i should say i need to tcss with all fellow users of sbf 1st and gain enough points n reputation b4 i speak my mind abt some things or life experiences or i would deem to be a clone or a newbie with fantasy.

Elitism at its best even in sbf...? (hello its a sex related forum, not a social political forum)

I can't agree more with you on the "seniority" or "power" system ...
suppose to read what people write and reply if bothers to, no need to see what points lah , power lah ... I'm senior you are junior crap

[Kim91]

Tet coming!! Any bro going back with bx? I going 9th -15th bring my boy to collect back some 'li xi'...

[owen10]

Originally Posted by Kim91

Tet coming!! Any bro going back with bx? I going 9th -15th bring my boy to collect back some 'li xi'...

Huh? All my friends with viet wives are not goin back to Vietnam for cny to avoid giving out angpows to a whole village. Yr boy may be happily collecting angpows but yr pocket could end up with a big hole!

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Kim91

Tet coming!! Any bro going back with bx? I going 9th -15th bring my boy to collect back some 'li xi'...

Collect 2,000 vnd li xi each and give 50,000 vnd min li xi each... Lugi lah

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by owen10

Huh? All my friends with viet wives are not goin back to Vietnam for cny to avoid giving out angpows to a whole village. Yr boy may be happily collecting angpows but yr pocket could end up with a big hole!

Don't scare people lah... Not whole village of people ask for ang pow.
Last time i spend one cny in vn at my wife province. I only give ang pow to her direct family member who are back at the province to celebrate.