Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Did the man do enough to 'protect' himself from getting cheated?

Did the man understand more about her before marry?

Did the man know the pro/con especially for marry a vietnamese?

Did the man take care of her especially her feeling after marry or just want to marry 1 for sex or just for companion?

Did the man learn more about vietnamese culture or just think after marry everything will be smooth?

The list go longer and longer

Pls for all SG man,ask yourself all this before u blame your vietnamese spouse.There is always good and bad apple but nobody force u to buy,u can choose to wait and see whether got good one next time or not.

Dont ever think young,pretty with hot figure,peel for u prawn shells,call u ox,say she miss u,etc etc etc etc and think marry is an easy thing.

sorry I dug out this old post back in 4-12-2012...I just want to share what we heard of bad apple...this involves bad Sinkie men...

recent trips...heard from 2 VBs who had very bad experiences with sinkie men...now these gals dun believed sinkie men anymore...

one VB around 25 had a baby gal and no marriage...the sinkie man dumped her for another syt after a few years together...all the sweet talk and bonk then bye bye...now VB have to work 2 decent jobs to feed the daughter and family...

another VB around 23 yrs old just plain clear no like sinkie man...without giving reasons...must have hurt pretty badly...now the gal is working in a local bia om...when knew is sinkie...she will ask not to sit...

well amongst us there are also bad apples...just not only bad apples amongst VBs...so who are we to blame...my advice is if you play then play with responsibilities...remember anything you do there is good and bad karma...with so many flights sin - sgn daily...sure there will be plenty of sinkie men going to play and we are not going to hear the last of this...

dun think VBs are always the predator and men are the prey...the role can be reversed...

[MIFAcafe]

Read to 600 pages.

Some of the statement posted are priceless.....
I do not mention the nicks, but thanks for this top 2 priceless quote.

1. In VBs mind Lend and Give has the same meaning.
Hence if your lend VBs money; it is as good as giving it away.

2. VBs are short sighted. Only interested in short term gain.
When they are with you; they count how much they can gain in shortest period of time. They never think about "long term relation or long term gain".

[profx]

These Irresponsible Singaporean really a disgrace. Want to get free and good gfe fuck so promise giving them a family. After fuck just fuck off.
I stay out of those who told me they only want guy for marriage and family.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

sorry I dug out this old post back in 4-12-2012...I just want to share what we heard of bad apple...this involves bad Sinkie men...

[biasaigon]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

1. In VBs mind Lend and Give has the same meaning.
Hence if your lend VBs money; it is as good as giving it away.

2. VBs are short sighted. Only interested in short term gain.
When they are with you; they count how much they can gain in shortest period of time. They never think about "long term relation or long term gain".

Can we blame the girls for above?

The VBs may not know when the men will just fly away and they are left to ponder what is next. It takes 2 hands to clap and certainly willing buyer and seller market. Nothing is right or wrong.

[MIFAcafe]

Not blaming anyone.

Just feel that we need to "understand potential companion" characteristic so we know how to live and play with them.

I met a few VBs and very confuse about their behaviour. Even when I promise to fulfilled their wishes; they can still blame me, upset with me and say I do not care.

So senior brothers here whom have long experience with them will clear my mind. I am just picking up the best sentences I have read. And there are many more good points that I just kept in my mind; and I follow this pointers without fails and without regrets.

I am a happy man whenever I follow those pointers. If I do not follow; I really feel like Mr Roberto.

Originally Posted by biasaigon

Can we blame the girls for above?
The VBs may not know when the men will just fly away and they are left to ponder what is next. It takes 2 hands to clap and certainly willing buyer and seller market. Nothing is right or wrong.

[MIFAcafe]

Originally Posted by biasaigon

Can we blame the girls for above?

The VBs may not know when the men will just fly away and they are left to ponder what is next. It takes 2 hands to clap and certainly willing buyer and seller market. Nothing is right or wrong.

Yesternight I meet up with a VB for dinner.

We have dinner ($15) and 4 bottle of beers ($28) and spend 2 hours together.

When I am about to leave she ask me to tip her.... I am completely confuse...

I give her $20... but she insist $50. So to make thing simple.... I put the $20 back into my pocket and left her alone.

This is what a sinkee felt rude to do against gals..... but after reading 600 pages of this thread. The right thing to do is just ignore her and left her alone and let her own brain play with her.

[banana81sg]

very agree.....use to have viet gf.....visit her at least 4x a year....even rush down c her when she sick.....in the end still say i dont care....

[profx]

She ask you to tip for bringing her to eat dinner. Probably becoz you pick the 'WL" type of VB to eat dinner with you. She do not enjoy dinner with you but have better things to do, she is entertaining you dude and expect to earn something for accompanying you.

Unless u sibei yandao and young, other wise dont expect KC them. There is no free lunch with this kind of girls.

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Yesternight I meet up with a VB for dinner.

We have dinner ($15) and 4 bottle of beers ($28) and spend 2 hours together.

When I am about to leave she ask me to tip her.... I am completely confuse...

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by biasaigon

Can we blame the girls for above?

The VBs may not know when the men will just fly away and they are left to ponder what is next. It takes 2 hands to clap and certainly willing buyer and seller market. Nothing is right or wrong.

Some vbs one leg step on two boats !! The men will be left to ponder what is next..

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Yesternight I meet up with a VB for dinner.

We have dinner ($15) and 4 bottle of beers ($28) and spend 2 hours together.

When I am about to leave she ask me to tip her.... I am completely confuse...

Did you discuss about the amount of tips before asking her out for dinner?

Originally Posted by profx

She ask you to tip for bringing her to eat dinner. Probably becoz you pick the 'WL" type of VB to eat dinner with you. She do not enjoy dinner with you but have better things to do, she is entertaining you dude and expect to earn something for accompanying you.

Unless u sibei yandao and young, other wise dont expect KC them. There is no free lunch with this kind of girls.

I used to teach many vb (whom I am kc-ing) that tips for accompanying in pub, tips for dinner/supper, tips for hotel/bonking are charged seperately
This way, I make sure they earn their own money instead of getting from me

there are still some WL type of vb willing to give many things FOC when they are KC-ed.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by profx

These Irresponsible Singaporean really a disgrace. Want to get free and good gfe fuck so promise giving them a family. After fuck just fuck off.
I stay out of those who told me they only want guy for marriage and family.

heard of this old tactic many times from many vb... always got customer say wanna marry her and help her get a ltvp for her to work in sillypore. The customer motive is to get her to bed FOC..

Many vb are smart now... they won't fall for this already.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Not blaming anyone.

Just feel that we need to "understand potential companion" characteristic so we know how to live and play with them.

I met a few VBs and very confuse about their behaviour. Even when I promise to fulfilled their wishes; they can still blame me, upset with me and say I do not care.

1) we don't play with potential life partner.
2) upset and blaming man for not caring is a woman nuture... applies to woman all over the world.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

When I am about to leave she ask me to tip her.... I am completely confuse...

Guess u asked her out for dinner and she treated as a "business" deal

I will never pay for WL to have dinner with me but if go hotel then I dun mind paying.

[volcano]

i believe what treatment u get from VBs depends on

- where u meet the VB
- what kind of mind set she having
- is she the right person for u

well,dont expect WL VBs to accompany u for free in all different ocassions..they have their expenses to go Sinkie,food,air tix etc etc...true there are cases where the VB willing to "sacrifice" due to they either wanna lay the bait or they feeling lonely alone in Sinkie..but the possibility might be 1 out of 100.


try meeting VBs who are working in executives and management levels in Vietnam..i do know a few of them,and majority does not require u to pay for their expenses on gatherings..

although i have not been living in Sinkie for years,only going back once or twice every year.i believe that many Sinkie gals also have the mind set of expect the guy to pick them up and foot for the bill...

in general...every country also has these kind of gals,there might be more in Vietnam if compared to other countries bcos of their poverty.

it takes 2 hands to clap..nobody point a gun and force anyone..choice is yours to make..

after so many years of interaction with VBs...i can say i do know them quite well..jealousy,money minded etc many other nationality gals also have...there is one particular thing where i notice 99% of the VBs has this same attitude...and that is STUBBORN

[MIFAcafe]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

1) we don't play with potential life partner.
2) upset and blaming man for not caring is a woman nuture... applies to woman all over the world.

Senior KT, when I say play I meant go tour or outing lah.