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My frustration comes from the fact that these ladies (or their families) seems to be totally clueless to the concept of planning for the future. At least the Thai ladies have some idea of a goal to work towards to because they know this lifestyle cannot last forever.
In reality, majority in this world, when poor will only think of having meals on the table and roof on top day by day.
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to me...all WL said this to make themselves feel better...the gal will fell better if they think are diff...true enough they may have diff problems at home...but all things leads to one thing...$$$...only $$$ can help them...
Whether WL or ur bx, money is always a problem... esp if ur bx family is poor.. its about how to deal with it.. potential OX must think twice..
No need to distinguish between Vietnamese life partnar and Working ladies lar.
All Vietnamese girl are Working ladies. Just treat any Vietnamese girl like WL will do
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Originally Posted by volcano
sigh.....i think this thread shld change name to "Understand Vietnamese Working Ladies"....
So many stupid discussion, just treat all vietnamese girl as WL will do,
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Originally Posted by MIFAcafe
VBs are not stupid. Sinkees are.
The chance of sinkees been cheating are much higher.
I known girls whom have onxa still go out with men. (not man)
Girls with bf still interest to go out on date.
2 side of thing. You keep saying bonking; but there are girl that I go out and I did not even bonk.
And companionship not necessarily need to co-habit.
Maybe you stay in a different planet.
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Originally Posted by profx
There are innocent VBs too otherwise there wont be pregnant girl abandon by their bf or husband. If sinkie choose to be with XNN VB, it is their own fault, like my previous girl i mention ask for money to help school fees.
Sinkie man are label as stupid whenever they go date foreign girl, isnt it the same with PRC girls.
Girls with ongxa still go out with men and girls with bf still interest to go date. Sounds familar. Isnt some singaporean girls behave this way too? This does not apply to VBs only, but anyway are those VBs you mention decent VB girl or indecent girl?
My important point still the same, if the girl we date hope to have a husband, but we sex with them with the thoughts that we no need to marry, just take care them, we are no different to the irresponsible guys. Unless the the girl tell you it is ok to have sex with her without the need to marry her, then we no longer need to be responsible.
As for your companionship and dating, i should not comment because i did not know too much about your story.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by Kim91
Hahaha 牛头不对马嘴roi... now I cant differentiate who got bx liao
Whether WL or ur bx, money is always a problem... esp if ur bx family is poor.. its about how to deal with it.. potential OX must think twice..
SG girls may be worst, friend with viet bx gives sgd350 per month for viet family. Another mid income guy with SG wife gives sgd1500 per month for wifey family.
Yet another friend support his own family with single income (maid, loans, cars, parents, kids, groceries, etc.) ... wife work, but gives around 2k to her own parents, the rest on own shopping, personal car. Zero help to her own kids/husband. This friend says the day he loses his job is the day his wife will divorce him.
Bottomline, it's usually guys who get ourselves stuck in a hellhole.
Yet another friend support his own family with single income (maid, loans, cars, parents, kids, groceries, etc.) ... wife work, but gives around 2k to her own parents, the rest on own shopping, personal car. Zero help to her own kids/husband. This friend says the day he loses his job is the day his wife will divorce him.
I feel shame, need to dig a hole for myself I dun give so much money to my parents.
Depends on families.... I dunno about your friends but seem like my friends dun give so much to in laws, some even dun. Wife will pass her own money to her parents.
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Bottomline, it's usually guys who get ourselves stuck in a hellhole.
Bottom line is how you manage ppl's expectation.
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SG girls may be worst, friend with viet bx gives sgd350 per month for viet family. Another mid income guy with SG wife gives sgd1500 per month for wifey family.
Yet another friend support his own family with single income (maid, loans, cars, parents, kids, groceries, etc.) ... wife work, but gives around 2k to her own parents, the rest on own shopping, personal car. Zero help to her own kids/husband. This friend says the day he loses his job is the day his wife will divorce him.
Bottomline, it's usually guys who get ourselves stuck in a hellhole.
your friend sg wife case a bit extreme
most SG wife will help her own family first then her parents
last time don't have the slightest idea that marrying a poor foreign wife also need to take care of her family ... thought marry her, giving her better life if good to her and also off load her family liao
SG girls may be worst, friend with viet bx gives sgd350 per month for viet family. Another mid income guy with SG wife gives sgd1500 per month for wifey family.
Yet another friend support his own family with single income (maid, loans, cars, parents, kids, groceries, etc.) ... wife work, but gives around 2k to her own parents, the rest on own shopping, personal car. Zero help to her own kids/husband. This friend says the day he loses his job is the day his wife will divorce him.
Bottomline, it's usually guys who get ourselves stuck in a hellhole.
Hahaah then I shd change my statement. .if u marry wife who dun earn same or more than u n her family is not so will to do..u are expected to help up one way or another.. not just viet bx.
I feel shame, need to dig a hole for myself I dun give so much money to my parents.
Depends on families.... I dunno about your friends but seem like my friends dun give so much to in laws, some even dun. Wife will pass her own money to her parents.
09-05-2014, 06:21 PM
牛头不对马嘴roi... now I cant differentiate who got bx liao
I dun give so much money to my parents. 
