Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[MIFAcafe]

Stupid enough to reply you.

There are countless of marriage agencies. It is a form of brides trading.

And I am uneducated in the field of bride trading.

Slavery and prostitution have been around for centuries; and guess who make it illegal?

People that cannot take a commission or profiteer from it. Mainly the Government.

Guess why whore houses in Singapore are legal? (hint: tax are been paid.)

If Government make a rule to say gravity law is illegal; will it make everyone fly?

Originally Posted by Bote

You did not know buying wife is illegal? Are you stupid or uneducated?


Slavery has always been illegal in today world

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...you knew nothing yet...many young mothers here...child 1 to 4 yrs old mother only 25 and below...VBs pregnant but willing to give birth instead of abortion...father disappeared...

Totally agree with you. My no. 2 is a vb, single mother age 25 and has a 3 year old kid.. father disappeared when the kid is 6 months old.

[Rythmik]

like that is vietnam having serious single mother problem?
or in their culture that is not a problem?

[MIFAcafe]

Youngest I see so far is 21 year old with a 5 year old kid.

Do the math... Pregnant at such a young age.

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Youngest I see so far is 21 year old with a 5 year old kid.

Do the math... Pregnant at such a young age.

The Youngest Mum I see you guys will be horrified. 22 year old with a 9 year old kid. Heard from my bx that she was raped many times at the age of 13 by her older brother's best friend. Too late to abort when they know she being raped.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by FireShark

The Youngest Mum I see you guys will be horrified. 22 year old with a 9 year old kid. Heard from my bx that she was raped many times at the age of 13 by her older brother's best friend. Too late to abort when they know she being raped.

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Youngest I see so far is 21 year old with a 5 year old kid.

Do the math... Pregnant at such a young age.

I always tell my frens dun probe about a vb past if she do not want to divulge...likely to be lies...imagine her nightmare raped or sexually abused at very young age...what is the point of knowing the truth...often frens cannot accept truth...so if you like the vb then just proceed...if not then move on with responsibility...if vb is also wl then make sure frens pay and no more commitment after payment...

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Rythmik

like that is vietnam having serious single mother problem?
or in their culture that is not a problem?

Having sex at a very young age is very common over there.Abortion over there is nothing new and can be done super cheap over there.Honest VB or your further spouse will tell u the truth that she have a kids when u all are together but those with hidden agenda will not let u know,so purely is individual luck.

Sex,money,lies is a culture over there.9 out of 10 WL work in sg have a kid back at vietnam.Dont think 22 years old,pretty and young is no kids.u are wrong.They have might a kid there and boyfriend there but still call u ox.

Many of a time is sg man jump into it.They are here to earn money not to have a relationship but most of the time is sg man put feeling on them,they know once u start to show it and then clever one will start their ways of sucking money from u

Told my bro not to have feeling with them but still dont want listen,first viet he know in sg,almost kana big and want marry.Fly there to see her and give fat tips to her at ktv.Help her and she start to show colour and ask for money.same story,house roof leak rain water,family member sick blar blar blar

[Golden question]

Recently went to an orphan house in HCM.Around 200 no father no mother kids is staying there.Have a talk with the in charge there,was told some parents just place their new born outside their gate and left.

Ask her up to now have any parents return to take back,she say no.Youngest is only 3 months old and i have to change to see her.Kids there did ask the staff over there where is their mother and father when they grow older but all the staff told them is they dont know.

At first thought mostly will be girls over there cos thought vietnamese still have some chinese background thinking that male can pass down their surname but i was wrong.

Ask them and was told mostly is male that are abandon there so reason might be girl will have a 'better return' for their parents if they grow older i guess

[Golden question]

A lot of story,lies or truth that normal singaporean will not think of cos we are brought up in a safe and standard environment.Things that are unbelivable to us is a very common thing over there.

They will never listen to u the fact and truth but will always like listen to what u can give them.

Ten years ago when i was there,i told a young chap i no money to go massage,he shoot me back and say no money why come vietnam

Ten years later when i was there,i told a VB i no money,she shoot me back and say no money why can go SG ktv haha

I told her she is correct haha

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by Golden question

A lot of story,lies or truth that normal singaporean will not think of cos we are brought up in a safe and standard environment.Things that are unbelivable to us is a very common thing over there.

Truth or lies it is better for that person to find out. I had one experience before that my friend's vb now bx told my friend that her house do not have electricity. She can't charge her HP always as she need to charge at her neighbour house. My and I don't believe it and felt that she lies. Thus, my friend and I decided to take a trip down her house. In order to get to her house, the only way is by motorbike and there isn't a proper road to ride. the road was small and muddy. Luckily only 5 min ride reach her place. When my friend see the place really so dilapidated, my friend gave her some $$. Me and my others frds also contributed some too. It really an experience for me to see some poor families.

There are also others vb who lies too. Thus we just need to be extra careful.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Recently went to an orphan house in HCM.Around 200 no father no mother kids is staying there.Have a talk with the in charge there,was told some parents just place their new born outside their gate and left.

I had just pm you...

We are finalizing our charity list and thanks to those who had passed me/committed the money..we had quite a sizeable donations this round for the hungry ghost festival...we hope to do charity donations at a few places this round...

Hospital - giving out cooked packet food
Orphanage - raw food, biscuits, milk
Old folks home - raw food, etc
Poor ppl in district - raw food, etc,

thanks also to those who had booked tickets and offer manpower to give out the food to the poor and needy...you will witness all these during the charity donations...pls make sure you take a few more photo shots...

[Rythmik]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Having sex at a very young age is very common over there.Abortion over there is nothing new and can be done super cheap over there.Honest VB or your further spouse will tell u the truth that she have a kids when u all are together but those with hidden agenda will not let u know,so purely is individual luck.

Sex,money,lies is a culture over there.9 out of 10 WL work in sg have a kid back at vietnam.Dont think 22 years old,pretty and young is no kids.u are wrong.They have might a kid there and boyfriend there but still call u ox.

Many of a time is sg man jump into it.They are here to earn money not to have a relationship but most of the time is sg man put feeling on them,they know once u start to show it and then clever one will start their ways of sucking money from u

Told my bro not to have feeling with them but still dont want listen,first viet he know in sg,almost kana big and want marry.Fly there to see her and give fat tips to her at ktv.Help her and she start to show colour and ask for money.same story,house roof leak rain water,family member sick blar blar blar

all so familiar ...
indeed their ox ... for the $$$ ...
many lonely SG man looking to re-juvenile or start love life

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I had just pm you...

We are finalizing our charity list and thanks to those who had passed me/committed the money..we had quite a sizeable donations this round for the hungry ghost festival...we hope to do charity donations at a few places this round...

Hospital - giving out cooked packet food
Orphanage - raw food, biscuits, milk
Old folks home - raw food, etc
Poor ppl in district - raw food, etc,

thanks also to those who had booked tickets and offer manpower to give out the food to the poor and needy...you will witness all these during the charity donations...pls make sure you take a few more photo shots...

Will let u know.Was told 10 kids of different age are staying in each house.I told that lady whom i think is age 50 or 60 plus and in charge that whether i can see that 3 month old infant and she say she will ask someone to bring here.I told her is ok,i can walk over cos outside very hot,no need bring baby over

Was sleeping time in the afternoon for them so most house is quiet while i was there except 1 or 2 playing around with ballon by themself.So try not to disturb them by asking the kids to take photo with u all and ask her to arrange.

Some might not be comfortable with many strangers around,anyway glad to know H88 and your guys are doing all this work

[volcano]

Originally Posted by FireShark

Truth or lies it is better for that person to find out. I had one experience before that my friend's vb now bx told my friend that her house do not have electricity. She can't charge her HP always as she need to charge at her neighbour house. My and I don't believe it and felt that she lies. Thus, my friend and I decided to take a trip down her house. In order to get to her house, the only way is by motorbike and there isn't a proper road to ride. the road was small and muddy. Luckily only 5 min ride reach her place. When my friend see the place really so dilapidated, my friend gave her some $$. Me and my others frds also contributed some too. It really an experience for me to see some poor families.

There are also others vb who lies too. Thus we just need to be extra careful.

not having electricity deep in the country side is in fact very common...some homes also dont have clean water for usage...they fetch water from the river bank...for homes with clean water,the water supply is only available during day time.hence they will have many big pails in the house for storage of water..

and many homes are still using dried coconut husk to start fire for cooking...

[mutantchicken]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I always tell my frens dun probe about a vb past if she do not want to divulge...likely to be lies...imagine her nightmare raped or sexually abused at very young age...what is the point of knowing the truth...often frens cannot accept truth...so if you like the vb then just proceed...if not then move on with responsibility...if vb is also wl then make sure frens pay and no more commitment after payment...

exactly knowing those details doenst help anyone, u know u will feel empathy and pity for her, makes it easier to get extra mney from u..she tell u and its opening old wounds..same as stupid question ask WL why she doing that job blah blah or worse if she like being WL