Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by mutantchicken

exactly knowing those details doenst help anyone, u know u will feel empathy and pity for her, makes it easier to get extra mney from u..she tell u and its opening old wounds..same as stupid question ask WL why she doing that job blah blah or worse if she like being WL

Agreed with u,sometime is best not to know or ask.Dont expect much in return from them and those guys with them will be more happier.

Treat them as 'buddy' or 'friends' but not ordinary 'friends' is the best

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Anyone has this similar encounter where man try tackle your bx after knowing she is vnese?

Have u done that also ????

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by Seletar

Totally agree with you. My no. 2 is a vb, single mother age 25 and has a 3 year old kid..

Wow didn't know you kept No.2 liao

[batty]

I know we cannot generalise about Vietnamese wives. Cast your mind back. Two questions:

Q1. A Singaporean husband who has a Vietnamese wife, has been sending money to his Vietnamese wife's mother who is sick, given money to his wife's brother who is in trouble with the law in Vietnam and given money to repair her parents' house. He knows all these might not be true but he dutifully gives. When he asks her for a favour, will she help? He is not even asking her for money. Is a Vietnamese wife grateful? Is she reciprocative?

Q2. A Singaporean husband is asked by his Vietnamese wife to give her money because her mother is sick. She needs the money to buy medicine. Another time she needs money to repair her parents' house in Vietnam. The husband said what medicine does she need? He happens to have contacts who sell the medicine. He can send the medicine there instead? Or he will contact his kakis in Vietnam who will send workmen based in Vietnam to repair her parents' house. What are the possible answers from his Vietnamese wife? Don't trouble yourself, just give the money? If she answers this, her husband should be suspicious right?

[Bote]

Those old man go married young bride then end up with such situation, stupid right? You think they suck a man same their father age still enjoy love with you?

No need headache lar, just treat them as whore will do.

Originally Posted by batty

I know we cannot generalise about Vietnamese wives. Cast your mind back. Two questions:

Q1. A Singaporean husband who has a Vietnamese wife, has been sending money to his Vietnamese wife's mother who is sick, given money to his wife's brother who is in trouble with the law in Vietnam and given money to repair her parents' house. He knows all these might not be true but he dutifully gives. When he asks her for a favour, will she help? He is not even asking her for money. Is a Vietnamese wife grateful? Is she reciprocative?

Q2. A Singaporean husband is asked by his Vietnamese wife to give her money because her mother is sick. She needs the money to buy medicine. Another time she needs money to repair her parents' house in Vietnam. The husband said what medicine does she need? He happens to have contacts who sell the medicine. He can send the medicine there instead? Or he will contact his kakis in Vietnam who will send workmen based in Vietnam to repair her parents' house. What are the possible answers from his Vietnamese wife? Don't trouble yourself, just give the money? If she answers this, her husband should be suspicious right?

[mutantchicken]

Originally Posted by batty

I know we cannot generalise about Vietnamese wives. Cast your mind back. Two questions:

Q1. A Singaporean husband who has a Vietnamese wife, has been sending money to his Vietnamese wife's mother who is sick, given money to his wife's brother who is in trouble with the law in Vietnam and given money to repair her parents' house. He knows all these might not be true but he dutifully gives. When he asks her for a favour, will she help? He is not even asking her for money. Is a Vietnamese wife grateful? Is she reciprocative?

Q2. A Singaporean husband is asked by his Vietnamese wife to give her money because her mother is sick. She needs the money to buy medicine. Another time she needs money to repair her parents' house in Vietnam. The husband said what medicine does she need? He happens to have contacts who sell the medicine. He can send the medicine there instead? Or he will contact his kakis in Vietnam who will send workmen based in Vietnam to repair her parents' house. What are the possible answers from his Vietnamese wife? Don't trouble yourself, just give the money? If she answers this, her husband should be suspicious right?

ok these are valid questions but also why is it not relevant to get details of the husband as well, is he a old and desperate ugly man, whose only option in getting a wife is by "shopping" in poor overseas countries and who only sees his wife as a sexual play thing or some kind of trophy, and he gives this money not due to love but because of fear he will lose her.
If you were a employee and you needed a job and u know your boss was desperate for your skills, ie he gives you a salary but tehre is no job satisfaction or pride in working for such a company, would you really value your job, or just wait for a better more respectable employer comes along giving you better career prospects.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Have u done that also ????

I don't think i need to resort to that...
Experience once with a ah lian vb from sau bay tam few years back is good enough.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SnowLeopards

Probably you could highlight to your Mrs and her friend, in future, explaining a wrong number has been dialled in more than sufficient.

There are many Hyenas out there.

Pierre.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

why is there a need to say wife is vietnamese...

this is pretty much stereotyping...

Friends help reply...

[KangTuo]

Recently my wife has have been shopping online and come to a fb site where vb sell food to earn for a living. Ordered the food and met this vb to collect. From a short conversation, know that she has been staying in singapore for 10+ years. Husband not supportive and cannot provide much for the family. For the past few years she has been selling vn food to support the family. Work start as early as 6am... Going to market, prepare food and dessert, bring a marketing trolley and travelling around sillypore by mrt to deliver the food till 9pm. In between, she still need to fetch her son to and from school. Her son will follow her around till work finish.

My wife pitied her and we bought what ever is left in the trolley.
My wife also commented that if marrying such an oversea husband, mind as well find a vn husband and stay in vn.

[lovesprout]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

My wife pitied her and we bought what ever is left in the trolley.
My wife also commented that if marrying such an oversea husband, mind as well find a vn husband and stay in vn.

The main point of this post is that KT is a very good oversea husband

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Recently my wife has have been shopping online and come to a fb site where vb sell food to earn for a living. Ordered the food and met this vb to collect. From a short conversation, know that she has been staying in singapore for 10+ years. Husband not supportive and cannot provide much for the family. For the past few years she has been selling vn food to support the family. Work start as early as 6am... Going to market, prepare food and dessert, bring a marketing trolley and travelling around sillypore by mrt to deliver the food till 9pm. In between, she still need to fetch her son to and from school. Her son will follow her around till work finish.

My wife pitied her and we bought what ever is left in the trolley.
My wife also commented that if marrying such an oversea husband, mind as well find a vn husband and stay in vn.

Travelling around to deliver food by mrt around sillypore,unless is food like curry puff or else cook food will not be nice.

Imagine my pho have to travel by mrt from one station to another station if my place is far from her place

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Recently my wife has have been shopping online and come to a fb site where vb sell food to earn for a living. Ordered the food and met this vb to collect. From a short conversation, know that she has been staying in singapore for 10+ years. Husband not supportive and cannot provide much for the family. For the past few years she has been selling vn food to support the family. Work start as early as 6am... Going to market, prepare food and dessert, bring a marketing trolley and travelling around sillypore by mrt to deliver the food till 9pm. In between, she still need to fetch her son to and from school. Her son will follow her around till work finish.

My wife pitied her and we bought what ever is left in the trolley.
My wife also commented that if marrying such an oversea husband, mind as well find a vn husband and stay in vn.

There is 2 group chat in FB, Nguoi Viet o Sing- In this group chat, there are many vb renting out rooms; selling food, clothes etc.

Người Việt Ở Sing- Vietnamese in Sing
Chợ Việt Nam Tại Singapore

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

My wife pitied her and we bought what ever is left in the trolley.
My wife also commented that if marrying such an oversea husband, mind as well find a vn husband and stay in vn.

Wah lao.. ur wife is contributing to divorce among vn-sg marriage.. recently met an old vn lady who stayed here 40yrs now selling jade at a 4D shop, she warned ke not to let my wife meet those vn wl, cos she saw many good bx becomes bad after mixing too much with them

[stillgottheblue]

Originally Posted by Kim91

Wah lao.. ur wife is contributing to divorce among vn-sg marriage.. recently met an old vn lady who stayed here 40yrs now selling jade at a 4D shop, she warned ke not to let my wife meet those vn wl, cos she saw many good bx becomes bad after mixing too much with them

Good woman mixed with whores sure becomes bad woman. There are many ancient sayings in different cultures pointing to that too.

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Wow didn't know you kept No.2 liao

Don't tell me you don't have ?

I prefer every month change girl but bo bian liao