Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1330

mutantchicken · #**19936** 30-07-2014, 01:19 AM

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Originally Posted by FireShark

I had one good example too. My friend which is old now 50 married a young VB which is 26 now.
-5K Wedding
-1k Photos in VN
-2K as a gift for her family

After that my friend only gave her $500 each month only cos my friend don't earn much. His BX work as a Beer lady but manage to save and built a house for her family after 3 years. I ask my friend did he pay anything he say no, only $500 each month.

I had 1 friend, Malaysian, got a VB pregnant and marry in VN. Total Expenditure for wedding is 5K only. Now monthly, he just send $400 to his bx only $400. The kids is abt 1 year old now. The bx didn't ask much fm my friend too. Just enough for her and their kids

I had another friend, in the midst of divorce, got 1 vb pregnant. No wedding No photo taking, the vb willing to take care of the Kid. My friend wanted to divorce immediately but due to the regulation, the case was dragged and waited for a while. The VB waited until delivery of their children, then my friend managed to get divorce and now I find them live happily.

All my 3 friends earn not more than $3.5 K a month.

There are always good and bad VB but for VB I find them have more empathy (if you explain to them) than some other foreign wives.

ok firstly men are driven by ego..so even if they are giving more they may say they give less..to say they give more they will be labled a cockald..even to close friends..second i ask again whats the advantage of gettinng married, is it not to share you life with another person, to get emotional psychological and physical support...now in those cases you describe, in some cases the woman lives far away so its impossible to provide a man that kind of support, instead the man gives 300-400 monbth for little or no ROI, further he is not providing any support apart from financial support, so im sure for the physical/emotional support she is getting elsewhere...again for the beer lady, she gets to earn she gets to help her family, she prob is too busy too tired to have sex...fake marriaages to australia are worth 70k usd..so she gets a similar value in the singapore marriage FREE plus she gets 300 a mth..and she again gets a suppliment to her income for doing nothing...thats a bargain for the girl..please tell me where i can get a JOB where i get 300-400 a mth where i dont have to do anything except pick up my phone and say a few sweet words and maybe a few times a month/ do "something"...if that is what you guys call a marriage...then god help this society we live in

SingViet · #**19937** 30-07-2014, 06:26 AM

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Originally Posted by mutantchicken

ok firstly men are driven by ego..so even if they are giving more they may say they give less..to say they give more they will be labled a cockald..even to close friends..second i ask again whats the advantage of gettinng married, is it not to share you life with another person, to get emotional psychological and physical support...now in those cases you describe, in some cases the woman lives far away so its impossible to provide a man that kind of support, instead the man gives 300-400 monbth for little or no ROI, further he is not providing any support apart from financial support, so im sure for the physical/emotional support she is getting elsewhere...again for the beer lady, she gets to earn she gets to help her family, she prob is too busy too tired to have sex...

I agree totally.

KangTuo · #**19938** 30-07-2014, 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

I have passed the 10 years mark . working towards the 15 years mark . Congrats . more good years for you .

Koaz... I only pass the 2.5 years mark.

Hurricane88 · #**19939** 30-07-2014, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by FireShark

After that my friend only gave her $500 each month only cos my friend don't earn much. His BX work as a Beer lady but manage to save and built a house for her family after 3 years. I ask my friend did he pay anything he say no, only $500 each month.

There are always good and bad VB but for VB I find them have more empathy (if you explain to them) than some other foreign wives.

knew a few Viet beer ladies...all are married here in sinkie with at least 1 kid and most PR or LTVP+...typical cases hubby are either earning little or no work...so BX has to go out work...most of the Beer ladies here are either having a few bfs or go hotel with clients to earn extra...

now the Beer Ladies are quite open about this and their hubby knew because they posted in FB openly with their bf...one Beer Lady told us the hubby cannot do anything becos she gave him money monthly to spent...now that is what you called a successful marriage...hahaha....

FireShark · #**19940** 30-07-2014, 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

knew a few Viet beer ladies...all are married here in sinkie with at least 1 kid and most PR or LTVP+...typical cases hubby are either earning little or no work...so BX has to go out work...most of the Beer ladies here are either having a few bfs or go hotel with clients to earn extra...

now the Beer Ladies are quite open about this and their hubby knew because they posted in FB openly with their bf...one Beer Lady told us the hubby cannot do anything becos she gave him money monthly to spent...now that is what you called a successful marriage...hahaha....

Wow, that bcos the VB gave the hubby to spend. I do know some do extra but not all. That time my friend ask me go down AMK for a drink cos they know I can speak TV. The beer lady was a vnese. I tried to ask her out 2~3 times but not successful.

I had quite no of friends who had married a vb with blissful marriage but I had saw 2 which really broke my friends heart too. Both VB just want $$$ only. In my life I never thought I will hit a woman but once I nearly wanted to give 1 of the vb a tight slap for being so rude and ill manner. If my friend was not there, I think i will slap her.

Hurricane88 · #**19941** 30-07-2014, 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by FireShark

Wow, that bcos the VB gave the hubby to spend. I do know some do extra but not all. That time my friend ask me go down AMK for a drink cos they know I can speak TV. The beer lady was a vnese. I tried to ask her out 2~3 times but not successful.

most of the beer ladies here can kiss on the cheeks after we got to know and few rounds of tips...

most beer ladies working dun live with hubby anymore...overnight with bf...and go home to be with kid in the morning till afternoon around 4pm...then repeat the next day again...

Bro MIFAcafe favorite hobby to kiss Viet beer ladies...

KangTuo · #**19942** 30-07-2014, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Bro MIFAcafe favorite hobby to kiss Viet beer ladies...

Where to find?
Must jio jackbl go... Kekeke

Beachsea · #**19943** 30-07-2014, 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by mutantchicken

ok firstly men are driven by ego..so even if they are giving more they may say they give less..to say they give more they will be labled a cockald..even to close friends..second i ask again whats the advantage of gettinng married, is it not to share you life with another person, to get emotional psychological and physical support...now in those cases you describe, in some cases the woman lives far away so its impossible to provide a man that kind of suppo

Bro here is right.
My friend is that ego kind, he dares not say he gives more than 1.5K month , but keep saying only $300-400 only. But all close friends also know he basically remits on nearly a weekly basis instead of month 300-400!

Yet we can't tell him as a friend, cause ever tried, he got hot up and also start saying those nonsensical things. Hence as friends, all of us can only pray.

volcano · #**19944** 30-07-2014, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Beachsea

Bro here is right.
My friend is that ego kind, he dares not say he gives more than 1.5K month

1.5K Sgd is 1 year basic salary of a waiter in Hcmc...

volcano · #**19945** 30-07-2014, 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

I have passed the 10 years mark . working towards the 15 years mark . Congrats . more good years for you .

just reach 5 years mark 4 mths ago...

15 years....still long long way for me ah...

jackbl · #**19946** 30-07-2014, 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

most of the Beer ladies here are either having a few bfs or go hotel with clients to earn extra...

Are those beer ladies attractive?

KangTuo · #**19947** 30-07-2014, 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

one Beer Lady told us the hubby cannot do anything becos she gave him money monthly to spent...now that is what you called a successful marriage...hahaha....

Successful 小白脸...