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I have been going to viet joints in sg for many years and never got hook deeply before by any of the girls. 2 year ago it happened.
I was attracted to her look before I got into the room .. later mummy brought her (T) in and of cozy choice is her.
T was the same as any other girls I sat with before. Pretty and playful. Didn't think much about it then.
So my fren wanted to bring a girl for hotel and askT if she wanna go with me as well. She agreed. So the 4 of us went out for supper together before going to the hotel.
T was quite green and mentioned she didn't go to hotel with customer only her bf. The typical kc hook. For some reason she was successful because the sex was really good .she make u feel that u can make her Cum more than u make any other girls did.
I dated her over the next few days before I flew off for my job oversea. We kept in contact throughout my trip of 2 month she also went back to Vietnam and came over for her second trip 2 month later.
So I met her when I am back in sg and we went hotel everyday with me paying her everytime to make sure I keep it a sex transaction.
But slowly she crawled into my heart.. we became a couple before I left for my next oversea work trip.
I requested that she stop working at the ktv with me supporting her
She agreed and went back Vietnam with me sending her money every month .
As new couples I wanted to be with her badly hence I brought her to where I am working at and stayed for 2 month together. That was the best time of our life and seal our relationship.
things were good after she went back 2 months later. But we can meet only once every 3 month due to oversea works and she don't want to travel so far and so long again.
Hence at the end of my contract I requested to be stationed in sg instead. This begin our nightmare..
with the change in work location , my salary was reduced by 2k per month. This seriously affected my monthly allowance for her.
With our 1 year relationship, I expected her to understand my difficulties. After some quarrels she finally accepted that I might not be able to help her as much. She decided to reduce her monthly expenditure and also find a permanent job.
things got back to normal and I was able to visit her every month now .
all this while she was bugging me marry her so she can come sg to work. I told her only after buying a hse for her stay then I will bring her over . We agreed and it will take me ard 1 year to get a hse when I reach 35 years old.
but fate like to make things difficult. She lost her job and did not have a income. With my reduced allowance things became difficult for her. She started blaming me and ask for more allowance. I tried giving her as much as I can but she was nv happy .
soon she don't let me stay at her room citing she gotta share rooms to reduce cost.
with the increase expenditure of hotel , I got even less money to spend on her.
Soon everything starts falling apart, she wanted to go back working in ktv which I rejected. Resulting In many quarrels.
soon she stopped replying msg as frequently as before. Resulting in even more quarrels. Things were going downhills.
2 months back , a photo of her n a guy in close proximity, lean against each other, appeared on her other fb. She had 2 fb , 1 for close frens and me the other for her customers and other frens.
She insist he is is a brother to her. As I am not in the other fb I can't see much also beside that 1 photo. Trusting her I did not press on. Soon she got more and more distance. Disappear for the whole day before replying my msg. This result in even more quarrels.
eventually she call for a time out. I didn't want to but no choice as she forced it on me.
As it was my grandma birthday soon, I took the chance to test her by asking her to come for the dinner.
She agreed so I tot she still wants to be with me. Then I bought the ticket and arrange everything. Before that I told her if she don't want to be with me then no need to come for the dinner. She was switching between coming and not coming before agreed finally to come. My mistake to trust her again.
On the day she arrived in sg, she told me she wants to be friend and will not be going for the dinner. She took advantage of my love for her to get a free ticket to sg. Although I am hurt I still tried to work things out with her. Eventually she agreed to be back if I up her allowance to 1.5k per month.
Heart overtake mind and I agreed. She was very good to me after that. We went shopping and have sex after.
next day she going back to Vietnam. She showed me her attitude again treating me like dirt.
I could not endured and broke off with her at the airport. She started msg me after she reach Vietnam but I refuse to reply her. This went on for a week until I finally heart over mind again and replied her.
she say sorry and ask me give her a chance. So I agreed. I decided to test her by adding her other fb. She added me to show she have nothing to hide. But maybe she forgot she got many close photo of her with this other guy in the fb.
I questioned her about it and her reply was to end our relationship instead .
now She stopped replying to any of my msg and deleted me from her fb. 2 years of love , investment and commitment down the drain like waste water..
leaving me a poor and broken man
Bro, I can say that you are not the only 1 kena in this trap. Most important is you need to learn how to get out and learn from this experience. Most of the young viets are here for money. Love to them is just another instrument to dig your money from your wallet. I can't say that I am very experience man but I had a few viets gf before but not from ktv. But regardless of what they do here, they are still looking for good life. They are very good story teller just like PRC. Just take it as see no evil, hear no evil will do.
I can't say no good viets around, but is up to your luck. Move on your life bro. Still plenty of trees in the jungle, why just thinking of this tree.
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Only accept 12 and above for exchange.
To be honest, seeing her true colors now is better later u wanted to marry her, give her sp here. then what happened, once she get it and divorce you, is it better for it to end now and save you more pain in future.
Not sure which joint u know from.Once vb work in the trade, they are exposed to the colorful world and seducing power of $$.
If you really want good vbs, go vn and find from source. they are plentiful of which there who are not corrupted yet.
PS: dun ask me where to go to find them.
Even those who are not corrupted, but when they step in to hcm or singapore, they thinking will be influence by other viets. I can say viets like to compare and boastful. They will start to think why others have and they don't have. So they will keep thinking ways to get it. Even to their extent to use their most powerful weapon. Their body.
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Only accept 12 and above for exchange.
I have been going to viet joints in sg for many years and never got hook deeply before by any of the girls. 2 year ago it happened.
I was attracted to her look before I got into the room .. later mummy brought her (T) in and of cozy choice is her.
T was the same as any other girls I sat with before. Pretty and playful. Didn't think much about it then.
So my fren wanted to bring a girl for hotel and askT if she wanna go with me as well. She agreed. So the 4 of us went out for supper together before going to the hotel.
T was quite green and mentioned she didn't go to hotel with customer only her bf. The typical kc hook. For some reason she was successful because the sex was really good .she make u feel that u can make her Cum more than u make any other girls did.
I dated her over the next few days before I flew off for my job oversea. We kept in contact throughout my trip of 2 month she also went back to Vietnam and came over for her second trip 2 month later.
So I met her when I am back in sg and we went hotel everyday with me paying her everytime to make sure I keep it a sex transaction.
But slowly she crawled into my heart.. we became a couple before I left for my next oversea work trip.
I requested that she stop working at the ktv with me supporting her
She agreed and went back Vietnam with me sending her money every month .
As new couples I wanted to be with her badly hence I brought her to where I am working at and stayed for 2 month together. That was the best time of our life and seal our relationship.
things were good after she went back 2 months later. But we can meet only once every 3 month due to oversea works and she don't want to travel so far and so long again.
Hence at the end of my contract I requested to be stationed in sg instead. This begin our nightmare..
with the change in work location , my salary was reduced by 2k per month. This seriously affected my monthly allowance for her.
With our 1 year relationship, I expected her to understand my difficulties. After some quarrels she finally accepted that I might not be able to help her as much. She decided to reduce her monthly expenditure and also find a permanent job.
things got back to normal and I was able to visit her every month now .
all this while she was bugging me marry her so she can come sg to work. I told her only after buying a hse for her stay then I will bring her over . We agreed and it will take me ard 1 year to get a hse when I reach 35 years old.
but fate like to make things difficult. She lost her job and did not have a income. With my reduced allowance things became difficult for her. She started blaming me and ask for more allowance. I tried giving her as much as I can but she was nv happy .
soon she don't let me stay at her room citing she gotta share rooms to reduce cost.
with the increase expenditure of hotel , I got even less money to spend on her.
Soon everything starts falling apart, she wanted to go back working in ktv which I rejected. Resulting In many quarrels.
soon she stopped replying msg as frequently as before. Resulting in even more quarrels. Things were going downhills.
2 months back , a photo of her n a guy in close proximity, lean against each other, appeared on her other fb. She had 2 fb , 1 for close frens and me the other for her customers and other frens.
She insist he is is a brother to her. As I am not in the other fb I can't see much also beside that 1 photo. Trusting her I did not press on. Soon she got more and more distance. Disappear for the whole day before replying my msg. This result in even more quarrels.
eventually she call for a time out. I didn't want to but no choice as she forced it on me.
As it was my grandma birthday soon, I took the chance to test her by asking her to come for the dinner.
She agreed so I tot she still wants to be with me. Then I bought the ticket and arrange everything. Before that I told her if she don't want to be with me then no need to come for the dinner. She was switching between coming and not coming before agreed finally to come. My mistake to trust her again.
On the day she arrived in sg, she told me she wants to be friend and will not be going for the dinner. She took advantage of my love for her to get a free ticket to sg. Although I am hurt I still tried to work things out with her. Eventually she agreed to be back if I up her allowance to 1.5k per month.
Heart overtake mind and I agreed. She was very good to me after that. We went shopping and have sex after.
next day she going back to Vietnam. She showed me her attitude again treating me like dirt.
I could not endured and broke off with her at the airport. She started msg me after she reach Vietnam but I refuse to reply her. This went on for a week until I finally heart over mind again and replied her.
she say sorry and ask me give her a chance. So I agreed. I decided to test her by adding her other fb. She added me to show she have nothing to hide. But maybe she forgot she got many close photo of her with this other guy in the fb.
I questioned her about it and her reply was to end our relationship instead .
now She stopped replying to any of my msg and deleted me from her fb. 2 years of love , investment and commitment down the drain like waste water..
leaving me a poor and broken man
You "bao" here and at the same time have a relationship with her. This relationship is based purely on money, so it is very fragile.
If you have a local GF, will you give her monthly allowance? This makes the relationship abnormal.
Take this as a lesson, at least you are still earning and not like some old people who got cheated out of everything.
I have been going to viet joints in sg for many years and never got hook deeply before by any of the girls. 2 year ago it happened.
I was attracted to her look before I got into the room .. later mummy brought her (T) in and of cozy choice is her.
T was the same as any other girls I sat with before. Pretty and playful. Didn't think much about it then.
So my fren wanted to bring a girl for hotel and askT if she wanna go with me as well. She agreed. So the 4 of us went out for supper together before going to the hotel.
T was quite green and mentioned she didn't go to hotel with customer only her bf. The typical kc hook. For some reason she was successful because the sex was really good .she make u feel that u can make her Cum more than u make any other girls did.
I dated her over the next few days before I flew off for my job oversea. We kept in contact throughout my trip of 2 month she also went back to Vietnam and came over for her second trip 2 month later.
So I met her when I am back in sg and we went hotel everyday with me paying her everytime to make sure I keep it a sex transaction.
But slowly she crawled into my heart.. we became a couple before I left for my next oversea work trip.
I requested that she stop working at the ktv with me supporting her
She agreed and went back Vietnam with me sending her money every month .
As new couples I wanted to be with her badly hence I brought her to where I am working at and stayed for 2 month together. That was the best time of our life and seal our relationship.
things were good after she went back 2 months later. But we can meet only once every 3 month due to oversea works and she don't want to travel so far and so long again.
Hence at the end of my contract I requested to be stationed in sg instead. This begin our nightmare..
with the change in work location , my salary was reduced by 2k per month. This seriously affected my monthly allowance for her.
With our 1 year relationship, I expected her to understand my difficulties. After some quarrels she finally accepted that I might not be able to help her as much. She decided to reduce her monthly expenditure and also find a permanent job.
things got back to normal and I was able to visit her every month now .
all this while she was bugging me marry her so she can come sg to work. I told her only after buying a hse for her stay then I will bring her over . We agreed and it will take me ard 1 year to get a hse when I reach 35 years old.
but fate like to make things difficult. She lost her job and did not have a income. With my reduced allowance things became difficult for her. She started blaming me and ask for more allowance. I tried giving her as much as I can but she was nv happy .
soon she don't let me stay at her room citing she gotta share rooms to reduce cost.
with the increase expenditure of hotel , I got even less money to spend on her.
Soon everything starts falling apart, she wanted to go back working in ktv which I rejected. Resulting In many quarrels.
soon she stopped replying msg as frequently as before. Resulting in even more quarrels. Things were going downhills.
2 months back , a photo of her n a guy in close proximity, lean against each other, appeared on her other fb. She had 2 fb , 1 for close frens and me the other for her customers and other frens.
She insist he is is a brother to her. As I am not in the other fb I can't see much also beside that 1 photo. Trusting her I did not press on. Soon she got more and more distance. Disappear for the whole day before replying my msg. This result in even more quarrels.
eventually she call for a time out. I didn't want to but no choice as she forced it on me.
As it was my grandma birthday soon, I took the chance to test her by asking her to come for the dinner.
She agreed so I tot she still wants to be with me. Then I bought the ticket and arrange everything. Before that I told her if she don't want to be with me then no need to come for the dinner. She was switching between coming and not coming before agreed finally to come. My mistake to trust her again.
On the day she arrived in sg, she told me she wants to be friend and will not be going for the dinner. She took advantage of my love for her to get a free ticket to sg. Although I am hurt I still tried to work things out with her. Eventually she agreed to be back if I up her allowance to 1.5k per month.
Heart overtake mind and I agreed. She was very good to me after that. We went shopping and have sex after.
next day she going back to Vietnam. She showed me her attitude again treating me like dirt.
I could not endured and broke off with her at the airport. She started msg me after she reach Vietnam but I refuse to reply her. This went on for a week until I finally heart over mind again and replied her.
she say sorry and ask me give her a chance. So I agreed. I decided to test her by adding her other fb. She added me to show she have nothing to hide. But maybe she forgot she got many close photo of her with this other guy in the fb.
I questioned her about it and her reply was to end our relationship instead .
now She stopped replying to any of my msg and deleted me from her fb. 2 years of love , investment and commitment down the drain like waste water..
leaving me a poor and broken man
Bro that's tough and understand your feeling. Move on.
Thanks all Bros for the kind support . I am trying to move on from this episode of my life as well . Hopefully someone better will come along and fill this void.
Thanks all Bros for the kind support . I am trying to move on from this episode of my life as well . Hopefully someone better will come along and fill this void.
just move on and find a better gal...and btw,$1500 Sgd is a lot of money in Vietnam even if living in Hcmc.
16-12-2015, 07:05 PM
