Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

I thk lowly educated SG, old men and baddies also look down on other neighbouring citizen!! I hv come across many lowly educated SG, old men and baddies r hooking up with PRC and viet gals. I thk these group of men thk that it is very easy to hook up a PRC or viet gals as they are very very likely to be snubbed by SG gals.

I forget, "highly educated"

[BS KTV]

Originally Posted by SingViet

My wife and i visited her friend just this afternoon. After coming back from the person's place, my wife and i felt disappointed about this vietnamese lady friend. Let's call this vietnamese lady tuyen. Tuyen came to singapore to work several years ago. Originally from central vietnam, she heard about Singapore JC around 5 years ago. In 2003, she came to Singapore to work at JC bar. At the bar, Tuyen met a lot of Singapore man and earned quite a lot of money from befriending these singapore man. After being in singapore for some time, Tuyen wanted to find a singapore man to settle in Singapore. Just around that time, Tuyen met Gary, a singapore man 20 years her senior. Gary loved Tuyen a lot and showered her with lots of love and respect. But gary is lowly educated and is working as a private bus driver.

Tuyen and gary got married and soon, tuyen was staying with gary at his 4 room flat with his aged mother. As tuyen was still working at JC, all of gary's relatives looked down on tuyen. Soon, tuyen started to have heated arguement with gary's mother and soon, gary was asked to choose between his mother or tuyen. Gary was chased out of the flat by his mother and tuyen and gary started to stay on their own. Soon, tuyen got pregnant and gary asked tuyen to stay home. After delivery, tuyen refused to breast feed the child as she is afriad that breast feeding will make her nipple look bad. 3 mths after delivery, tuyen sent the child back to vietnam. Tuyen started to work at a bar at orchard towers. She met a german guy who visits singapore on a monthly basis. Hoping to earn more money, tuyen started to bed this german guy. The german guy found her a good fuck and suggested that she become his lover in Singapore. He gives Tuyen $5k a month for making love to him 4 days a month. As gary and tuyen works on different timing, they hardly meet each other, except on 1 rest day a week. Tuyen started to feel lesser and lesser for gary. She finally decided to tell gary, `I have to sleep with other guys as you cannot give me a good life'

This afternon, tuyen told my wife all these and my wife and i felt very sad for gary. Which guy can tahan the wife telling him this and knowing that 4 days every month, the wife will be penetrated by the german guy.

So its either gary married the wrong gal or tuyen married the wrong guy as he cannot give her a good life.

The moral of this real story is - not to marry poor women because they are liability to us. This type of women cannot help us in our career.

[BS KTV]

Originally Posted by naemlo

It is because all highly educated S'porean always think lowly of other neighbouring citizen. First thing in their mind when they encounter these ladies, they here to "earn money".

All these ladies' motive is to "earn money" if not come Sg for what.
Why don't they stay in their home country ?

[BS KTV]

Originally Posted by naemlo

It is because all highly educated S'porean always think lowly of other neighbouring citizen. First thing in their mind when they encounter these ladies, they here to "earn money".

All these ladies' motive is to "earn money" if not come Sg for what.
Why don't they stay in their home country ?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by BS KTV

All these ladies' motive is to "earn money" if not come Sg for what.
Why don't they stay in their home country ?

Foreign gers not here to earn money only.

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by SingViet

My wife have told me number of times that she wants to go out and work because she's bored at home. I have been telling her that i am earning enuff to let her have good life so she better not go out and work.

why not do it this way? My wife help your wife stay at home and you let my wife have a good life so she dont need go out and work

My wife exactly the opposite of your wife (want to stay at home) and I exactly opposite of you (want her to go out work)

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

Bro, any way to counter their spell/black magic?

cut the dick?!?!

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

Bro, any way to counter their spell/black magic?

deleted. duplicated post

[BS KTV]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Foreign gers not here to earn money only.

Oh yes they are here to look for prospective husband like you

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by BS KTV

Oh yes they are here to look for prospective husband like you

How I wish....

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by BS KTV

Oh yes they are here to look for prospective husband like you

How I wish....

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Thom07

That most powerful spell: <LOVE>.

Than i kana the spell liao... i was so well taken care by my g/f during my 1 week cny stay in vn.

Originally Posted by Thom07

Normally, when you have a foreigner wife, ppl will straightaway think from agency or WL. Stereotyping... Haiz.

Stereotyping by sg gals only.

Originally Posted by Thom07

Till now, I am not sure if my parents will accept my gf or not.

Time will tell. My mum 1st impression on my bro wife also not good. She say that his wife sure got work in KTV to earn money. But actually my bro wife is a well educated gal and from a middle class family in vn. She helped my bro in his business in vn. Now my mum accepted her as a daughter-in-law.

As for myself, my mum also accepted my gf since she knows i am well taken care by her.

Let your parents know and slowly educate them that vn gals are alright and not all are bad.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by BS KTV

Oh yes they are here to look for prospective husband like you

Not him... but me

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by BS KTV

The moral of this real story is - not to marry poor women because they are liability to us. This type of women cannot help us in our career.

Poor women may be a liability to us but some can help us in our career.
Rich women may not be a liability to us but some cannot help us in our career.

If a women is poor but are able to take good care of the house and the husband, than the husband will be able to concentrate on his career and will be able to put in more effort to earn more money to live a better life and to reward wife.

If the women is rich but always snob around live like a tai tai will put pressure on husband. Work already pressure, go home also pressure. Pressure here and there than cannot concentrate on career.....

The actual moral of the story: not to marry a gal name Tuyen if your name is Gary

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Rich women may not be a liability to us but some cannot help us in our career.

Marry a rich woman may need to change ur surname to her surname!