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Old 26-03-2009, 08:30 PM
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I have a guy friend who married a vietnam girl 2 years ago
the gal is either not ready to settle down yet or your friend is just a stepping stone to her whatever plan; most likely a PR so she can stay in her ex trade for long.

If your friend still has some hope for the marriage, suggest that he come clean with her; that means either do it his way or she can go back VN for good.
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Old 26-03-2009, 08:35 PM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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This is the problem....
Most viet gals do not like to date for a long time. They like to tie the knot a few months after knowing each other, unless no choice.
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This girl can speak good chinese

he is helping his wife to settle debt in vietnam by taking loan from Easi cash from GE because ... before married, my friend will every month help her remit $500 but after marriage she demanded for $1k otherwise she would go JC to work..

Thank you for sharing...luckily you are not the person, i meant your fren...this story sounds familiar...this is a bottomless pit your fren is in... In fact, we should be wary of Vn gal who speaks good chinese or english.
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Most viet gals do not like to date for a long time. They like to tie the knot a few months after knowing each other, unless no choice.
That would mean my galfriend got no choice
She continue with me till coming 3 years liao... even her dad start questioning our intention
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Old 27-03-2009, 12:14 AM
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Thank you for sharing...luckily you are not the person, i meant your fren...this story sounds familiar...this is a bottomless pit your fren is in... In fact, we should be wary of Vn gal who speaks good chinese or english.
Wrong leh.. we should be wary of all FLs or KTVs gers no matter what languages they speak....
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Old 27-03-2009, 01:37 AM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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`Visiting Boyfriend' excuse is way too common . ICA officers at changi airport hear the same excuse from China, Vietnam and thai gals coming into singapore daily. until the day she can produce a valid marriage certificate, ICA still see her as an `alien' and not related to you in any way. Even if one day she produces a marriage certificate to show her relation to you, ICA will want to see your education certificates and income slips to verify if you can support her in Singapore.
What if I come in with her?
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Old 27-03-2009, 02:01 AM
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Most viet gals do not like to date for a long time. They like to tie the knot a few months after knowing each other, unless no choice.
I am coming in to Singapore with my Viet GF to ROM here. Are the ICA officers going to refuse her entry?
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Old 27-03-2009, 06:12 AM
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I am coming in to Singapore with my Viet GF to ROM here. Are the ICA officers going to refuse her entry?
If you are coming in with yr gf to ROM here, you must show official letter that you have booked a date. Most of the time, its better to enter only 2 weeks earlier maximum before the actual date. They are many brothers that try to bring their gals into singapore 2 months before the actual ROM date and often they will face problem with ICA.

If no ROm, then even if you come in with her also no use. Last time its quite possible to just say you `guaranttee her' but now, they do not bother even when you say that.
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Old 27-03-2009, 06:17 AM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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If you are coming in with yr gf to ROM here, you must show official letter that you have booked a date. Most of the time, its better to enter only 2 weeks earlier maximum before the actual date. They are many brothers that try to bring their gals into singapore 2 months before the actual ROM date and often they will face problem with ICA.

If no ROm, then even if you come in with her also no use. Last time its quite possible to just say you `guaranttee her' but now, they do not bother even when you say that.
So how to bring her in? She is a decent girl and not gonna 'work' in SIN.
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Thank you for sharing...luckily you are not the person, i meant your fren...this story sounds familiar...this is a bottomless pit your fren is in... In fact, we should be wary of Vn gal who speaks good chinese or english.
Of course not me lah...so downgrade things i won't do
Hope he won't regret his decision...heard from a frenz that his wife has got PR & able to work. anyway hope he is doing well so that he is able to return us the loan taken...haha think chance very slim
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So how to bring her in? She is a decent girl and not gonna 'work' in SIN.
Since she is a decent gal, then put some cash into her wallet and bring her in on social visit pass lor. 2 weeks or 1 month, it depends on the ICA officer lor.
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

i find them no patience, everything wants fast.. fast money, fast ox, don't mind go RAW with you to get themselve pregnant in order to tie you down..... wonder why har?

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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

I am into my 2nd year, the first few months when we started, the similar question has been raised over and over again. But recently, she sort of forgetten already, or may be tired of my various excuses ....

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That would mean my galfriend got no choice
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then use ICA's exTend.... one month extension not difficult to do, pay $30 after approval. I do until close one eye also can ....

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Since she is a decent gal, then put some cash into her wallet and bring her in on social visit pass lor. 2 weeks or 1 month, it depends on the ICA officer lor.
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i find them no patience, everything wants fast.. fast money, fast ox, don't mind go RAW with you to get themselve pregnant in order to tie you down..... wonder why har?
That is their own thinking that having baby will tie a guy down. My galfriend take pills to control birth. I told my galfriend that if she happen to have a baby before we marry, she will have to abort the baby.

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I am into my 2nd year, the first few months when we started, the similar question has been raised over and over again. But recently, she sort of forgetten already, or may be tired of my various excuses ....
Gals ask similar questions over and over again is becoz they want assurance.
i.e questions like 'do you love me'.... they just want to hear us say 'i love you'

As for me, it is never an excuse.. somehow I also keep repeating my plans to her. She accepted.
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