Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 439

SingViet · #**6571** 08-12-2009, 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

only few E1 and E3 guys.
MRS LEE... hhmm... she got a very very very bad impression of me leh.

if you in sillypore during CNY, I will contact you for the gathering

hahha, Mrs Lee also got damm bad impression of me. My mum and i were at botanic gardens for some early morning walk around 8 or 9 years ago when i bumped into her. She immediately asked me what i was doing then and what i did after Sec 4. i told her i finished postgraduate degree in finance and she asked me `you sure? you did so badly for your E maths and you can study finance?' she even asked me which country and which university i went to. After that, she turned to my mum and complained to my mum for the next 15 mins on how badly i did for maths during Sec 3 and 4. Damm....

Niaoren · #**6572** 09-12-2009, 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

What will you do if your vn galfriend say she think of going to USA, california to work for 6 months?

My galfriend cousin is in California and will be back to HCMC to get married in Mid-Jan. Afterwhich, she intend to bring my galfriend to California to work in her Nails shop. She has been asking my galfriend to go California. For the past few months, I keep asking her to drop the idea.

After this recent trip, I agreed to let my galfriend go if she really wants to.

Reasons:
1) She have to wait for me to divorce my current wife which may only happen in the 3rd quarter of the year.
2) She still do not know when is she able to eneter sillypore again.
3) she still have to support her youngest bro who is in his last year of schooling.
4) Once she goes to USA, all her siblings will shift back to mekong. No rental in HCMC, cost of living in Mekong will be lower.... less burden for me and her.

I empathise with you pal. My viet gf told me 2 months ago that he friend asked her to go japan to work for 3 years. The offer was $50k. I told her not to be so naive. She might be sold to become a whore. Anyway, there is no contract at all. I warned her if she goes over Japan, then forgot our relationship. She decided not to go afterall.

I still do not have total trust in my viet gf. I have been advised by friends whose wives are viets not to find a wife who worked in pubs or ktvs in sg before. They offered to intro me to their friends and sisters in vietnam. What puzzled me was that they also worked as WLs before.

My gf has no job for the past mths. I sent her money at times. I wonder is it so difficult to get a job in viet? Perhaps, she is simply too lazy. Ever scolded her for asking me to send her $. Got once, she got sick and asked me to send her $100. Can hear from her voice she really sick. But I hardened myself and refused to send her. Told her off that her parents should give her $ to see doctor.

Sometimes I wonder, is it better to find better educated viets than countryside ones? My gf from tay ninh countryside. The only consolidation is that she and her family treated me nice in tay ninh.

naemlo · #**6573** 09-12-2009, 04:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Niaoren

My gf has no job for the past mths. I sent her money at times. I wonder is it so difficult to get a job in viet? Perhaps, she is simply too lazy.

The logic is simple as ABC.... once u know how to get money fast n easy... u won't bother to work hard for money. Assume your so called gf is without education or few yrs of education, what she can earn in HCMC is 1-2millions dong per mth.... Think abt it, she can earn her entire yr of hard labour in SG within weeks... y bother to suffer in Vietnam working long hour n less pay????

happy000 · #**6574** 09-12-2009, 08:55 AM

Of course lah. You are their God of Fortune

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Originally Posted by Niaoren

The only consolidation is that she and her family treated me nice in tay ninh.

Hurricane88 · #**6575** 09-12-2009, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

You guys still having CNY gathering? WOW... i want to ask to join in next year. Who else in the CNY gathering? You guys interested to get yr form teacher MRS LEE to come out for gathering? I trying to get her contact thru teacher in our former school

So Bro SingViet, KangTuo, Sha_Gua75, Naemlo and Roflmaoxz were classmates during secondary school...must be happening and with good memories...

SingViet · #**6576** 09-12-2009, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

So Bro SingViet, KangTuo, Sha_Gua75, Naemlo and Roflmaoxz were classmates during secondary school...must be happening and with good memories...

No no bro. you got it wrong. Only KangTuo and i were school mates during secondary school time. Kangtuo was also my former neighbour too

KangTuo · #**6577** 09-12-2009, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Niaoren

I empathise with you pal.

Everyone have different experience with different vn gals.
If i see my galfriend same as the rest of the gals i know in JC/GL, i won't be continuing this r/s for 3 years and still going on.

My galfriend don't ask for money unless she really needs it. She feel damn bored to stay at home doing nothing. She rather go work. If got free time, she goes church for free English lesson. She is also learning manicure (I paid school fee)

She knows that I won't alllow her go to malaysia, hk, taiwan, japan and any place for vice work. She also tired of it already.

With her experience in massage (she work in MP since young till she com to sillypore and met me), My galfriend is teaching the new gals the massage skill at home. Sometimes, the boss from the few MP she work in before will call her to teach their gals. Quite good money. Whenever I go HCMC and when the gals come over to my galfriend house to learn massage, i will become the guinea pig for them.

(except no touch touch below)

Hurricane88 · #**6578** 09-12-2009, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Whenever I go HCMC and when the gals come over to my galfriend house to learn massage, i will become the guinea pig for them.

(except no touch touch below)

I oso want lei...my back and neck was dead stiff for the past couple of days...need to be guinea pigs and dun mind la...must be old and stress out liao...

strikeking · #**6579** 09-12-2009, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Niaoren

I empathise with you pal.
I still do not have total trust in my viet gf..

dun blur, never trust her until u marrry her....

unless u want to be Mr Carrot.

SingViet · #**6580** 09-12-2009, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by strikeking

dun blur, never trust her until u marrry her....

unless u want to be Mr Carrot.

Even after marriage, trust shouldn't be given totally. Slowly observe her and see if more trust can be given. Marriage to vietnamese are nothing, they can walk out of it easily.

Sha_Gua75 · #**6581** 09-12-2009, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by cashier

KT, singviet and others, you guys dun need to scared that SQ pointing you. my source is from a source he least expected.. rofl.

no point i say anymore abt SQ coz nothing nice to tok abt his history.

Whatever u say, I already know who he is. U can continue to hear and talk anything. U are just a dick to me

Sha_Gua75 · #**6582** 09-12-2009, 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

So Bro SingViet, KangTuo, Sha_Gua75, Naemlo and Roflmaoxz were classmates during secondary school...must be happening and with good memories...

I never attend secondary sch before....

eh when Roflmaoxz come into the picture???

naemlo · #**6583** 09-12-2009, 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

So Bro SingViet, KangTuo, Sha_Gua75, Naemlo and Roflmaoxz were classmates during secondary school...must be happening and with good memories...

Huh??? U blur lah...

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

I never attend secondary sch before....

eh when Roflmaoxz come into the picture???

This hurricane88 is getting too complicated....

Glock · #**6584** 09-12-2009, 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Everyone have different experience with different vn gals.
If i see my galfriend same as the rest of the gals i know in JC/GL, i won't be continuing this r/s for 3 years and still going on.

My galfriend don't ask for money unless she really needs it. She feel damn bored to stay at home doing nothing. She rather go work. If got free time, she goes church for free English lesson. She is also learning manicure (I paid school fee)

She knows that I won't alllow her go to malaysia, hk, taiwan, japan and any place for vice work. She also tired of it already.

With her experience in massage (she work in MP since young till she com to sillypore and met me), My galfriend is teaching the new gals the massage skill at home. Sometimes, the boss from the few MP she work in before will call her to teach their gals. Quite good money. Whenever I go HCMC and when the gals come over to my galfriend house to learn massage, i will become the guinea pig for them.

(except no touch touch below)

haha that is good !!!! bro you got a good thing going on !

too bad not allow the last part!

KangTuo · #**6585** 09-12-2009, 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Glock

haha that is good !!!! bro you got a good thing going on !

too bad not allow the last part!

yes especially if the gals come from some country side, stay at my galfriend house for few days to learn massaging. When they learn, they may be in pajamas, without bra.

though enjoy but still need to act nothing as galfriend is just by my side.
what if she knows it and then take the chance to crack my bones.... i will be died