Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

How you do it better?
fire against fire or just keep quite and let the fire die off on its own?

Originally Posted by jf66312

in the beginning i could not handle...tried fire with fire...no use..then bombard with sorry sms... no use...

Originally Posted by shysaint

My BX is "Eat Soft No Eat Hard" Gal and says if she angry , don't talk to her, she will cool down in 1-2 days, but I just not that kind of person ... so I will talk talk talk ... hahaah ... then Back Draft loh ...

Since we are here to share...what I play their culture better against them...now this is just my way and may work on most Vn gals but may not work on others ha...no sure win...

never fire against fire - we all know dun work...dun bombard sms and sorry...ok, for first time....we all know no use after more than 1 to 2 times say sorry...

I always smile when she gets angry...but just keep quiet...even if answer answer nicely without offensive words..best also keep quiet...just say you angry no point talking...can say dun wan to quarrel with you...

We all know Vn gals eat soft dun eat hard...so we must do that to them too...we must also eat soft dun eat hard...

I always play what she angry with me on her when they least expected...caught her off guard...when she kept explaining and say sorry...often, sure she cried her hearts out...then we behave that we also eat soft dun eat hard...after all these tell her that day you did that to me so today I do it back to you...see next time you dare to do that to me anymore...

Of course, after every time, must make up and lovey dovey again la...

[xxxx4]

Originally Posted by jf66312

Dun judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.

"The HAPPIEST people DONOT necessarily have the BEST of all. They simply APPRECIATE what they find on their way”

Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don't judge life by one difficult season. Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to come some time or later...

cheers & take care!

I really like what you wrote to blue gal Bro.

All the best to your family.

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by jf66312

same here...my type also cant leave her alone sometimes...
for me , when got prob , must settle asap..dun like to drag..

but for them , they dun care...sometimes say another time then talk..but the "another time" never comes....

then the next time , the same issue happen again...wuah!!
buay tahan sometimes..

"botay"....

Remember to learn from the masters in this thread. All you need to do is write and post here. You will be surprised you are not the only one who had encountered such problem.

[jf66312]

thanks bro xxxx4 ..glad u like it...

thanks to all the other bros for sharing...will do my part as well to share...

haha...now my bxa bit tone down liaoz..
can see the change...i think time really does change a person...

so long as we are sincere... i believe she can feel it too...

maybe we can get together some time as well....hang out together...then at least we guys can share & talk then while our bxas can have "batam batam" or some say " nujin " session...

hehe...

have a great weekend ahead!!

cheers

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

when she kept explaining and say sorry...

My BX never says sorry and never thinkshe is in wrong oh

Every time say I wrong one .. so sad ....

But now she pregnant , no choice lah, must really give in ....

[SingViet]

one thing that viet gals know is how to play the game. most of them are 'street-smart' and have much deeper thoughts than what we perceive them to be. never under-estimate these viet gals, if they turn nasty, singapore man are not their match

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by shysaint

My BX never says sorry and never thinkshe is in wrong oh

Every time say I wrong one .. so sad ....

But now she pregnant , no choice lah, must really give in ....

Ya lor...pregnant must pamper la...ask you for alot of money you oso give rite...

To me, whatever game she play on me, I will give her back or double...in a way, she will have to say sorry at the end no matter how hard headed or stubborn she can be...but you need to kc her enough and let her feel she cannot live without you anymore la...

[jf66312]

wuahz...bro..u really master..

need to learn from you...
my bxa more hard & stubborn then me lol...

she never say sorry one...never hear this word come out from her mouth no matter what...

how to make her feel cannot live without me?

cheers

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by jf66312

how to make her feel cannot live without me?

hahaha...this skill is known as Hurricane88 "Vn ger jiu yang sheng gong", my fren...you need to learn...otherwise your bx will make your life very miserable when she is unreasonable...

Tell you a story...my ex bx (those who met me 2 years ago saw her b4)...was a ger who I mastered this shen gong...like wat you mentioned hard headed and stubborn, never like to say sorry and take for granted...no matter wat she gave me or said to me unreasonable...I gave her back in the same words and play...sometimes double...when she felt that splitting was painful and cannot live without me then she has to say sorry and live with it...of course alot of time and resources needed to do that...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by jf66312

how to make her feel cannot live without me?

Different Gals need different tactics ... some need soft , some need hard ....

Used it wisely and you will end up "cannot live without me"

[ekemono]

yah, viet wife/gf can be very stubborn at times.
Just like my wife, everytime we go to ICA, always heated up.

But the thing i learned is no need to raise your voice at them. Tell them firmly and if they still insist, let them hit the wall. They will come back and starts to open thier ears to listen this time.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Ya lor...pregnant must pamper la...ask you for alot of money you oso give rite...

Well Well Well ... what to do

[jf66312]

thanks bros for the advice..

looks like i have some "trial & error " work to do...

yesterday had 1 minor incident where we hada disagreement..

then she all of a sudden " kang yeu" me...
wuah pain siah..

then i "kang her hand" back ...
she shout pain then after that i see her hand red...

siao liao...my heart immediate pain..

quickly help her apply "zambak" then say sorry..
can tell she was very pissed..
but i just said sorry then cheered her up abit..after awhile then ok liaoz..

"phew".....

[strauss88]

any bros know of any website i can download vietnamese phim le for my bxa to kill her boredom?

[xgrubx]

Hi guys, i'm a newb here.. have been reading thru the postings for maybe past 2 years, here's my story and i'll like you masters to review it for me as i believe your point of view are most sceptical than what i see now, pretty blind now.

met her in a ktv 2 months back, got to know her better thru bringing her out for dinner, she was caught by ICA when she reported to them after she lost her passport, not long after, she bought her own ticket and went back home, she's only 18 and have been working in the KTV in vietnam for 3 months since her 18th birthday, not long after, i went to visit her, stayed at her place for a week, she wasnt working then and i felt obligated to give her some money, from there, she asked me if i can give her 5mil vnd everymonth, she told me she'll be working in a clothing manufacturing company which she claim to pay her 1.8mil a month, so i thought over and due to the fact i like to see her, i went back to vietnam last wednesday without letting her know, gave her a mega surprise... it was dissapointing, she said she was going to work, and i decided to check things out, 1st place i went was the KTV she used to work, spot on! saw her motorbike there, i went to the manager asked for a room and wanted to see her coming in with mamasan, too bad she was alarmed and she rushed home. =( i left hcmc on friday, now i'm not sure if everything was just a joke or what, why would she want me to stay with her family, why she lied about the fact that her sister and brother in law knows she work in a KTV, i don't understand why she will go in a rage when i tell her, stop working in a ktv, thing bout her is as what she says: my mother don't have a house, i want to buy a house for my mother, understand she did made some money but splurge it in disco with friends, even when i'm there, she has these taiwanese customers calling her out for dinner and things like that, she says when her mother gets the house, she want to marry me.. Brothers here, please advice as i am really on the edge. thanks.