Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by chen_zhen

u are very rite....

I wan to up u but no power.

Its alright. Its the thought that counts

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother, that is not true. I think either white collar or blue collar can have a "slave" mentality chained to same company. One must make the enterpreneurial leap. SG brother graduating with highest marks from NUS but slave at a MNC is still non alpha to me. Women put off by lack of ambition and entrepreneurual sense. Its like brothers who pay for pussy think they got big dick. Dick is small when no wallet. But if you get pussy from normal Han Chinese SG woman you got big dick. Brother, not many people understand these concepts unfortunately.

What makes you think that being an entrepreneur will surely bring one good profits and stable income? Not all entrepreneurs make good money, just like not all property agents make big bucks. There are still a vast number of property agents still trying their best to make ends meet. I have also seen some so-called `entrepreneur' who claims that he owns several big business still live off his parents, drive car that's paid by parents and cannot even afford to buy a 3 room flat. I salute anyone, be it an employee or entrepreneur, who strives for the livelihood of his family. I despise anyone, who claims to be the TOP, but in reality, cannot feed his family. Stop dreaming, wake up , shut up and start working for a better tomorrow

[SingViet]

For any fellow singaporean guy that's thinking of marrying a viet gal, i just have the following points to remind you:

(1) If you are thinking that by marrying this viet gal, you need not spend money to go GL for paid sex, then you're terribly wrong. What you need to pay eventually will be much more than what you paid for sex in GL. Marriage is not about sex only, there's a lot of responsibilities involved and these responsibilities doesn't come cheap.

(2) If you are earning barely enuff to feed yourself, i will think its better for you to stay single. Most vietnamese ladies from the province do not posses the skills to earn living in Singapore. You have to feed her and also to a large extend, her parents back in Vietnam. There's a whole lot of truth to NO MONEY NO HONEY. Starting a family will require you to save a whole lot on yourself to pay for housing, transport, utlilities etc. Things will get worse after having kids. If a couple faces financial problems all the time, arguments will always be present. Frequent arguments will weaken the marriage.

(3) If you think what i'm saying is bullshiting, go ahead and try. You will find out the truth real soon...


Good Luck

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother, that is not true. I think either white collar or blue collar can have a "slave" mentality chained to same company. One must make the enterpreneurial leap.

I hope you would join ICA and i cock sure I will Q at your counter

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by SingViet

What makes you think that being an entrepreneur will surely bring one good profits and stable income?

This boy is still studying...not in your league and definitely not qualified to give entrepreneur advice...

Originally Posted by SingViet

For any fellow singaporean guy that's thinking of marrying a viet gal, i just have the following points to remind you:

Always enjoyed reading your posts..,great sound advice...hope you are doing well...

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by jf66312

true..i just applied mine for my wife but got rejected..

kind of expected cost she just finish only 1 year of her long-term..

and i just switch from white collar to blue collar job...
waiting for next mth to submit appeal..

Think good chance after her 2 years stay in Singapore. Make sure you have healthy CPF contributions.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Always enjoyed reading your posts..,great sound advice...hope you are doing well...

Thanks bro. I am much better now, although only half way thru health recovery.

[hayhay]

I have this Vietnamese girlfriend now we qurrerel alot cause I'm out of job so sad

Originally Posted by SingViet

For any fellow singaporean guy that's thinking of marrying a viet gal, i just have the following points to remind you:

(1) If you are thinking that by marrying this viet gal, you need not spend money to go GL for paid sex, then you're terribly wrong. What you need to pay eventually will be much more than what you paid for sex in GL. Marriage is not about sex only, there's a lot of responsibilities involved and these responsibilities doesn't come cheap.

(2) If you are earning barely enuff to feed yourself, i will think its better for you to stay single. Most vietnamese ladies from the province do not posses the skills to earn living in Singapore. You have to feed her and also to a large extend, her parents back in Vietnam. There's a whole lot of truth to NO MONEY NO HONEY. Starting a family will require you to save a whole lot on yourself to pay for housing, transport, utlilities etc. Things will get worse after having kids. If a couple faces financial problems all the time, arguments will always be present. Frequent arguments will weaken the marriage.

(3) If you think what i'm saying is bullshiting, go ahead and try. You will find out the truth real soon...


Good Luck

[GLHunter]

Originally Posted by hayhay

I have this Vietnamese girlfriend now we qurrerel alot cause I'm out of job so sad

Get a job quick. that will improve the situation.

[hayhay]

Originally Posted by GLHunter

Get a job quick. that will improve the situation.

Now doing porperty. But she told me just earn enough ok Liao ask me not too greedier.Ask me find a normal job.now she don even call me ask me to save $$ just call her once in few days time

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by hayhay

Now doing porperty. But she told me just earn enough ok Liao ask me not too greedier.Ask me find a normal job.now she don even call me ask me to save $$ just call her once in few days time

Ya just enough to send her money monthly. Don't call you means she has more freedom...

[myway]

Originally Posted by hayhay

Now doing porperty. But she told me just earn enough ok Liao ask me not too greedier.Ask me find a normal job.now she don even call me ask me to save $$ just call her once in few days time

to my understanding vietnamese gals dun really like to talk on the phone and they dun like been asked so many qns abt them. they'll get pek chey.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by hayhay

I have this Vietnamese girlfriend now we qurrerel alot cause I'm out of job so sad

maybe you wan to tell us more of your story...example

1) how you met and where you met
2) before what you working and earn how much per month
3) where is she now and what is she working as
4) how to you foresee your r/s in future...what you intend to do...

your story will help brothers here understand more "no money no honey" the real meaning...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by myway

to my understanding vietnamese gals dun really like to talk on the phone and they dun like been asked so many qns abt them. they'll get pek chey.

not true...this apply to all nationalities...ask any bros here and they can tell you that their bx or gf can talk for hours on the phone...otherwise how can get kc...

Think your ger not interested to tell you her past and family...so just tell you off that she pek chek you ask so much...

[hayhay]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

maybe you wan to tell us more of your story...example

1) how you met and where you met
2) before what you working and earn how much per month
3) where is she now and what is she working as
4) how to you foresee your r/s in future...what you intend to do...

your story will help brothers here understand more "no money no honey" the
real meaning...

1)4ys back met her in MTV
2)last time working as executive earn about 2.5k
3)she is at Vietnam not working staying mum home (that's what she told me)
4)thinking of marrying her.

don know should ask you this.Need some expert adivce.I have been smf for veri long time and has follow this forum veri long.I have this Vietnam girlfriend 4yrs now.I have a few in the past. All I know them from GL and jurong.let call this girl A.from 2006 the start she keep on asking me to married her.but I don't want to get married just yet.so on 2008 she came ag to work again we have a qururel.then she go back Vietnam and din call me anymore I don care cause I have other Vietnam girlfriend.few month later she call me again and I ask her to my home but on that day she din answer my call and SMS mr she is getting married ask me not to call her anymore. Try many time to call her she din pick up my call. I say to myself is over with her.but last year she call again and I went to Vietnam to look for her for 9days.when I come back to sg I told her I want to married her. Then she told me her mother need 8k then can married me. This 4yrs she never ask $$from me before.but I'm out of job now she told me at least must give her mother 4k then can married me.until Now I only give her 1k.she know I'm out of jobs and now become veri fieace to me and ask me to call her once a day or afew day once.She Told me I give her alot of stress she is not thinking of anything.ask me to found job then she married me. July she came back sg to work saying she need $ I caught her with a guys at her home early in the morning 9plus.she told me she have breakfest with that guy and swear did not lam thinh with him. I want to check with you can I trust her? She give me the feel that if I have no jobs and no $ she will leave me.can Vietnamese anyhow swear. Is it if they swear is thr truth?Sori for the long story