Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Bro ....

Ask yourself this questions :

Are you in a rush into this relationship?

Do you really need this relationship?

How sad are you if you end the relatiosnhip?

My advice:

1. Wait and see and observe.
2. Stop providing anything and sees what happen?
3. Play mind games.

Most important

Do you trust her ???

Are you able to forgive and forget if the truth is not what you want?

understood, TQ bro.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by zichuan

anyone has any idea whether my viet wife and me who is going taiwan for holidays, need to apply visa at taiwan embassy in singapore. because i just applied and got her visa through taiwan embassy, does she need to apply at vietnam embassy too? thx..

bro, you are going to taiwan and got taiwan visa for yr wife, why need to go vietnam embassy? there's no need to.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by shysaint

After so many discussion ... I guessed the most important thing is

*** If you CANNOT TRUST your GF .... then DON'T be Together ... What's the Point ... *** Like Bro Hurricane quoted ...

There are Gals who really come here and work to support whatever need to be supported back at VN .....

There are also Gals who comes here just for $$$ .. Yes maybe they really love you but they also need $$$ , cannot get from you so get from other CARROT ... but then they still love you.

For me, I never find a girl who come to Singapore to work for moer than 1-2-3-4 years ... i guessed they KC you better than you KC them.
Rgds

Just to summarize what bro shysaint said is "everything is going to last long and dun play the game if you cannot go long haul...dun think short term...it is going to cost alot and if no time then just dun bother to have a steady Vn gf...just go to hcm and pay any ger for part time fun...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

the only big trouble with WL is money. some of them are poor and need money to get out of poverty so they work as WL. some are really here to suck money.

from the many post, I see that many bros here worried about being cheated off money but yet wanna find WL as gf.

but then there are always some good find among the bad apples

Totally AGREE your 3 sentences especially the 2 words "suck money"

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by zichuan

haha oic. thx bro. i shua gu mah, seldom go tis type of country tat needs visa. thx for ur reply!

You are quite lucky to get a taiwanese visa for your wife. Normally, its really tough to get taiwanese visa for viet gals below 40 years old.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

the only big trouble with WL is money. some of them are poor and need money to get out of poverty so they work as WL. some are really here to suck money.

working as WL to get money is understandable, but i have seen many cases of Viet WL, married to Singapore man and having good family, but yet do not know how to treasure and finally gave up. Hearing more and more such cases really saddens, why give up on good family life in singapore for viet bf, heavy family burden in vn or just a little bit more freedom in VN? Haiz

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

working as WL to get money is understandable, but i have seen many cases of Viet WL, married to Singapore man and having good family, but yet do not know how to treasure and finally gave up. Hearing more and more such cases really saddens, why give up on good family life in singapore for viet bf, heavy family burden in vn or just a little bit more freedom in VN? Haiz

it is just like some of us guys.
give up family for a vb/prc/tirak who provide a little more love and care, get into a heavy financial burden for keeping the vb/prc/tirak, just for a little bit more enjoyable bonking session.

[CuteBuns]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

it is just like some of us guys.
give up family for a vb/prc/tirak who provide a little more love and care, get into a heavy financial burden for keeping the vb/prc/tirak, just for a little bit more enjoyable bonking session.

sigh, u r so right. In Singapore, it really make sense to marry a local girl to maintain a family financially. unfortunately, I'm a sucker for VBs and viet food. I shudder when i think what will happen if I really marry one coz of the financial burden

[Sex-Millionaire]

Any bros livng in HAGL2, Tran Xuan Soan, District 7?

Perhaps we can chill together ...

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by carmeo88

My wife going back next week will be buying a 21 sony TV, wonder how much would it cost there.

Congrats bro. Which province your wife belongs to? TV can be bought in the city center of the province instead of buying in HCMC, although it is cheaper a bit, but the transport cost and the trouble will exceed the $$$ saved
Long time no see u liao.

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Go Nguyen Kim on Tran Hang Dao Street to check it out.

Nguyễn Kim. Address : 63-65-67 Trần Hưng Đạo, Q1, TP.HCM. Điện thoại: (84-8) 38 211 211. It is just a few shops beside GOSSIP disco

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

khong co tien khong co chiim....translate no money no honey...

Wrong! No $$$ No CB
Chao anh!

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by xyman

Just came back from hcm, the massage girl told me she earn around USD2,000 a month and she give all to her father mother.

Wow earning so much??!! She must be those very chio chio type that has many many customers per day

[shysaint]

Hi ...

I am going to HCMC on either 19th Jan on Jetstar or 20th Jan on Tiger ...

Any Bros on that flight ??? Any Bros need help to bring stuff over ??? Any Bros need me to escort or accompany your VBs go back Vietnam

Rgds

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Hi ...

I am going to HCMC on either 19th Jan on Jetstar or 20th Jan on Tiger ...

Any Bros on that flight ??? Any Bros need help to bring stuff over ??? Any Bros need me to escort or accompany your VBs go back Vietnam

Rgds

Very nice gesture and sincere in helping. We need more bros similar like you.