Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[jasonhost]

Originally Posted by evoking88

trying to drag it out and see. and maybe do some checking on my own. hopefully it turns out well. not too hopeful about it though.

No need to be seriously in it yet... You still only 23.... You will have more girls coming along your life... Maybe, she is not the one.... Maybe passing clouds... But, you can take your time to judge whether she is meant to be... Only yourself will know the answer whether she is true to you or she is mainly finding a ride....

All the best for you....

[jasonhost]

Originally Posted by MrCam

I agree with u abt should not call pple stupid.

The problem is Love is Blind. Makes even a highly educated person do crazy things.

The world is filled with guys & gals. Guys being cheated by gals of their affection & money as well as vice versa.

In any relationship, OPEN WIDE YR EYES!!

In most 3rd world countries, almost everything can be done with money. Fake IDs, fake medical checkups, fake marital status reports,...

Try to put up a sorrowful face that u lost heavily in business and in debt. If the gal runs away super fast, she is only attracted to yr $$. Just a little idea to share.

Yup... I totally agree to that... This is base on self-knowledge... When the guys is being cheated, then the guy must analysis himself why he been cheated and base on what circumstances.... Not all human is perfect.... This does not only for people for a 3rd world country but even its a Singaporean.... If one are rich or money on hand, he/she should not put it across and show he/she is having the money/riches.... When one spouse starts to talk about money, then the other must be intellectual enough whats true and false... We, as outsiders can't be involve much in this circumstances...

[evoking88]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

what start again?..... i think he never stop since don't know when

lol. win. i should try to be like him

[evoking88]

Originally Posted by jasonhost

No need to be seriously in it yet... You still only 23.... You will have more girls coming along your life... Maybe, she is not the one.... Maybe passing clouds... But, you can take your time to judge whether she is meant to be... Only yourself will know the answer whether she is true to you or she is mainly finding a ride....

All the best for you....

appreciate your kind advice

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

what start again?..... i think he never stop since don't know when

since they day i get to know girls

Originally Posted by evoking88

lol. win. i should try to be like him

better not... but at your age, you should enjoy company of many girls before you mae your choice

[evoking88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

better not... but at your age, you should enjoy company of many girls before you mae your choice

ya thats y i say try to be like u ma hahahaha

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by jasonhost

Yup... I totally agree to that... This is base on self-knowledge... When the guys is being cheated, then the guy must analysis himself why he been cheated and base on what circumstances.... Not all human is perfect.... This does not only for people for a 3rd world country but even its a Singaporean.... If one are rich or money on hand, he/she should not put it across and show he/she is having the money/riches.... When one spouse starts to talk about money, then the other must be intellectual enough whats true and false... We, as outsiders can't be involve much in this circumstances...

????? its either yr english is too profound or my english sucks big time, i simply cannot understand what you're trying to say

[jasonhost]

Originally Posted by SingViet

????? its either yr english is too profound or my english sucks big time, i simply cannot understand what you're trying to say

Never mind... Not important anyway if you can't understand....

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by SingViet

????? its either yr english is too profound or my english sucks big time, i simply cannot understand what you're trying to say

Confusing right, me too hard time understand.

Originally Posted by naemlo

We are all dirty old man now.... once in awhile feel good to have SYT to fall for us.

So you admitted you are right?

[MrCam]

I just encountered a special case.

Mr. X was married and divorced in Singapore. (Divorce Papers available)
Mr. X re-married 2nd wife in Singapore and currently this wife is living in Singapore with child. Mr. X now lives & work in HCM but return every month for a few days.

The problem now is Mr. X met a Viet girl and went thru customary wedding in HCM. As he has divorce papers from his 1st marriage, some vietnameses tell him he can register his Viet marriage in HCM but on the condition that this Viet wife cannot go & live in Singapore.

The Viet law seems to have a loophole here for people already re-married to register their wedding using divorce papers of a previous marriage.

Sorry for sounding so complicated but this is a true case that happened to a friend now.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

toad usually have different mind sets la

Yeah ....

Toads no need to know each other ... no need to get married ... but can give birth to tons of babies ....

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by jasonhost

Never mind... Not important anyway if you can't understand....

I also cannot understand ... bo tau bo buay ... maybe i only study til secondary .... can say in hokkien anot

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by evoking88

sorry bro was caught up in work for quite a while. my sincere apologies for failing to meet u in HCM the previous time. are you in sg at the moment?

I just came back tonight

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by evoking88

how about the marriage laws in vietnam? does marrying a girl in vietnam give the same rights to the girl as if i marry her in sg? (like the divorce and she gets half ur assets thing in singapore)

coz my girl now wants to do customary marriage (i think) or wad she calls "dang cuoi" with me, so i kinda wanna know what rights it entitles her to, but can't find any thing on the net.

In VN, most of the girls seldom do ROM especiay with foreigners .... they only perform the vietnamese customs ritual marriage - which is MOST important of all ....

for foreigners to ROM is VN is troublesome and difficult, many processes .. 1 is definitley to get a 'SINGLE' letter for the country's authority .... 2 got to send in application form to the local authority for approval ... and etc ...

It is easier to ROM in Singapore and get it RECOGNISED in VN .... in order for me to register my name as the baby's father, i need to get our marriage recognised but then was told not necessary to get it recognised adn the ROM paper is more than enough to recognised that I and my wife are legally married ...

JUst to share ... regarding this type of matter ... Visit the city / province's JUSTICE DEPARTMENT or 'So Tu Phap'

I register my baby's birth and her certificate at the Main City/province So Tu Phap ... I went there because the so called Town So Tu Phap was too afraid to process our application coz it invlove a foreigner and was told to go straight to the main city/province CTF...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by evoking88

this is what i am afraid of. if rom in vn can be recognised, then if she xao me i die alr. tts y thinking of getting an investigator to check on her marital status etc, and if she got other guys over there.

i think she say dang cuoi but also will rom coz she say will go cong an and sign paper.

You are Young and She is Young ..... Why Commit when there is NO Trust and Don't Believe Her ????

Why think of Marriage when u Don't believe ...

I believe all these have been dicussed and shared with you sometimes back before your disappearance ...