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Hi. How is every one? Do Vietnamese wives keep to their word in general? Have a good weekend...
such a general question and what kind of answer you expect...yes and no...yes, if they still love, rely, or no other avenues...no when they have other options and no longer in need of you or no longer love you...or you are hopeless to her...
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My wife just told me that her 2nd elder sister, the one that i mentioned before that she and her husband doesn't work and laze around all day, has been going around telling other siblings that she is damm fed up with me and my wife. She says that everyone either gives them money to use or lend them money... What's interesting is that we also heard that my MIW lend this 2nd Elder Sister over 70 Million VND in cash and gold over the past few months.
Everyone in that family is stupid to lent that woman $$$. It is 1 way traffic, once out of pocket, never return.... Only you are smart
I also like to wear bermudas and slippers when I visit vietnam, but I learned my lesson during my last trip to Vinh Long: I got ~100 mosquito bites on my legs.
Never did I once go out in bermudas... I followed their culture.
Wear a long shirt from the front when taking a motor bike and wear jeans, to prevent sun burnt 1/2 hr in the sun, my hands get darker
Now that I know that she dont see me as her husband, what can i do to keep my babies. what is the last straw? should I really buy a house, as she say " BUY A HOUSE FOR ME"
then she have a house in with her name, an asset for her to threaten me with...whenever we have a disagreement.
would i lose a house and my babies???
Now that I know that she dont see me as her husband, what can i do to keep my babies. what is the last straw? should I really buy a house, as she say " BUY A HOUSE FOR ME"
then she have a house in with her name, an asset for her to threaten me with...whenever we have a disagreement.
would i lose a house and my babies???
If she doesn't treat you like a `husband', then why should you buy an asset under her `name'? You know well that she needs $$$, and by buying a house under her name, you are paying for something that she will sell off in the near future to give to her lazy family. What's holding you back to make clean break with her? Like i say before, she will not want to have the children with her for long, the children will hinder her movement and add on to her burden. You place so much emphasis on the children, and that's why she's using the children as a tool to demand more from you. By the way, where did you meet her? Thru marriage agency or Joo Chiat?
Everyone in that family is stupid to lent that woman $$$. It is 1 way traffic, once out of pocket, never return.... Only you are smart
I think i am not smart, i am just being practical. My idea is how long can anyone feed her and her family? You tell her to work, she start a small business for 3 months or less, then give up. She will rather be jobless, drink coffee all day, smoke all day. I have better use for my hard earned money than to give to her to splurge.
Has anyone here gone for driving or motorbike license test at vietnam b4? I'm wondering if they have any english for the tests......I might be going there for work lei soon....& to meet up with my future Baxa
From my knowledge, they do not conduct driving theory or practical test in English, its all in Tieng Viet. As for ways to get a license, go to the other thread on Vietnam, they have more suggestions on that. But remember, in Vietnam, money makes the world go round.
Hi. How is every one? Do Vietnamese wives keep to their word in general? Have a good weekend...
Before you ask this question, allow me to ask you one question, Do you keep to your word in general? Take your answer, divide by 2, and you get the answer.
Now that I know that she dont see me as her husband, what can i do to keep my babies. what is the last straw? should I really buy a house, as she say " BUY A HOUSE FOR ME"
then she have a house in with her name, an asset for her to threaten me with...whenever we have a disagreement.
would i lose a house and my babies???
Me too the same, she wants money to buy land buy house, I said I don't have money, she said I don't love her. VN girls use $$ as a unit to measure love.
If she doesn't treat you like a `husband', then why should you buy an asset under her `name'? You know well that she needs $$$, and by buying a house under her name, you are paying for something that she will sell off in the near future to give to her lazy family. What's holding you back to make clean break with her? Like i say before, she will not want to have the children with her for long, the children will hinder her movement and add on to her burden. You place so much emphasis on the children, and that's why she's using the children as a tool to demand more from you. By the way, where did you meet her? Thru marriage agency or Joo Chiat?
if remember correctly from his previous forum...thru marriage agency...
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I also like to wear bermudas and slippers when I visit vietnam, but I learned my lesson during my last trip to Vinh Long: I got ~100 mosquito bites on my legs.
still remember wearing my slippers to one of the disco dance floor and kana chase away by the boucher even though i am wearing a jeans hahaha
I think i am not smart, i am just being practical. My idea is how long can anyone feed her and her family? You tell her to work, she start a small business for 3 months or less, then give up. She will rather be jobless, drink coffee all day, smoke all day. I have better use for my hard earned money than to give to her to splurge.
i practise 75% practical (thinking only and not in bed),15% emotional and 10% for others after my marriage for few years
If she doesn't treat you like a `husband', then why should you buy an asset under her `name'? You know well that she needs $$$, and by buying a house under her name, you are paying for something that she will sell off in the near future to give to her lazy family. What's holding you back to make clean break with her? Like i say before, she will not want to have the children with her for long, the children will hinder her movement and add on to her burden. You place so much emphasis on the children, and that's why she's using the children as a tool to demand more from you. By the way, where did you meet her? Thru marriage agency or Joo Chiat?
this is the key word for all marriage,if your wife dont think for u and understand where u come from and demand more,u should ask yourself is this a marriage which can last?
Before you ask this question, allow me to ask you one question, Do you keep to your word in general? Take your answer, divide by 2, and you get the answer.
i get the answer when i saw his question and mine is same as yours,any present
Me too the same, she wants money to buy land buy house, I said I don't have money, she said I don't love her. VN girls use $$ as a unit to measure love.
if she give u this kind of answer after only knowing her for few months,u should know how to play the game
is common,just say u dont have if she cannot accept then fuck off,sometime sg man is too soft hearted to reject their foreign girlfriend demand cos they think is true love,they give and give,agreed and agreed until one day end up miserable.
dont act proud and act hero and promise the girl this and that
06-08-2011, 09:14 AM
1/2 hr in the sun, my hands get darker 
