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be sure to look at your wife's house and condition. most marry to foreigners because of poverty. I and an indian singaporean went with mr mark to vietnam. Our indian friend chose a pretty vietnamese, before her passport is ready, she changed her mind and refuse to come to singapore.
it turns out that she was married with a baby son and her vietnamese husband is a drunkard that beat her and ran away to enjoy himself. then he return after hearing that his wife is marrying to a foreigner. He begs her forgiveness and she returned to him...
even go to her house cannot see anything...no use...how to just marry a ger without neither love nor know her before...
alot of gers in the marriage agency are there to con sinkies...alot agreed to marry but right after getting deposit...disagree and break off wedding...because the gers either have their bf or married before as your story...this story was published in the newspapers...
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recently a VN gal that i knew , she took cab from Woodlands to Jurong...
i gave directions over the phone to the cab driver..
guess how much was the fare?
$30...from woodlands to Jurong...somemore is on Sat b4 peak hour...
kaoz...these cab drivers really take adv...if i had waited for her at the taxi stand, i would have "ham tam" the cab driver...
just becoz they are foreigners, they find them easy to cheat...
ask your girl to get the receipt from the taxi driver and if really they take advantage by driving the longer route,complain to the cab company with the receipt.i always ask my wife to do it,so far nothing happen from what i see from the distance travel and the surcharge.Sg cab is horrible with all the surcharge.i think out of 24 hours each day,more than half is all the surcharge amount
be sure to look at your wife's house and condition. most marry to foreigners because of poverty. I and an indian singaporean went with mr mark to vietnam. Our indian friend chose a pretty vietnamese, before her passport is ready, she changed her mind and refuse to come to singapore.
it turns out that she was married with a baby son and her vietnamese husband is a drunkard that beat her and ran away to enjoy himself. then he return after hearing that his wife is marrying to a foreigner. He begs her forgiveness and she returned to him...
should thank that viet girl husband to go back to her and she change her mind,or else your indian singaporean will be the victim
pei seh,i tok cock a bit,any way bro,thanks for your sharing
be sure to look at your wife's house and condition. most marry to foreigners because of poverty. I and an indian singaporean went with mr mark to vietnam. Our indian friend chose a pretty vietnamese, before her passport is ready, she changed her mind and refuse to come to singapore.
it turns out that she was married with a baby son and her vietnamese husband is a drunkard that beat her and ran away to enjoy himself. then he return after hearing that his wife is marrying to a foreigner. He begs her forgiveness and she returned to him...
SO the morale of the story is that not the gal have problem ... its the agency that have problem and cannot be trusted ... how can such things happen
bro,take it easy,i am sure bro here who marry vietnam spouse have more story to tell with regards to this kind of discrimination.Also cannot blame others cos is true that ppl from vietnam come here to commit crime and all this is been broadcast big big in the press.
Is true that there is some marriage that is happy but all this is overshadow by vice,pickpocket,selling counterband ciga and stealing commited by some viet who came here
let's be true and honest about it. how many vietnamese spouse in Singapore got to know their singaporean husband the `proper' way? Over half got to know their singaporean husbands while working in KTV or other night spots in Singapore. From ancient times till now, vice has always been looked down at. Its the easiest and faastest way to earn money. But let's take a look at their culture. For the gals from the Vietnamese villagers, they have little education and huge demands from their families. They have lazy fathers and brothers while the mothers are often demanding in money. So sending their young daughters to work in the sleezy bars in city is the only way to get more money. at the same time, if these gals are lucky, they will get to know `rich' foreigners, marry him and bring more money home. `OPEN LEG`' is National Service to these village Vietnamese gals. But to the chinese in Singapore, earning money thru vice is undesirable. So we cannot blame the locals for looking down on these gals, but for those who know the viet culture, we cannot blame these gals as they are trying to bring more money home.
The next area to look at is the singaporean husband of these viet spouse. Most of these viet spouse marry low income and lowly educated Singaporean man who can barely feed themselves. These Singaporean man either got their viet spouse thru marriage agents or thru night spots. In order to make these gals stay longer, these singapore man prefer to make these gals pregnant, thinking children will tie these gals down. But financial woes often break up these marriages. the lies told by these singapore husbands will unwrapped after some time and these viet gals will feel cheated. No PR, no house, no car, no cash..... etc, after sometime, these gals will give up on these marriages.
Bad press reports on Vietnamese coming to Singapore to commit crimes are often on singapore papers. This gives the general public the negative impression of vietnamese. But earning a living thru crime is no big deal to the common vietnamese. Its their way of survival. Sometimes, we ought to respect them for their survival skills, these skills are not what normal singaporeans possess.
There's always 2 sides of the coin. We cannot blame singaporeans but at the same time, we got to respect vietnamese for their survival skills. It just depend on what view do you side with.
let's be true and honest about it. how many vietnamese spouse in Singapore got to know their singaporean husband the `proper' way? Over half got to know their singaporean husbands while working in KTV or other night spots in Singapore. From ancient times till now, vice has always been looked down at. Its the easiest and faastest way to earn money. But let's take a look at their culture. For the gals from the Vietnamese villagers, they have little education and huge demands from their families. They have lazy fathers and brothers while the mothers are often demanding in money. So sending their young daughters to work in the sleezy bars in city is the only way to get more money. at the same time, if these gals are lucky, they will get to know `rich' foreigners, marry him and bring more money home. `OPEN LEG`' is National Service to these village Vietnamese gals. But to the chinese in Singapore, earning money thru vice is undesirable. So we cannot blame the locals for looking down on these gals, but for those who know the viet culture, we cannot blame these gals as they are trying to bring more money home.
The next area to look at is the singaporean husband of these viet spouse. Most of these viet spouse marry low income and lowly educated Singaporean man who can barely feed themselves. These Singaporean man either got their viet spouse thru marriage agents or thru night spots. In order to make these gals stay longer, these singapore man prefer to make these gals pregnant, thinking children will tie these gals down. But financial woes often break up these marriages. the lies told by these singapore husbands will unwrapped after some time and these viet gals will feel cheated. No PR, no house, no car, no cash..... etc, after sometime, these gals will give up on these marriages.
Bad press reports on Vietnamese coming to Singapore to commit crimes are often on singapore papers. This gives the general public the negative impression of vietnamese. But earning a living thru crime is no big deal to the common vietnamese. Its their way of survival. Sometimes, we ought to respect them for their survival skills, these skills are not what normal singaporeans possess.
There's always 2 sides of the coin. We cannot blame singaporeans but at the same time, we got to respect vietnamese for their survival skills. It just depend on what view do you side with.
yah bro,agree with what u say,there is always 2 sides of the coin but normally is only 1 side is expose ,so u sum up everything through your posting
Whether is marry through what ever way,be responsible as a husband is the key thing we must give to your spouse.I do agree with u and i also respect their survival skill (which i learn from my wife)which i think most sg ppl like me lack of.sometime their survival skill is stronger than man
yah bro,agree with what u say,there is always 2 sides of the coin but normally is only 1 side is expose ,so u sum up everything through your posting
Whether is marry through what ever way,be responsible as a husband is the key thing we must give to your spouse.I do agree with u and i also respect their survival skill (which i learn from my wife)which i think most sg ppl like me lack of.sometime their survival skill is stronger than man
totally agree with what you have said and also broSingViet...
am also surprised on numerous occassions at how tough my bxa can be too..
Bad press reports on Vietnamese coming to Singapore to commit crimes are often on singapore papers. This gives the general public the negative impression of vietnamese. But earning a living thru crime is no big deal to the common vietnamese. Its their way of survival. Sometimes, we ought to respect them for their survival skills, these skills are not what normal singaporeans possess.
There's always 2 sides of the coin. We cannot blame singaporeans but at the same time, we got to respect vietnamese for their survival skills. It just depend on what view do you side with.
i disagree that we should be respect Vietnam survival skill by commiting crime no matter how you view at it.
Even their own country also doesn't condone this type of crime.
that will be my thesis paper if I ever go back to college again
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let's be true and honest about it. .................................................. ..........rmal singaporeans possess.
There's always 2 sides of the coin. We cannot blame singaporeans but at the same time, we got to respect vietnamese for their survival skills. It just depend on what view do you side with.
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I dun like the idea of marriage agency here...in my opinion they dun have good brides...only keen to make money...
best solution is to go to Vn and choose yourself...
I also want to find, but I also dont know how to woo girls in the first place. So that's why sg cannot find ma... No choice but to consider buying liao.... Unless VN girls much easier to woo....
I also want to find, but I also dont know how to woo girls in the first place. So that's why sg cannot find ma... No choice but to consider buying liao.... Unless VN girls much easier to woo....
you stay here and dun go Vn...how to woo???????????????????????????...:confus ed:
sorry you operate marriage agency here...
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let's be true and honest about it. how many vietnamese spouse in Singapore got to know their singaporean husband the `proper' way?
haha,,,agreed whole heartedly...wat are we waiting for....book your tix and fly there la...
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i disagree that we should be respect Vietnam survival skill by commiting crime no matter how you view at it.
Even their own country also doesn't condone this type of crime.
Just my humble Opinion.
bro,i guess what bro singviet mean is they deserve respect for their survival skill.As is through commiting crime to survive,i bet i will also do it if i am damm poor in a 3rd world country.I dont know u been there before or any 3rd world country or not?
Sg ppl is really very fortunate and dont know how the poor live in those country.They have no job,even have job can barely survive with their salary,their govertment dont care,uneducated and corruption everywhere.
In short those poor ppl have no future to look forward unlike singaporean.Hopeless and with no money,commiting crime to survive is their only survival skill they have.
Singaporean may think is wrong but for poor people in that kind of condition,there is no wrong but survive.
Still remember got 1 true news (not in vietnam)about 2 to 3 ppl get lost in the
sea.With only one boat and no food.1 person die of hunger after few days and the other 2 ate their died friend flesh in order to survive.They know is wrong and inhuman but hunger drive them to eat in order to surivive
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