Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Golden question

wa bro,this sentence i highlight in red scare ppl to have more kids leh

yah,education always come first.when i saw my sis who have 3 kids already quit her teaching job and stay at home to look after her 3 monster to study,i dont think i can manage 3.she told me she no choice or else her kids cant catch up on school pace,poor thing

YES , ALOT OF SCARIFICES ....

Thats why No One Can Have the Best of Both World.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Golden question

not me,not me hahaha

bro,i am sure bro here will know what kind of person u are.Your insight of vietnamese ppl might not swallow well for some ppl.some ppl might think u like very smart when posting your comment to tell other people.seriously from what i see,u are consider quite successful already in term of finance and family and u certainly dont have to waste your time to come here and post but u still continue to contribute and that speak volume of u.

anyway in cyber space,when u post anything,ppl might agreed or disagreed but i believe from your seniority here,u are use to it already

Bro, i am normal la, just like any one of you here. I know what i post here sometimes might not go well with some people, but i am used to it roi. let's not get affected and continue to share our experiences and views. The few regular bros here know that we share our experiences for the benefit of each other. I think we seriously need to meet up someday soon. Btw, maybe we can start by meeting each other on facebook.... if regular bros here are interested, pls do PM each other with your facebook account.

[Golden question]

yesterday saw the paper on the news on LTVP PLUS,got a photo that show a sg husband and his vietnamese wife.Got a 1 year old baby,that man was 64 and his vietnamese wife was 25.wow almost 40 years gap and he was a chinese 'sang xi' at home.wonder how they can get along with such a hugh age gap cos sometime youngster find it tough to get along with old people.But that baby laugh until like the mouth cannot close like that and like win 1 million toto like that or maybe happy for his mother that ica now will consider her for that pass because of him

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by shysaint

YES , ALOT OF SCARIFICES ....

Thats why No One Can Have the Best of Both World.

ya loh,now i already adjust myself to suit both of them

[clearsky]

Well said and thanks for sharing Respecting each other's culture is very good and important in maintaining the relationship, as long as those believes are well intended and do not create trouble for the family. Cheers !!!

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I think we seriously need to meet up someday soon. Btw, maybe we can start by meeting each other on facebook.... if regular bros here are interested, pls do PM each other with your facebook account.

Meet Up ... WHY NOT ...

You also got facebook

[volcano]

hello fellow bros,tomorrow is special day for women hor.remember to say or do something sweet early in the day so that u will get the 'returns' in the nite....

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Meet Up ... WHY NOT ...

You also got facebook

Of course I got Facebook la, I not so old yet

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by volcano

hello fellow bros,tomorrow is special day for women hor.remember to say or do something sweet early in the day so that u will get the 'returns' in the nite....

tmr is the day that many vb will ask for something...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by shysaint

I told my wife CNY I don't sleep til the sunrise and she said I crazy ... BUT after I explain what is the purpose , she will smile back and said oh ok, vietnamese don't practice that ...

huh?? my girlfriend told me there is such practice in vn leh...
but she never able to stay up because she always sleepy at night.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro, don't mind me saying this. She marry into yr family and you are Chinese , why need to follow the viet way of doing things and still pray to their ancestors ?

i prayed to my girlfriend ancestor, she pay respect to my ancestor, i follow her to church, she follow me to temple etc..

these are small matters ... just do it. give and take mah.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

huh?? my girlfriend told me there is such practice in vn leh...
but she never able to stay up because she always sleepy at night.

hmmmm ... that'w why I LOVE my wife so much ... she is always so Different from other VN Gals ... Sighzzz

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by volcano

hello fellow bros,tomorrow is special day for women hor.remember to say or do something sweet early in the day so that u will get the 'returns' in the nite....

Not Very Important lah coz is Int'l Woman's Day - Quốc tế Phụ nữ .. More Important to them is the Vietnamese Woman's Day - Ngày phụ nữ Việt Nam on 20th October .

But still you must wish them or buy somethign for them lah ...

[big wood]

Time to burn a hole in the pocket again

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I think we seriously need to meet up someday soon.

That was 5-6 years ago