Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 894

volcano · #**13396** 01-04-2012, 05:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

i have to agreed on this.everything ok but when proceeding,all the bull shit things start to come in

remind me of one of the incident when my wife build a 2 sided wall to cover her land and also some drainage .i went there and notice that my wife was serving them some coffee or drinks in the morning and afternoon,i ask her why have to serve them like that,she say if she dont serve them drinks,they will go and order and pay by her

and they will do 'magic' on their job.i am not against her giving them drinks but their attitude towards their job really sucks

7.30am start work
11.15am disappear for lunch
1.30pm return to work
5pm order noodle to eat
5 30pm go home

in between got take 15 minute break

at first my wife told me they say need 8 days to complete,i ask her from what i see though i am not an engineer,i think it takes the most 5 days to complete and i ask her to check with them.they say they will try to complete.5 big man doing it some more.then 2 days before completing,ask for payment,my wife told him not to worry cos she wont run away.knn,not yet finish job,want to take money.my wife say no choice cos have to use him as the surrounding land belong one of the owner and he want to give all this job to someone he know,what else but to eat money lah,sell the red book to her and pocket 2k and still want to continue eat and laze around at home see tv

things like this are common especially at country side.i did a wall 2.5mx2.5m and with tiles mounted at country side...it took 3 days to finish...

but what annoys me most about Vietnamese style of working is that the bank close 1.5 hours for lunch...really damn frustrated when have urgent transaction.

best of service usually only found in posh restaurant n night spots due to good tippings...

SingViet · #**13397** 01-04-2012, 09:03 AM

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Court documents stated the three men had conspired with Seng Swee Meng and his Vietnamese wife Ngo Tien and obtained money ranging from S$100 to S$120.

This was said to be for the consideration of sexual services of the underage girls and they have thereby abetted the offences of the six men.

Seng faces multiple charges of harbouring 30 hostesses and prostitutes and also of running a brothel.

The Vietnamese girls were said to have worked at various pubs located in Joo Chiat and Geylang at the time of the offence.

Seng is expected to be sentenced on 11 April 2012.

His wife has skipped town and a warrant for her arrest has been issued.

They can find the Viet wife at the following place, (1) Her hometown, (2) HCMC (3) Cambodia - Phnom Penh. But the probability of location (3) is much higher....

Golden question · #**13398** 01-04-2012, 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

They can find the Viet wife at the following place, (1) Her hometown, (2) HCMC (3) Cambodia - Phnom Penh. But the probability of location (3) is much higher....

Malaysia,thailand,vietnam,cambodia and laos are join together with land border.there was a question before on why foreigner choose to escape to thailand after comitting crime in their own country,they say is easier to escape from those country local police as they can leave one and enter another one by land and harder to trace them.

so my guess for your third location is malaysia

Golden question · #**13399** 01-04-2012, 09:51 AM

misunderstood what u say as you location 3 is cambodia so no need guess

SingViet · #**13400** 01-04-2012, 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

misunderstood what u say as you location 3 is cambodia so no need guess

Phnom Penh has a large community of Vietnamese, so Viets like to hide there when in trouble.

Golden question · #**13401** 02-04-2012, 08:38 PM

My wife's brother have a son who like me a lot,as he is look after by my wife's mother since young and staying with her until now,i have the chance to see him whenever we go back.i ask my wife before why he like me,she say she also dont know so i think maybe i am a foreigner thats why he like me.During one of the visit,his father ask me whether can his son call me FATHER

.I was a bit uncomfortable and told him i feel uncomfortable so dont call me like that.

Few months later during a causual talk,my wife told me that his brother's hope to send his son to singapore to study and he ask me whether i can let him stay in our house.he will pay for all his expenses over here as his wife was rich if compare to normal vietnamese folk.I was against it as i told her that she dont have the time to help him take care of him when he is here staying with us.I told her sg ppl here work from morning to night and if his here,she have to bring him to school every morning and back,help him adapt to sg life,take care of him and bring him around.where got the time.And he dont know english,so will have a hard time here

She told me she can manage and i think she can but in the end,i say NO cos is not that i dont like him but i simply dont want him to be too close to us.I admit i am selfish and she also say that to me but i just dont want her relative to come into our sg life.For her mother,i have nothing to say and anyway she have never came to sg before and refuse to come cos she afraid to leave vietnam.maybe old ppl thinking

My wife always say all her friends mothers have at least come sg to visit their daughter before except her mom.she is rather sad but i just told her maybe old ppl like that.

vietboy · #**13402** 02-04-2012, 09:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

My wife's brother have a son who like me a lot,as he is look after by my wife's mother since young and staying with her until now,i have the chance to see him whenever we go back.i ask my wife before why he like me,she say she also dont know so i think maybe i am a foreigner thats why he like me.During one of the visit,his father ask me whether can his son call me FATHER

.I was a bit uncomfortable and told him i feel uncomfortable so dont call me like that.

maybe he meant "God-Father" ?

Golden question · #**13403** 02-04-2012, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by vietboy

maybe he meant "God-Father" ?

haha,maybe but think call me uncle better and sound safer

SingViet · #**13404** 03-04-2012, 08:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

My wife's brother have a son who like me a lot,as he is look after by my wife's mother since young and staying with her until now,i have the chance to see him whenever we go back.i ask my wife before why he like me,she say she also dont know so i think maybe i am a foreigner thats why he like me.During one of the visit,his father ask me whether can his son call me FATHER

.I was a bit uncomfortable and told him i feel uncomfortable so dont call me like that.

Few months later during a causual talk,my wife told me that his brother's hope to send his son to singapore to study and he ask me whether i can let him stay in our house.he will pay for all his expenses over here as his wife was rich if compare to normal vietnamese folk.I was against it as i told her that she dont have the time to help him take care of him when he is here staying with us.I told her sg ppl here work from morning to night and if his here,she have to bring him to school every morning and back,help him adapt to sg life,take care of him and bring him around.where got the time.And he dont know english,so will have a hard time here

She told me she can manage and i think she can but in the end,i say NO cos is not that i dont like him but i simply dont want him to be too close to us.I admit i am selfish and she also say that to me but i just dont want her relative to come into our sg life.For her mother,i have nothing to say and anyway she have never came to sg before and refuse to come cos she afraid to leave vietnam.maybe old ppl thinking

My wife always say all her friends mothers have at least come sg to visit their daughter before except her mom.she is rather sad but i just told her maybe old ppl like that.

I am very afriad of such things. I remember my business associates in VN, they can give my number to their friends who are coming to Singapore. I can receive calls from people i do not know and say they want to come my house stay a few nights. Siao!!! Lagi best, these business associates go karaoke meet those WL , then brag to these ladies that their `BROTHER and SISTER' is in Singapore, so if go Singapore, kanna stop by immigration, can call us to help them by sponsoring them. Siao!!! My wife and i will never do that.

My wife also told me that her mother and father wants to come singapore visit us, the brothers and sisters also want.... i go like... huh? fully paid tour group huh? My wife's sister came to singapore around 3 times because we needed her help as we change maid and there's a period of time we were without maid when we wait for new maid to arrive. But i pay my wife's sister 5 million VND a month to help us.Before go back, she still go buy this and that, comes up to another $250 dollars.

I am like you bro, i don't like her family to come disturb us. I know if they start coming, they will keep wanting to come. I had enough of that when i was staying in VN last time.

Golden question · #**13405** 03-04-2012, 09:07 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

I am very afriad of such things. I remember my business associates in VN, they can give my number to their friends who are coming to Singapore. I can receive calls from people i do not know and say they want to come my house stay a few nights. Siao!!! Lagi best, these business associates go karaoke meet those WL , then brag to these ladies that their `BROTHER and SISTER' is in Singapore, so if go Singapore, kanna stop by immigration, can call us to help them by sponsoring them. Siao!!! My wife and i will never do that.

My wife also told me that her mother and father wants to come singapore visit us, the brothers and sisters also want.... i go like... huh? fully paid tour group huh? My wife's sister came to singapore around 3 times because we needed her help as we change maid and there's a period of time we were without maid when we wait for new maid to arrive. But i pay my wife's sister 5 million VND a month to help us.Before go back, she still go buy this and that, comes up to another $250 dollars.

I am like you bro, i don't like her family to come disturb us. I know if they start coming, they will keep wanting to come. I had enough of that when i was staying in VN last time.

so far i am lucky that her mom dont like to come singapore and is always my wife who like to ask them to come.i still remember the first time she ask me whether 1 of her best friend can stay in our house when she come here

i ask her why she want to come singapore.i start to give a lot of excuse like our house was small and no place or bed for her to sleep and we dont have time to bring her around.she became angry and say i dont have to spend any money as her friend will pay for everything here and she will bring her around and will not trouble me.she say just let her stay in our house and she dont mind sleeping on the floor.

so she came and i only fetch her from airport and only spend 1 day bringing them to sentosa.she use her own money and i only spend on the meals to invite her.to be hornest,that time i think she will take advantage of me like ask me to spend here and there but i was wrong.so after that as long as my wife told me that she will take care of them when they come here few days for holiday,i agreed but for long term like his brother's son to come here study and stay with us,is a straight NO

batty · #**13406** 03-04-2012, 10:03 AM

Hi Golden question. May be ask your wife's relatives to put that Vietnamese boy in a students' hostel in Singapore. Or put him up with a Singaporean family who rents out room(s) in their HDB flat near your house. The golden question here is who pays for him?

shysaint · #**13407** 03-04-2012, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Met bro shysaint at the airport yesterday morning. Chatted for a while and we boarded the plane. After plane landed at HCM, I rushed to toilet and bro shysaint disappeared. Hihihi Bro, wanted to contact you via Facebook but cannot work leh. Should have gotten yr Vn number.

heheheh ...

I have not turn on my mobile data coz no $$$

Normally when I reach there I have it turn on.

Golden question · #**13408** 03-04-2012, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by batty

Hi Golden question. May be ask your wife's relatives to put that Vietnamese boy in a students' hostel in Singapore. Or put him up with a Singaporean family who rents out room(s) in their HDB flat near your house. The golden question here is who pays for him?

The answer to your golden question is i dont want to care