Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC

[robertchua]

Originally Posted by Submissive

Thank you to all bros for all the info n contacts. Will be looking forward to serve mistress wu ze tian n mistress ke er though we have not set any time yet. I'm more into strict bondage n some cross dressing, nothing too hard core. Have tried pearly a few times, not bad, she really has a lot of strength, n my nipples hurt for a few days. Tried thaidomina twice, bondage is good but not much of a feel otherwise. Have set a date with them again next month. Have tried mistress of minds n mistress maxin too. One is more hardcore n the other softer. Every experience is unique. Glad to see that I'm not alone with similar fetish.

Bro Submissive, welcome to the gang! You are certainly not alone in this. Wow! You have tried many dominatrix, yes? How about posting some FRs for us? I will love to read them.

[robertchua]

Originally Posted by PeterCetera

I concur with you all that quality is far more important than price, but it is a balancing act. Some of the prices quoted here appear quite high ... $400 for a session seems excessive.

Is that a long session? Or does the cost of living in Singapore reflect such prices? Or is it supply/demand and price gouging?

I've entertained the idea, conceptually at least, of personal slave arrangement ... that would have it's pluses and minuses but I think it really wouldn't work for me. I believe that could very well work for some guys, and probably best with a fully mature woman who understands other commitments, boundaries, and life outside of play time ... I know I'm not into fetish/submission 'all' the time.

Bro PeterCetera, $400 is usually for a 2-hour session. This seems to be the norm for most of the established dominatrix in Singapore.

[PeterCetera]

Originally Posted by robertchua

Bro micky_blues, I have contacted bitchevon via CM previously and received her rude reply peppered with profanities (specifically the F-word). She wanted to see me naked with my balls exposed as well as tell her my experiences before considering my offer to pay her to kick my balls. I replied her politely that I will not send her my picture (since she can easily get such pictures of naked men and their balls via the internet) but my offer still stands. She did not replied me after that. Perhaps it is better this way, I cannot "afford" such a lifestyle dominatrix.

Br robertchua --

From your post, she does appear to be someone to avoid. Lifestyle BDSM does include a respect for boundaries. While I know little about her except from what I have read on this thread ... for some reason I just get the vibe that she may have a Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).

NPD is not merely being self-absorbed, arrogant, selfish or an entitlement queen ... it's a pathology unto itself and Narcissists should be avoided altogether.

BTW, you got the 'Chicago' connection.

[PeterCetera]

Bro Submissive, please do post a FR of your experiences/sessions ... perverted inquiring minds like mine just gots to know

[robertchua]

Originally Posted by PeterCetera

Bro Robertchua --

Thank you very much for your kind words! I put a lot of effort into composing my first FR, I hope it was well received by all.

I believe you'll be just fine with Suniya, she's HOT looking on her site and gets nice reviews ... and as you have already scheduled with her it's good to be reliable. I almost scheduled with her as well last weekend, but she was out of town. Good fast correspondence though.

While my FR of Jasmine was glowing and we surely connected ... one cannot tell how she would be with other men ... and how she may be doubling with Mistress Nurie (her boss). Chemistry between Mistresses is important too.

Aside, I don't believe the rapid fire hotel appointments with traveling mistresses would be the same as the slow relaxed appointments on their home turf.

So, I hope your session with Suniya goes wonderfully. Plus, I think its best with just one mistress (unless you prefer two).

P.S. I received your invitation and my answer is a resounding "Yes". I hope I clicked the right buttons to ensure it goes through.

Bro PeterCetera, thanks for your effort in crafting your first FR. I certainly look forward to reading more FRs from you in future.

In case you do not know, I much prefer one-to-one sessions as they are more personal. Perhaps it is because most of my sessions have always been one-to-one in the first place. Besides, I like to examine my bruised and swollen balls after each session and relish all the injuries I have sustained - much like my personal trophies.

I agree with you that the chemistry one will have with each Mistress will differ based on many factors. As you most probably know, each Mistress will have their moods as well and depending on her mood for your session, the outcome might vary. That is why one should not take the FRs, including mine of course, to be the absolute truth.

From my recent experience with the Thaidomina team of Mistress Bella and Mistress Femina, they are aware that in a hotel room with limited BDSM equipment (including no thigh high boots that I had specified in my request), there is a limit to what they can do. That is why they invited me to go BKK for a session with them at their dungeon. It is a pity I have to forgo Mistress Jasmine and Mistress Nurie this time round due to me having arranged with Mistress Suniya but I will try them the next time they come to Singapore.

p/s: Yes, you have clicked the right button. Thanks for being my friend!

[robertchua]

Originally Posted by submarine

i am still in charge outside the bedroom. Only within the bedroom will I submit. This is how I choose to see things. Haha, that's why I will never engage and submit thoroughly to a lifestyle domme.

Rather pay and have a good time and get out of there with no strings attached, just like what bro Micky and Robertchua have said.

But then again, certain ladies were really nice outside of this lifestyle, and they make good company once the session is over. But I will never accept a girl who tramples all over me thinking I belong to her 24/7. Mutual respect is important. Just my opinion..

Anyway, regarding bitchevon, it seems that some of her pics were taken off the net, as they seemed somewhat familiar, especially the session pics.

Was tempted to try M. Shannon aka MistressofMinds, but again, she dosen't strike me as someone who is nice to everyone. If a domme can be selective of her clients, so can we. I know certain people get high on this, but the way she comments about some of her slaves is quite demeaning.

Well to each his own...too bad Japan is turning green, if not I will make a trip down and have a good time there.

club-absolute in nagoya seems like a safe bet for now

Bro submarine, no strings attached should be the safest way to get our BDSM fix. I agree with you that a good dominatrix should respect her clients' wishes just like how we appreciate her for fulfilling our BDSM fantasies.

As for Mistress Shannon, I have corresponded with her and she told me that she does not have a pair of boots and she will not just kick my balls in a session - that is why I will not engage her services. Her replies to me were okay but we did not correspond that much so I cannot say much about her. She is rather expensive at $500 for a 2-hour session though.

[robertchua]

Originally Posted by copymark

guess most bros here cant live with a lifestyle domme ba lol
for me i cant either but she understands that and hence is not a 24/7 thingy.

anyway itching for a session now. but guess most dommes are asleep heh

Bro copymark, I try to schedule my BDSM fix on a monthly basis. If I can afford, twice a month is even better. Need to save up for each session and money is hard to earn.

[robertchua]

Originally Posted by jonah11

I had tried Wu Ze Tian a few times and she is still alright according to my standards. Maybe I am a bit hardcore.

If you are going for looks, however, don't set too high your expectations.

Bro jonah11, I am going for looks, the looks of her boots that is! I have tried not-so-pretty / not-so-young ladies in GL wearing the kind of boots I like. One particular MILF, Brenda was her name, was wearing white thigh high platform PVC boots. I must say she is pretty old though but I did not really care as I wanted to try how it feels like being kicked with those beautiful boots of her and I certainly enjoyed my session with her. It only cost me $60 (excluding room) and her service was very good.

If you are hardcore, just like me, tell her to be more rough the next time you have a session with her and I am sure she will be happy to oblige. So far, it always works for me.

[robertchua]

Originally Posted by PeterCetera

Br robertchua --

From your post, she does appear to be someone to avoid. Lifestyle BDSM does include a respect for boundaries. While I know little about her except from what I have read on this thread ... for some reason I just get the vibe that she may have a Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).

NPD is not merely being self-absorbed, arrogant, selfish or an entitlement queen ... it's a pathology unto itself and Narcissists should be avoided altogether.

BTW, you got the 'Chicago' connection.

Bro PeterCetera, I see you are out of moderation! I am a fan of "Chicago" too! Before I found this thread, it is really a chore to message the various dominatrix via CM. The only dominatrix that responds to me in a timely manner every time is Mistress Minky. Most of the other dominatrix will MIA. I believe there is a significant number of fake profiles in CM as well.

That is why I started the list with 6 dominatrix initially so that other bros need not waste their time. It is really thanks to the contributions of all the bros that the list now stands at 23 dominatrix (including 3 overseas dominatrix) and 3 TS. My wish is to continue to expand this list with good dominatrix so we as BDSM lovers can get our money's worth.

[Submissive]

A fr on mistress maxin. Arranged a session with one of her friends sometime last year. Damage is 400 for 2 hrs but I used up only 70 min cos rushing back to work. Nothing exciting abt the looks but was very accomodating and nice to talk to. Began with dressing me up in a short dress n makeup. After some teasing, I was given an enama. Wosh, this was my first. My ass was quite tight and it was a struggle for mistress who constantly ask me to open up n relax. Thereafter, I cleared all my bowels in the toilet. I was tied spreadeagled on the bed. It was more sensual though I would much prefer very strict n tight bondage. Mistress put on a strap n ask me to suck. It was huge. All this while, a rabbit vibrator was inserted in me. I was also given a hj. Many sensations at the same time. Before long, I succumbed.

[robertchua]

Bro Submissive, thanks for your FR on Mistress Maxim. I have upped your points. I look forward to reading more FRs, both old and new, from you soon.

[slave.alan]

Originally Posted by robertchua

Bro copymark, my list is rather boring as I mentioned previously but here goes:

1) slave copymark:
foot, boot, heel worship, small penis humiliation, teasing n denial, orgasm denial, ball busting, panty worship, pee drinking, massage (giving) , chastity, facesitting, pussy worship, forced cock sucking, forced cum drinking

2) Robert Chua
Hardcore ballbusting with thigh high / knee high leather boots and boot worship

Hi all Bros,

1) slave copymark:
foot, boot, heel worship, small penis humiliation, teasing n denial, orgasm denial, ball busting, panty worship, pee drinking, massage (giving) , chastity, facesitting, pussy worship, forced cock sucking, forced cum drinking

2) Robert Chua
Hardcore ballbusting with thigh high / knee high leather boots and boot worship

3) slave.alan
Humiliation especially small penis humiliation, orgasm denial, queening/face sitting, golden shower, CFNM

[wujifoot]

FR on HOD mistress ICE and Lisa

The Appointment:
Sent an email to Mistress Midori asking for Miss Tiger and Ice
Midori responded with a phone number and asked me to call when in Bangkok

One day before, I called and was told Ice is available but Tiger is not, and I asked for Lisa.

The Meetup
The protocol was to meet in a subway station.
When I reached there, Lisa a voluptuous young lady, is already there waiting for me.

We took a cab together, and Lisa's English was good and we chatted very well along the way.


The Session

When I reached the dungeon, I saw ICE.
Ice is quite stunning in looks, much like her photo. Slim and quite tall.
Tanned and firm.
She is new and very gentle looking

Lisa has quite a presentable face, quite tall, and figure on the plump side, but very fair for a thai.
She is experienced and confident.

I asked for a feet related session and sensual session.

They sure know how how to tease. Before they start the session, they teased and challenge to milk me 3 times in 2 hours with their feet. I told them their expectation is too high, and I could at most manage 2.

First, they make me lie on the floor, and they run their pantyhosed feet all over my body. Soon one settled for the face and the other the crouch, and switching positions many times.
They do this continuously for at least 45 mins

Then they tied me up to a bed post standing up, masked and blind-folded me.
Now both took turns to rub their ass and breast all over me.
When they finally untie me and put me on a high post bed, I was already very "near".

Once on the bed, Lisa did a 'footjob" on me, while I worship Ice's feet.
It doesn't take a lot to extract the first "round" from me.

Soon after that, I was given a 5 mins break to restore my "qi".

When they return, they start another round of teasing and rubbing to get me all exited again.

They combined force and prod their peds on my once deflated member. It does not take very long to coax my "bro" for another standing ovation.


Conclusion
I enjoyed every moment of the session, and felt safe throughout.

Lisa is very confident and can be dominating if she wants to. However, I asked for a sensual session and she obliged well.
She has very nice and fair feet.
Highly recommended for people looking for confident mistress.

Ice is very sexy, feminine and I can feel she is quite horny. Next time, I might try a solo to see if there is any surprises.
She is tanned so her feet is not so fair. That's the only negative.

Highly recommended for bros who is looking for looks and sensual type of domination.



Hope you enjoy the FR. And thanks Bro Robert for reviving and making this thread a real success. Unfortunately, these mistresses are not on our shores, but hopefully they will one day.



wujifoot

[robertchua]

Originally Posted by slave.alan

Hi all Bros,

1) slave copymark:
foot, boot, heel worship, small penis humiliation, teasing n denial, orgasm denial, ball busting, panty worship, pee drinking, massage (giving) , chastity, facesitting, pussy worship, forced cock sucking, forced cum drinking

2) Robert Chua
Hardcore ballbusting with thigh high / knee high leather boots and boot worship

3) slave.alan
Humiliation especially small penis humiliation, orgasm denial, queening/face sitting, golden shower, CFNM

Bro slave.alan, thanks for your sharing! You have missed out bro tamago09's though so here it is:

1) slave copymark:
foot, boot, heel worship, small penis humiliation, teasing n denial, orgasm denial, ball busting, panty worship, pee drinking, massage (giving) , chastity, facesitting, pussy worship, forced cock sucking, forced cum drinking

2) Robert Chua
Hardcore ballbusting with thigh high / knee high leather boots and boot worship

3) tamago09
Mummification / Facesitting cum Smothering / Vaccumm Bed / Latex / Pussy and Ass Worship / Rope bondage / will add on others if i can think of more.

I'm also keen on trying other fetishes but dare not try or tried abit only: Goldenshower / Pee drinking / Foot worship / Sissifying / Ass Play (Fingering and Pegging)

4) slave.alan
Humiliation especially small penis humiliation, orgasm denial, queening/face sitting, golden shower, CFNM

[robertchua]

Originally Posted by wujifoot

FR on HOD mistress ICE and Lisa

The Appointment:
Sent an email to Mistress Midori asking for Miss Tiger and Ice
Midori responded with a phone number and asked me to call when in Bangkok

One day before, I called and was told Ice is available but Tiger is not, and I asked for Lisa.

The Meetup
The protocol was to meet in a subway station.
When I reached there, Lisa a voluptuous young lady, is already there waiting for me.

We took a cab together, and Lisa's English was good and we chatted very well along the way.


The Session

When I reached the dungeon, I saw ICE.
Ice is quite stunning in looks, much like her photo. Slim and quite tall.
Tanned and firm.
She is new and very gentle looking

Lisa has quite a presentable face, quite tall, and figure on the plump side, but very fair for a thai.
She is experienced and confident.

I asked for a feet related session and sensual session.

They sure know how how to tease. Before they start the session, they teased and challenge to milk me 3 times in 2 hours with their feet. I told them their expectation is too high, and I could at most manage 2.

First, they make me lie on the floor, and they run their pantyhosed feet all over my body. Soon one settled for the face and the other the crouch, and switching positions many times.
They do this continuously for at least 45 mins

Then they tied me up to a bed post standing up, masked and blind-folded me.
Now both took turns to rub their ass and breast all over me.
When they finally untie me and put me on a high post bed, I was already very "near".

Once on the bed, Lisa did a 'footjob" on me, while I worship Ice's feet.
It doesn't take a lot to extract the first "round" from me.

Soon after that, I was given a 5 mins break to restore my "qi".

When they return, they start another round of teasing and rubbing to get me all exited again.

They combined force and prod their peds on my once deflated member. It does not take very long to coax my "bro" for another standing ovation.


Conclusion
I enjoyed every moment of the session, and felt safe throughout.

Lisa is very confident and can be dominating if she wants to. However, I asked for a sensual session and she obliged well.
She has very nice and fair feet.
Highly recommended for people looking for confident mistress.

Ice is very sexy, feminine and I can feel she is quite horny. Next time, I might try a solo to see if there is any surprises.
She is tanned so her feet is not so fair. That's the only negative.

Highly recommended for bros who is looking for looks and sensual type of domination.



Hope you enjoy the FR. And thanks Bro Robert for reviving and making this thread a real success. Unfortunately, these mistresses are not on our shores, but hopefully they will one day.



wujifoot

Bro wujifoot, thanks for your wonderful FR! I will up you next.

This thread is a success thanks to all the bros who have been contributing since Day One (and are still contributing today) like bro doctor_sex (first posting in this thread in 2004), bro jonah11 (2004), bro submarine (2005), bro Joe73 (2005), bro Fmcane (2006), bro ydgduo (2006), bro McWoof0 (2006), bro subway73 (2006), bro Schrodinger (2007), bro micky_blues (2007), bro Nara (2007), bro dell_lee2003 (2008), bro Tbogard (2009), bro kurosaki_ichigo (2009), bro 1987 (2009), bro lancerex (2009) and bro Sweet Trip (2009). Of course, there are many bros, including bro wujifoot, who have been contributing since last year as well. My apologies if I missed out any bros accidentally.

A pity that there are many other bros, who were previously active in this thread, have stopped their postings though.