I'm offering my services

Originally Posted by sweety_gal_swee

Hi, I'm a 25 year old gal, local chinese. Need urgent cash to settle my debts, therefore am offering my services. I stand at 158cm, weighing at 48kg. I am not obese, nt slim either, more like athletic built and tanned. My fees are at SGD120/shot/1hr excluding room. Please contact me if you'd like to try my services. I'll be available starting tomorrow morning. Hope to hear from all of you soon!

Thanks for reading this thread!

reply me if you still in services

[elvee123]

Originally Posted by peter1234

bro laodi> thanks for the encouragemen. i notice u also in galsharing heehee

anyway sweetygal has msg me! so nice of her finally man, she said paiseh for the misunderstanding over the email and ask how she can make it up to me hmmm any suggestions?

NIKE -- JUST DO IT

[youngeric]

Originally Posted by bonkudear

bro YE,
i understand your frustrations. but still it's not wise to call, sms or email her too many times.
if i rem correctly, sweety did mention in one of her posts that she works in an office in the day. hence the inconvenience to answer her mobile. sms her or email her is the best option. but sweety only has access to her emails at nite. so exchanges via email is best used to set up the initial contact and date to meet up.

Hi bonkudear!

I think maybe I was not clear in my initial post.
I never bombard her with emails, SMS or calls.
In fact for most FL, I see no point in contacting them weekly or monthly.
For most FL, I would contact them once or twice. If no response, I would forget about it in case its a prank.

For this FL, I certainly did not call her. I SMS her a few times IN TOTAL. I SMS her more AFTER those times she played me out. I emailed her even lesser than I SMS her.

Therefore, I was not harrassing or disturbing her.

So, I could not understand how or why she can serve others first before me.
Of course, I am not saying I should be first in queue, and I know she does not do this fulltime. But after she played me out etc etc, dont you think I should be one of those first few she contact first? That is not even the case here! Its not even the case that I am not free and she contact others.

In fact she last SMS me to say she is not working soon and will be free. I SMS her I think 3 times over 1 entire week in reply. Also no reply.

YE

[CravenSg]

Originally Posted by youngeric

...So, I could not understand how or why she can serve others first before me. Of course, I am not saying I should be first in queue, and I know she does not do this fulltime. But after she played me out etc etc, dont you think I should be one of those first few she contact first? That is not even the case here...

Bro, some people may not like pressure, even if you may think there's none. It's always a question of perspective. I have met Swee twice and sometimes, she would feel too tired at the day and decide on her own, not to meet. Throw in the fact that she has her other normal HP line and she may not use the FL line actively, she may end up "flying the aeroplane", so to speak.

This happens often enough for locals, but hey, they are freelance. Unlike TGs or etc who bunk in the hotel room waiting for customers, locals can be very independent, and of course, unpredictable.

If you take it as more like buying TOTO, then maybe you will feel better. When get, happy like fuck. When you don't, no big deal, buy 4D also can.

Cheers.

PS> Swee did stop work for a very very short while, she got a job again soon after. As that's her real life, we should understand she may have other priorities.

[laodi123456789]

Originally Posted by youngeric

So, I could not understand how or why she can serve others first before me.
Of course, I am not saying I should be first in queue, and I know she does not do this fulltime. But after she played me out etc etc, dont you think I should be one of those first few she contact first? That is not even the case here! Its not even the case that I am not free and she contact others.

In fact she last SMS me to say she is not working soon and will be free. I SMS her I think 3 times over 1 entire week in reply. Also no reply.

YE

Bro

I empathise wif you. Sweety gal has NOT played me out and I am looking forward to a session with her in the future - when the stars align - eventually. But I have been in the situation where I was going to meet someone and they pulled out at the last minute. Terrible feeling. Howver the gal did give me an explanation later and that made things much better. Hopefully sweety gal can make the effort to contact you and explain why she is avoiding you.

But there is a problem when you keep on posting about the fact that she has been playing your out can be intimidating for her - "If I meet this guy is he gonna abuse me?" and the natural reaction is to avoid such person who makes posts like this.

You have made your point - Sweety Gal fucked you over. Is there any point in continuing to post here - I think it will sabotage your effort to meet her. If you are still keen to meet her I think your best strategy is to go private, and just sms her once every few weeks and see if you get a response. But frankly speaking - there are many fish in the sea and you may be able to find better fish with less effort.

Hope you can settle your mind over this issue.

[Optimus_Prime]

Unless the FL is doing this full time, dun expect her to be at your beck and call.

Plus this is a local FL, which means she has a full-time job, her own social circle and this is just a side line. So inevidently, there will be instances of fly aeroplane.

Bro youngeric, I've noticed that all your posts recently follow a certain "trend" ... all I'm telling u is... that's not good... cause it makes u sound like... well I have said as much as I can to u as a bro.

[KLKOOL]

Well said OP, Laodi, Craven... Youngeric... You have to accept this as reality of cheonging... if not.. then what's the point ?

[youngeric]

Originally Posted by CravenSg

Bro, some people may not like pressure, even if you may think there's none. It's always a question of perspective. I have met Swee twice and sometimes, she would feel too tired at the day and decide on her own, not to meet. Throw in the fact that she has her other normal HP line and she may not use the FL line actively, she may end up "flying the aeroplane", so to speak.

Hi CravenSg!

I think there's pressure if you keep calling the person, SMS or email to her constantly or regularly.

But if over a period of 6 months or more, I contacted her less than 20 times (excluding those times when she asked me something and I replied), do you think thats pressure? The last time I contacted her was March and I think it was less than 5 SMS. After that, I never contacted her.

YE

[youngeric]

Originally Posted by laodi123456789

Bro
You have made your point - Sweety Gal fucked you over. Is there any point in continuing to post here - I think it will sabotage your effort to meet her. If you are still keen to meet her I think your best strategy is to go private, and just sms her once every few weeks and see if you get a response. But frankly speaking - there are many fish in the sea and you may be able to find better fish with less effort.

Hi laodi123456789!

I dont even SMS her once every few weeks. I think before her last SMS to me in March, I dont even SMS her once every few months. Not sure but I think not even once every few weeks.

YE

[youngeric]

Originally Posted by Optimus_Prime

Unless the FL is doing this full time, dun expect her to be at your beck and call.

Plus this is a local FL, which means she has a full-time job, her own social circle and this is just a side line. So inevidently, there will be instances of fly aeroplane.

Bro youngeric, I've noticed that all your posts recently follow a certain "trend" ... all I'm telling u is... that's not good... cause it makes u sound like... well I have said as much as I can to u as a bro.

Hi Optimus_Prime!

Ive already said I never expect her to be at my beck and call.
In fact its the other way round, I am at her beck and call.
I dont even contact her regularly. If I do, its extremely infrequent.

As for flying aeroplane, Ive also mentioned before. The FL should make sure she really really wants to do FL before making the appointment. Again, no one is forcing her. She is not at my beck and call.

I see nothing wrong in her picking a date where she is free and not tired and then do FL on that date.
NOT pick a date when she have to study for her exams or tired after a long day or she have to attend friend's wedding etc.

Again, to do the latter is not difficult or impossible. Therefore to constantly fly people's aeroplane is not acceptable.
If she feels tired, dont waste her time and customer's time. Thats more than fair. if she have misgivings to do FL, then dont do. No one is forcing her. Thats also better than flying people's aeroplane.

As to the "trend" you are referring to, I feel that many here take things for granted. When the OKT or FL fucks up, they just notch it down to thats how things work or thats expected etc etc.

But why is that so? If everyone feels that, it will always remain the same.
FL will always fly our aeroplanes and dont give a damn because theres more than enough demand.
OKT will fix you up with exaggerated girls or post their own FR to sell their poor girls etc etc and dont give a damn because there will be another customer who is willing to pay.

In fact only FL and OKT will be happy if they keep on receiving good and not bad FR.

However, as the party who is wronged and who do speak up, we can create the awareness that such things are wrong. Eventually things will get better once these people know these things will not be tolerated or accepted like in the past.
By doing that, it can only benefit the customers not the FL or OKT.

I dont see anything wrong with that.

Its even worse to keep quiet and bottle up one's grievances even though its not one's fault.
if one do that, it will be like cheated twice.
First time by the OKT or FL, second time by yourself.

Anyway, I am not upset or angry with this FL.
I am just raising the issue of what she did.
If I am upset, my post will not have such language.

YE

[laodi123456789]

Bro Youngeric

Well it seems that you have highlighted the issue that Sweety Gal Swee is a bit unreliable. Thank you for sharing that with us. If its a thing where she is often unreliable I am sure other bros will report in here now or in the future.

One thing is that if a gal is doing FL she dun need to hold to any service standard such as flying aeroplane since there is no law for or against flying aeroplanes. In this case it comes down to market forces. If she fly aeroplane then she will suffer loss of business since dissatisifed potential customers will share their views - just as you have. Some gers are sotong and others are considerate. Ahh life's rich tapestry.

[Optimus_Prime]

Originally Posted by youngeric

As to the "trend" you are referring to, I feel that many here take things for granted.

But why is that so? If everyone feels that, it will always remain the same.
FL will always fly our aeroplanes and dont give a damn because theres more than enough demand.

However, as the party who is wronged and who do speak up, we can create the awareness that such things are wrong. Eventually things will get better once these people know these things will not be tolerated or accepted like in the past.

*OP transform from the beign being to combine with Megatron to form EVIL OP*

Let me put it in simple english...

"U said it once... OK.

U said it twice.... Good reinforced.

U said it 3 times... Isn't 3 times a charm ??

But u said it 101th times (exaggeration but it feels that way)... u are beating a dead rat so much it's only skin and bones."


Bro... if u are so DEFENSIVE over every comment !! It makes you like a LAND MINE... nobody wanna come near u cause a hair could spark u off....

And pls dun go and state other examples from elsewhere.... say this and that... thing is you have SAID TOO MUCH !! This is FreeLancing and Calling of Working Ladies... it's not exactly legal and it's not god-damn ISOS 2001 certified either !!

Jus be the good cheongster that I remember from "Eve" time a few months ago... where u will just post Steamy FRs and make comments abt gals who are good and tell us simply to avoid those that are bad.

And if u think why I care or bother to write so much ?? Cus it really painz to see a samster dwindle down to just a SHOUT BOX... yelling at all the "Unfairness" of how this FL fly him aeroplane and that Okt cheat his timing... hmmm... remind me of a certain WP & SDP Chairman !!

SUCK IT UP Bro !!

[kochie]

well said, bro OP! cheers to u & all fellow samters here!

Want to cheong than accept & follow the rules. no need to shout about this or that. anyway, this is a FL. she is not a call girl who comes when u have $$$. she has a life to live too. com'on, give her some breathing space.

Well said Bro OP, Laodi, Craven, Kool & Kochie!

wan to cheong must accept lor...... if not, then dun cheong lor... so simple!

Bros out there! Tio bo?

[Optimus_Prime]

ATTENTION !!

Sweety has misplaced her SIM card which is why she has not been returning any sms-es and calls for the past few days.


All contacts and names are now lost together with the SIM card.


She will be getting a new SIM card (but the same no.) this weekend. So those with her nos. , pls sms her this saturday or sunday with your sbf id and name so she knows who you are.


As for those trying to contact her but dun have her no. pls read her post below.

Originally Posted by sweety_gal_swee

Hi to all... Many who have pm me, I have requested that you send me an email instead of a pm... and would like to urge all who have sent me a pm or going to send me a pm to send me an email instead... Thank you...

PS: Email addy is [email protected]. Please do state your nick in SBF too... Thanks...

PS: I'm not her OKT, jus a friend helping her out. Those who know me, should know. Oso pls dun PM me for her no. thanx