How to know if she truly loves you or just wants your money

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by ahha2011

Recently my regular wl asked me to buy something for her as a gift, 800+???!!!! I believe she is crazy of asking me that.. with this 800, I can go around 4 session with different wl.. with that, I said to myself, sourcing for other better wl..

WL should never ask any guys to buy anything for them.

Those WLs who gives enough "value" the customer, they don't even need to ask and customer will give them things liao.

[walaueh123]

If the WL speaks your native language i.e. Chinese, offers you raw and cum inside, and tells you her life story, then you better stay as far away from her as you can. Or i guarantee you will sink into a living hell.

Instead of asking whether she likes you, you should count your lucky stars that your are NOT her "boyfriend".

If you like raw then go find a real gf. Even WL themselves will advise you to don't do Raw.

Despite many good intentions and advice, men still fall into this trap. Geylang is littered with men who cleaned themselves out for WL. You think you have a special relationship with her that nobody else does, you are wrong. You are not special. 99.999% of all these relationships are the same.

Go and get a good, slutty, horny bonk. but don't forget to fuck and forget. If you are young, you got time on your side. Use it well. In future when you achieve success, there will be lots of horny, slutty, sexy young ladies queuing up to be your gf.

[lucidlucifer]

Originally Posted by walaueh123

If the WL speaks your native language i.e. Chinese, offers you raw and cum inside, and tells you her life story, then you better stay as far away from her as you can. Or i guarantee you will sink into a living hell.

Instead of asking whether she likes you, you should count your lucky stars that your are NOT her "boyfriend".

If you like raw then go find a real gf. Even WL themselves will advise you to don't do Raw.

Despite many good intentions and advice, men still fall into this trap. Geylang is littered with men who cleaned themselves out for WL. You think you have a special relationship with her that nobody else does, you are wrong. You are not special. 99.999% of all these relationships are the same.

Go and get a good, slutty, horny bonk. but don't forget to fuck and forget. If you are young, you got time on your side. Use it well. In future when you achieve success, there will be lots of horny, slutty, sexy young ladies queuing up to be your gf.

Very nice 👍🏻

[Lawrencegan]

Some of the signs I have encountered

For dome 1 girls, they will either ask you to book last slot of the day or they will tell you to come to them after they are done (applies to ladies who stay in hotels) and then you stay the night with them for free. They will happily use their own money to buy ticket to meet you in another country for example malaysia just to see you after they go back. All these before they start asking you to send them money for which you don’t have to send… and see if they will continue talking to you..

For geylang girls, some of the signs are, they refuse to let you tip them, refuse to let you give them extra money unless it’s their birthday. They may even pay bosses to extend slot with you since it’s cheaper for them to do it this way to rest but also for them to spend time with someone they like. They will even tell okt in advance that you are coming to ensure that they serve you and not some other walk in customer. Some will cook for you or prepare some snacks for you in advance, others will spray room with nice perfume as you know the rooms can get quite smelly after a whole day of workers in and out (pun intended)

Now whether they do it out of love or simply out of loneliness, no one actually knows…. Only time will tell. I ever encountered a dome 1 fl who went back already did all the above, I even stayed at her place for a week in bangkok and had a good one week worth of banging and nice home cooked Thai food. Paid her some allowance only. She started asking for more money due to ‘problems’ but I sent some only. She still continues to talk to me till this day.

[Penofthewest]

It is possible to fall in love with a whore (defined loosely as GL WL, ML, sugar babe, siamdiu girl, ktv girl) and for them to also fall in love with you. Ultimately if there isn’t any single shred of emotion, you won’t go back to the same girl. It’s the gray area between having some liking and falling heads over heels that chiongsters have to balance. Sometimes we just want to feel alive, and the process of liking a WL girl helps that, but you have to be mature enough and know when to cut it.

When you’re in your 30s and beyond, it is not just as simple as liking someone. Even if you’re financially capable of supporting a WL, it’s not as simple as just doing it for her. Are you ready to be in a relationship with someone at that age? Even if you’re single, do you really want a relationship with anyone? It is not as simple as emotions, we are not 18 year olds and we have to make LIFE choices.

Even if you decide to be in a relationship with her, you have to be man enough to ignore the fact that she once saw 1000 different dicks, and had orgasms with many different men, or swallowed the cum of many different balls. If you’re someone financially capable of supporting a WL, chances are your ego won’t allow you to accept this fact fully.

All women eventually become the same in terms of sex appeal and hot romance. Once in a while we run into a whore that tugs at our heartstrings. I say go for it, play with it for a while, and know you have to end it. The falling in love and termination of a short lived relationship can keep you alive. It can make you feel human and expose you to the full range of emotions you once felt when you’re young. But you have to end it. Because you’re not young anymore and life is more than a rainbow of different emotions.

[Triple_H]

what 3 things makes a person happy in life. First, someone to love, second something you like to do, third something to look forward to everyday.

No matter what issue we are talking about. Its about the feeling you have for yourself. Yes i spend more money now after i started visiting GL. Does it makes me happy? Yes of cos. money can earn back but happiness is not easily achieved.

The issue about falling in love with girls at GL i feel is the same for every single girls out there. nowadays dating also not easy, because girls now choosy also, i met many when i sign up for dating agency.

Follow your heart, but always think of the consequences and make sure you can tank it.

Just my 2 Cents. i am not married and no GF, seen many things i life. Live for yourself bah, not under other people criticism or comments. IF you die, you die. no regrets

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by walaueh123

If the WL speaks your native language i.e. Chinese, offers you raw and cum inside, and tells you her life story, then you better stay as far away from her as you can. Or i guarantee you will sink into a living hell.

Instead of asking whether she likes you, you should count your lucky stars that your are NOT her "boyfriend".

If you like raw then go find a real gf. Even WL themselves will advise you to don't do Raw.

Despite many good intentions and advice, men still fall into this trap. Geylang is littered with men who cleaned themselves out for WL. You think you have a special relationship with her that nobody else does, you are wrong. You are not special. 99.999% of all these relationships are the same.

Go and get a good, slutty, horny bonk. but don't forget to fuck and forget. If you are young, you got time on your side. Use it well. In future when you achieve success, there will be lots of horny, slutty, sexy young ladies queuing up to be your gf.

Agree to a certain extend. I guess there will be exception.

If wanna do RAW in peace, just go get yourself "PrEP" at DSC. This will NOT prevent STD but will make you immune to HIV.

As for the getting slutty sexy young ladies, this one really depends. Usually it will end up with WLs. Because normal SG gals will probably NOT be able to give the same sexual experience most of the time.

Take for example, CIM + swallow, how many SG gals are willing to do it?

Anyway, let's hope more good WLs will come to SG who willl provide good service.

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by Lawrencegan

Some of the signs I have encountered

For dome 1 girls, they will either ask you to book last slot of the day or they will tell you to come to them after they are done (applies to ladies who stay in hotels) and then you stay the night with them for free. They will happily use their own money to buy ticket to meet you in another country for example malaysia just to see you after they go back. All these before they start asking you to send them money for which you don’t have to send… and see if they will continue talking to you..

For geylang girls, some of the signs are, they refuse to let you tip them, refuse to let you give them extra money unless it’s their birthday. They may even pay bosses to extend slot with you since it’s cheaper for them to do it this way to rest but also for them to spend time with someone they like. They will even tell okt in advance that you are coming to ensure that they serve you and not some other walk in customer. Some will cook for you or prepare some snacks for you in advance, others will spray room with nice perfume as you know the rooms can get quite smelly after a whole day of workers in and out (pun intended)

Now whether they do it out of love or simply out of loneliness, no one actually knows…. Only time will tell. I ever encountered a dome 1 fl who went back already did all the above, I even stayed at her place for a week in bangkok and had a good one week worth of banging and nice home cooked Thai food. Paid her some allowance only. She started asking for more money due to ‘problems’ but I sent some only. She still continues to talk to me till this day.

Wah! You must be very yantao lor. Wish got your kind of luck leh.

Can share how long liao and she still keep in contact with you?

[Lawrencegan]

Not Yandao 1.65mn and abit pudgy at 70kg. You just need to find the right girl with the right chemistry

The lady that I have been in contact with about 15 months already.

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by Triple_H

what 3 things makes a person happy in life. First, someone to love, second something you like to do, third something to look forward to everyday.

No matter what issue we are talking about. Its about the feeling you have for yourself. Yes i spend more money now after i started visiting GL. Does it makes me happy? Yes of cos. money can earn back but happiness is not easily achieved.

The issue about falling in love with girls at GL i feel is the same for every single girls out there. nowadays dating also not easy, because girls now choosy also, i met many when i sign up for dating agency.

Follow your heart, but always think of the consequences and make sure you can tank it.

Just my 2 Cents. i am not married and no GF, seen many things i life. Live for yourself bah, not under other people criticism or comments. IF you die, you die. no regrets

The 3 things you mentioned is SO TRUE! Guess ALL men's 3rd thing is the same. LOL!

Yes. YOLO. We don't know whether we will wake up tomorrow.

Personally, I feel that for SG gals, those that easy to date and less expectation, probably not chio busty enough. Those chio busty one, sex may not be so good also. Dating is in Singapore is not easy. The gals have really high expectation. But for men, what we want is chio busty gal who is gentle and caring towards us and who can give us pornstar sex.

Then you find one that is chio busty but you need to have the $$ to splurge and maybe don't get to even hold their hands.

I always tell people, guy knows a gal, have sex first, if sexually compatible, then see whether can be together. If sexually not compatible, then just end liao. Say so much for what?

Yes. Live our life without regrets.

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by Penofthewest

It is possible to fall in love with a whore (defined loosely as GL WL, ML, sugar babe, siamdiu girl, ktv girl) and for them to also fall in love with you. Ultimately if there isn’t any single shred of emotion, you won’t go back to the same girl. It’s the gray area between having some liking and falling heads over heels that chiongsters have to balance. Sometimes we just want to feel alive, and the process of liking a WL girl helps that, but you have to be mature enough and know when to cut it.

When you’re in your 30s and beyond, it is not just as simple as liking someone. Even if you’re financially capable of supporting a WL, it’s not as simple as just doing it for her. Are you ready to be in a relationship with someone at that age? Even if you’re single, do you really want a relationship with anyone? It is not as simple as emotions, we are not 18 year olds and we have to make LIFE choices.

Even if you decide to be in a relationship with her, you have to be man enough to ignore the fact that she once saw 1000 different dicks, and had orgasms with many different men, or swallowed the cum of many different balls. If you’re someone financially capable of supporting a WL, chances are your ego won’t allow you to accept this fact fully.

All women eventually become the same in terms of sex appeal and hot romance. Once in a while we run into a whore that tugs at our heartstrings. I say go for it, play with it for a while, and know you have to end it. The falling in love and termination of a short lived relationship can keep you alive. It can make you feel human and expose you to the full range of emotions you once felt when you’re young. But you have to end it. Because you’re not young anymore and life is more than a rainbow of different emotions.

What we want to feel is : To love and to be loved.
The feeling that somebody is thinking of you and we are thinking of them. Usually alot of sex will brings that feeling of attachment. That is especially how we men are wired. Gals who understand this, will rule the world. LOL!

Yes. What we want is "Lightning could strike" feeling in the movie "Meet Joe Black".

Source :

It is true that it may not be so easy for any men to swallow the fact that the gal has gave pleasure to so many other men and that she was a literally a "pleasure machine" to any men who paid but given time, it may become acceptable. But I guess, it is the choice of whoever, there is no right and no wrong. Who are we to judge?

Life is short. YOLO. Be happy.

[Triple_H]

Originally Posted by bradpitt968

The 3 things you mentioned is SO TRUE! Guess ALL men's 3rd thing is the same. LOL!

Yes. YOLO. We don't know whether we will wake up tomorrow.

Personally, I feel that for SG gals, those that easy to date and less expectation, probably not chio busty enough. Those chio busty one, sex may not be so good also. Dating is in Singapore is not easy. The gals have really high expectation. But for men, what we want is chio busty gal who is gentle and caring towards us and who can give us pornstar sex.

Then you find one that is chio busty but you need to have the $$ to splurge and maybe don't get to even hold their hands.

I always tell people, guy knows a gal, have sex first, if sexually compatible, then see whether can be together. If sexually not compatible, then just end liao. Say so much for what?

Yes. Live our life without regrets.

Social media destroying the society, last time is not like this. Its sad but times changed, we have to change too

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by Triple_H

what 3 things makes a person happy in life. First, someone to love, second something you like to do, third something to look forward to everyday.

No matter what issue we are talking about. Its about the feeling you have for yourself. Yes i spend more money now after i started visiting GL. Does it makes me happy? Yes of cos. money can earn back but happiness is not easily achieved.

The issue about falling in love with girls at GL i feel is the same for every single girls out there. nowadays dating also not easy, because girls now choosy also, i met many when i sign up for dating agency.

Follow your heart, but always think of the consequences and make sure you can tank it.

Just my 2 Cents. i am not married and no GF, seen many things i life. Live for yourself bah, not under other people criticism or comments. IF you die, you die. no regrets

Actually, I want to go to GL less and chionging in general, it made me overspent and lost interest doing things I like to do. Of course, sometimes I still want to experience the various kind of special fun overseas. But now the more stressful I felt, the more I went to GL, cuz stress is another problem itself. I don't have much things to look forward to, I wanted a less complicated life, but this is a problem. Many ladies don't want a guy like this. I didn't go to GL just because I want sex, I didn't even care if I can cum there or not. I just wanted to have someone to keep me company, relax and take away the stress that other people are giving me. Touching, hugging, caressing and DFK are very relaxing for me, that's why I need to find WLs who can provide these and gives very good gfe. Treating the WLs nicely during the session is the best way to get good gfe. The sex is just to avoid doing DIY as much as possible, you can see I didn't care much about this part in my FRs.

The part about falling in love with these ladies, I don't have this feeling, though I did felt a loss when Momo RTC. She gave the best gfe at that time, but now there are so many very good WLs in GL who can give excellent gfe. My problem now is with my regular PRC ML, she makes time outside of work to keep me company and gives me better gfe than what the WLs can give me. I spent much effort to develop chemistry with her to this stage. I don't know how exactly she feels about me, I'm afraid it will become too deep, but at the same time, these feelings are probably the reason for the better gfe feel. I won't help her directly with her issues, but I will still tip her normally. Not sure what happens in future.

I've also tried dating agency. Finding someone to love is difficult here for me. The girls may be choosy, but we are choosy too. Not to mention, they don't have the type of girls I wanted. The basic requirement to sign up already tell me that the kind of girls I want will be rare here. I don't have high requirements, they can't meet my requirements because I wanted someone below their standards. There are plenty of such girls around in the form of FWs, but we can't have them easily. I wanted a very simple woman who don't need much to feel satisfied.

[Triple_H]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

I've also tried dating agency. Finding someone to love is difficult here for me. The girls may be choosy, but we are choosy too. Not to mention, they don't have the type of girls I wanted. The basic requirement to sign up already tell me that the kind of girls I want will be rare here. I don't have high requirements, they can't meet my requirements because I wanted someone below their standards. There are plenty of such girls around in the form of FWs, but we can't have them easily. I wanted a very simple woman who don't need much to feel satisfied.

Just remember dont chase things that are not yours, if its yours , it will come back. Dont force , dont hope, let it flow. I agreed about visiting geylang to tame your loneliness. I too also want more gfe, we all are different. End of the day , do what you like and feel whats best. Play safe stay safe. Always think about yourself first.

I dont blame girls that are asking for too much from guys, end of the day they cant find what they want is not my problem. They suffer not me. I enjoying my time now which is the most important.

[GN007SG]

Originally Posted by Triple_H

Social media destroying the society, last time is not like this. Its sad but times changed, we have to change too

actually i feel is just advancement of technology changing society as a whole

also women getting more educated is actually kind of bad
as the saying goes 女子无才便是德
if we wan gender equality in our era, we will lose something elsewhere