Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Goldenhair]

SS and KT, I apologise again if my doubts offended anyone. But I really don't think she will be tempted la. Just voicing out my fears and doubts. Long distance r/s really hard sia...after all 2 weeks in sg, 2 weeks in HCM...I don't know can work out or not. But these doubts do cross my mind sometimes. I can't help it. But you guys have VN wives already and are blissfully married. I want that too. But too many heartbreak stories already...sometimes the more I read, the more I scare sia..Hope you guys understand...

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by SureScore

What happened? Your posts recently full of frustrations and anger?

He must has reached the time of the month

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Goldenhair

sometimes the more I read, the more I scare sia..Hope you guys understand...

read less and best is don't log in
follow your heart

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

read less and best is don't log in
follow your heart

Good advice. Quit SBF completely.

[deptrai4u]

Originally Posted by Goldenhair

SS and KT, I apologise again if my doubts offended anyone. But I really don't think she will be tempted la. Just voicing out my fears and doubts. Long distance r/s really hard sia...after all 2 weeks in sg, 2 weeks in HCM...I don't know can work out or not. But these doubts do cross my mind sometimes. I can't help it. But you guys have VN wives already and are blissfully married. I want that too. But too many heartbreak stories already...sometimes the more I read, the more I scare sia..Hope you guys understand...

The more u scared of heartbreaks, the more u likely to get it!

Have no fear!!!

[Goldenhair]

My fellow pals in VN says I think too much. Just go with the flow and see how. I think they are right. lately things have kinda settled down liao. Think both of us trust each other a little bit more liao...^^ This 21st May planned a Con dao getaway for just the 2 of us till 23rd then meet the rest from SBF pals for dinner.

I read SBF to see who else have encountered r/s problems and how to solved it. If possible, anticipate and prevent needless frictions between my girl and me due to cultural differences. Since I decided not to open the eatery biz liao, she decided she will work as a salesgirl or something just to kill time since she don't really need the money with me supporting her and stuff. So far so good la..hehehe....

[volcano]

Originally Posted by Goldenhair

My fellow pals in VN says I think too much. Just go with the flow and see how. I think they are right. lately things have kinda settled down liao. Think both of us trust each other a little bit more liao...^^ This 21st May planned a Con dao getaway for just the 2 of us till 23rd then meet the rest from SBF pals for dinner.

I read SBF to see who else have encountered r/s problems and how to solved it. If possible, anticipate and prevent needless frictions between my girl and me due to cultural differences. Since I decided not to open the eatery biz liao, she decided she will work as a salesgirl or something just to kill time since she don't really need the money with me supporting her and stuff. So far so good la..hehehe....

just go ahead and try with the relationship...just dont commit yourself in anything first and not to have any investment in Vietnam unless u have really know the market..but frankly speaking,for my ownself,after staying for so many years,i still cant fully understand it...

but 1 thing for sure which i believe many bros here will agree is that majority of VN gals are stubborn..(in fact is sibei stubborn from my point of view)

[carmeo88]

Totally agreed.

[Goldenhair]

Thank you guys for all the advice. As with all relationship, I guess you never know until you tried. Frankly, I got good vibes from my girl and me. Now things have settled down a bit as we had passed the initial honeymoon period. So lets see how things go.

As for the eatery venture, still a big consideration over my side seeing that the economy reports differs from independent studies from other countries. But I guess until my sg biz is firm and ok, I will spent more time on it.

Once again thanks all in this thread. All your inputs and opinions are truly valuable to me as I feel I had a lot of catch up to do to understand the VN culture since I decided to commit to the r/s already. Good health and good wealth to all!

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by Goldenhair

This 21st May planned a Con dao getaway for just the 2 of us till 23rd then meet the rest from SBF pals for dinner.

Waiting to hear the FR of the trip. Have never go there before

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by Goldenhair

as I feel I had a lot of catch up to do to understand the VN culture

Think u hv to visit VN more

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Think u hv to visit VN more

He has been visiting Vn...just not learning their culture...only stick to a gal cannot learn the Vietnam culture except her own culture...

[Goldenhair]

hahaha...I have to agree with that H88. Usually I go there, I only go out with her and my own friends. but my own friends usually go bia oms,saloons and so on which she dont accompany to go. haizz...

[impreza69]

Originally Posted by impreza69

9 cans of hanoi beers for you, bros!

Understanding... 04-05-2013 09:55 AM +6 elth

Bros elth who upz me...please identify yourself as I cannot find your nick...to return favour.....cheers!

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by Goldenhair

hahaha...I have to agree with that H88. Usually I go there, I only go out with her and my own friends. but my own friends usually go bia oms,saloons and so on which she dont accompany to go. haizz...

Wasted effort.

You should go there to experience other selections.