Men above 50yrs old, let's talk a bit

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Ask your friend to grow a pair of balls and get a reality slap. He has a defeatist attitude in life. Below 35 is not old, still many single girls out there for him to date. Why give up now? If he cannot hold onto a Singaporean girl, just ask him to date Malaysian girls.

Ask your friend this question. How fast can he run 2.4 km at age 20 and at his current age? He probably runs slower down. Is it due to a lack of desire to run as fast as when he is 20? For most guys, we wish to run as fast as we did in our prime. The desire is there. We just can't do it due to physical limitation. Legs not as strong, lungs and heart also not as good.

The same applies for sex. If a sexy and shapely 23 year old stands naked in front of us. The above 50 years old guys will admire this lady as much as a 25 year old guy. We don't desire less but we know we are limited by physical conditioning. It's just that we don't get erected as fast or can bang her as hard as a younger guy. We also don't recover as well for subsequent shots.

True. Desire never goes away. Even those lau tiko will also try to bua chiobu boobs

[Newbieshag]

Originally Posted by gamerguy

Hi senior bros, I am a younger bro who is seeking advice and would be thankful if any senior bros can advice a bit. Hope you don't mind me hijacking this thread where can easily consult more senior bros.

My friend is below 35 and has trouble getting a girlfriend and predicts that he won't be able to settle down, start a family, etc. He comforts himself in the fact that as he gets older, his libido will drop and he won't want to have sex as frequently as his younger self. Is this true? Will we desire sex less frequently as we hit our 50s, 60s or will we desire sex but encounter more issues getting erect?

Thanks bros for reading and hope to hear your opinion

(FYI, my friend is less attractive, but is a kind guy and doing financially okay too)

For me, my desire didn’t fade, just that my taste whom I wanna have sex changed. Still getting erected after 50s is a matter of diet and exercise.

A few years ago , I still have ed due to medical reasons. But now, with a new playful FB, diligently exercise and controlling my diet , my ED is almost 90% cure.

[rainforestkk]

Originally Posted by Newbieshag

For me, my desire didn’t fade, just that my taste whom I wanna have sex changed. Still getting erected after 50s is a matter of diet and exercise.

A few years ago , I still have ed due to medical reasons. But now, with a new playful FB, diligently exercise and controlling my diet , my ED is almost 90% cure.

Happy for u bro

So proud of u. Keep up the good job bro

I am not 50 yet but late 40s. Problem with 40s is wife not interested in sex anymore since many years. Still exercise is very regular for me. Everyone one here must exercise a lot. It does helps.

[gamerguy]

Originally Posted by Newbieshag

For me, my desire didn’t fade, just that my taste whom I wanna have sex changed. Still getting erected after 50s is a matter of diet and exercise.

A few years ago , I still have ed due to medical reasons. But now, with a new playful FB, diligently exercise and controlling my diet , my ED is almost 90% cure.

Interesting sharing bro. Sounds like sexual desires still strong but getting the little brother going needs a nourishing environment: fun companionship, exercise, proper diet.

[gamerguy]

Originally Posted by Peacekeeping

True. Desire never goes away. Even those lau tiko will also try to bua chiobu boobs

Good tofu everyone want to eat (吃豆腐) haha

[Newbieshag]

Originally Posted by rainforestkk

Happy for you, bro

So proud of u. Keep up the excellent job bro

I am not 50 yet but late 40s. Problem with 40s is wife not interested in sex anymore since many years. Still exercise is very regular for me. Everyone one here must exercise a lot. It does helps.

Thanks bro, I agreed exercise and diet very important.
I was lucky and unlucky to meet this ML whom is very “spontaneous” and “playful” thus reigniting my sex life .

[Newbieshag]

Originally Posted by gamerguy

Interesting sharing bro. Sounds like sexual desires still strong but getting the little brother going needs a nourishing environment: fun companionship, exercise, proper diet.

Yes bro, fun companion is also important too.😉

[titts82002]

Many of the gurus and masters have said them all
Finally it is a combination of many that lead to what we are today respectively .

In my own experience, desires never faced but scopes (focus) changes.
I wish every one healthier and have a better meaningful life.

[LeslieChow]

Originally Posted by rainforestkk

wife not interested in sex anymore since many years

This seems to be quite common theme nowadays

[TingSieSiong]

wife pussy loose and no more feel

[starbucks]

Nice thread. A lot knowledge and experience sharing 👍👍

[fac89]

Good thred here.

Am in my early 40s. Is it common that guys at different stages of life seek different kind of sex?

I recall when i was in my 20s, i just want to fuck anybody that were appealing. Helmet is a must other than gf/flings

At 30s, growing my career, i purely look for FL or ML. No time to waste and nonsense. Helmet is a must.

Currently in 40s, i only want to have sex with ppl i know. Can be friends, colleagues etc. Dislike helmet lol.

Is this common? Are senior bro here experiencing the same?

[Johnny]

Interestingly I have the same trajectory as you! What really struck me was the last section. People we know! Please don’t judge but I find myself looking for FB or connections with people I know. But still not very successful cos maybe I don’t pursue hard enough or they not daring enough knowing of my marital status.

I think this is an interesting topic in itself.

Edit: spelling

Originally Posted by fac89

Good thred here.

Am in my early 40s. Is it common that guys at different stages of life seek different kind of sex?

I recall when i was in my 20s, i just want to fuck anybody that were appealing. Helmet is a must other than gf/flings

At 30s, growing my career, i purely look for FL or ML. No time to waste and nonsense. Helmet is a must.

Currently in 40s, i only want to have sex with ppl i know. Can be friends, colleagues etc. Dislike helmet lol.

Is this common? Are senior bro here experiencing the same?

[bensticker]

Originally Posted by jonn88

I understand once you start TRT, your body will stop producing testosterone.

I am trying out some supplement now, bladder control to stop frequent urination and Tongkat Ali to improve energy level.

What tongkatali u taking? I using songkok tongkat ali coffee. Haha

[jonn88]

Originally Posted by bensticker

What tongkatali u taking? I using songkok tongkat ali coffee. Haha

VitaHealth Stami Man - it contain tongkat Ali but not much effect, maybe dosage is low.

Tongkat Ali coffee may contain other substance that is not declare, I will avoid.